Are you too nice to people who really don't deserve it?

My nature of trying to be nice has gotten me trampled on many a time. There are people who are just so mean. They don't deserve to have people be nice to them when all they are going to do is verbally abuse them!

no not at all

If someone is being a jerk to me, I couldn't care less. It's not worth my time to get upset, and it doesn't benefit me in any way. There's enough anger in the world, and anger begets anger. If someone is being nasty to someone else, however, I will try to diffuse the situation or defend the person who is being wrongfully treated if they themselves are not standing up for themselves. Or, I use humour-an example would be standing behind a customer in line at a store who is giving the cashier a hard time. The cashier is already feeling centred out enough without me causing the jerk to continue his/her behaviour, so I'll stand behind them and mimic what they're doing or step in front of them with my purchases.

Yes, I am. I try to be nice, shower them with kindness.

I am nice to everyone, as long as they respect me.

welll sometimes....but cant help