Please be careful with my heart!
By Daisy_22
@Daisy_22 (1229)
Philippines
August 20, 2012 4:12pm CST
To whom are you going to tell please be careful with my heart?
Are those words really mean to be utter to your partner?Or simply it should be keep clinging on your mind?
This trigger me to make a discussion since just a few minutes ago when I woke up this is the song that open up my day...And i came to realize what if I had told him before to be careful with my heart,is he still going to break it apart.........But another part of my mind told me that if you love you should learn to trust..
How about your experiences? Good morning and happy mylotting!
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7 responses
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
20 Aug 12
I guess anyone that you begin to have strong feelings for you would wish for them to be carefull with your heart. The thing is, I dont think that I would really tell them to be carefull with my heart. The reason being that the person that you are falling for will most likely tell you that they would never hurt you. They would not see this as being something that they would do becuase everthing is fresh and new. Maybe to just get it out and released from your heart a poem might help to place it out there and you would not think about it to much.
Happy mylotting
~C~
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
23 Aug 12
I think I can;t tell this to any guy. It is up to them if they will really be careful with my heart. Although I would love to tell any guy that loves me never to hurt me, we still never know one day they will be capable of hurting us also.
@ElicBxn (63638)
• United States
21 Aug 12
I met a guy I really liked. He was sweet and attentive when he was around.
However, I had already figured out that relationships aren't a one way street. You should consider them like an investment account.
If you invest "X" amount of your heart, is he going to reciprocate with a like amount?
I'm not saying that it should be 50/50. But it sure shouldn't be 70/30, no matter who is holding out...
After I had known him a while, I figured out that he was only ever going to be able to give me 10%. I sure wasn't going to invest even 20% on that bet and backed off any more investment.
Now, 25 years later he's still a friend, he still gives only 10%, but when he's with you he give 90% or more, its just he can't commit to anything long term.
I can live with that with a friend, but not a romantic interest. I'm happy with what he can give me and enjoy every minute with him. And I enjoy every minute without him too, because I knew not to invest in a relationship that couldn't work.
As a happily single woman I can state for a fact that a man can't make you happy if you aren't already happy with yourself.
@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Aug 12
I think that when I was young and dating the 'bad boys' I may have said that phrase. I don't think you would need to say it to a life partner unless you had self-esteem problems or was unsure. It sounds like something said in our youth. I am old! I wouldn't bother with the phrase anymore.
@Ladybugs (404)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Hello Daisy. Happy Tuesday to you. :) I'm going to say "Please be careful with my heart" to my boyfriend. I just want to remind him that he should be careful with my heart so I wouldn't be hurt again and again just like before. For now, I think he already knows how to take care of my heart. Though sometimes, he still does some things that could hurt me, my feelings. I think he didn't intend to do those things but still I feel bad.
I love this part of the song, "You are my first romance and I'm willing to take a chance." It applies to my relationship with him because he's my first romance. He's my first boyfriend. So he should take care of this fragile heart of mine. I hope he would continue loving me because I'm always true with him, right from the very start. I'll also be careful with his heart so he would do the same.
Oh, it's good you were able to hear this wonderful song this morning. It's just so sweet. You're also right in what you've said, if we love, we should learn how to trust. Maybe, even without saying this line to other people or to our beloved, when they really love or treasure us, they would really be careful with our hearts without us saying anything like this. Let's just handle the hearts of others with care so they would also do the same. Good day. Happy myLotting. :)
@toniganzon (72517)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
I have never told anybody that. People who loved me had done so with all sincerity. Getting hurt is associated with love because if we don't get hurt it means we don't love.
I am lucky that I feel secure with my love.
@nesquikka (12)
• Italy
20 Aug 12
I don't think I'm ever going to say that to anybody, mostly because I've always had bad experiences when it comes to relationships and I tend to be very pessimistic now. Anytime I start a relationship I tend to think it's going to end pretty soon and that the dude will eventually show his true nature and tell me he was only fooling around. By being this negative I always tell myself I'm just saving myself from suffering again and saying such a thing to a man would make me feel weaker. I know it's a twisted thought, I'm weird :P