many visitors in the house,,,,

I like guests coming to my home. But when the number of people increases and if it happens all-of-a-sudden, means unexpectedly, I may be in a panic that we need to make arrangements for them. Food, rest and entertain them is an issue where there is not much space for them to accomodate peacefully. Earlier I had a big house to accommodate as many as 15-20, but now I got a small house and the inconveniiences got increased. However, depened on who's the guest, it will change the mood. If the guests are just good frineds and known people for a long time, there is no tension, they will adjust with me, as long as they know me well and they understnads. However, if they are just guests, I prefer to keep the hospitality in a required manner so that they should not feel they are ignored. But I will treat them well as much as I can, whoever they are.

If that's the case, then I need my room.Its a weird thing but I hate to see crowd in our home most especially when its my rest time most especially when that crowd was my brother's visitor. But I love to bring my friends in our home and do some happy happenings.lol.

If there are visitors at home, i would still be polite. Whenever my husband brings visitor, i try my best to serve all of them nicely as i know it will reflect back on my husband. more often, they are pleased with what i can cook.

I don't like crowd. I am not a party goer and I don't attend celebration that often unless with very close relatives. I do throw a party at home during special occasions but only with selected friends. I am friendly, but have some reservation with strangers. So, I don't feel comfortable much with unknown people especially with first acquaintances.

No, I wouldn't feel comfortable moving around if there are people in the house that I don't know. I guess I'll be civil to them since they are guests but that's all. I can't approach them or have chit chat with them if i'm not really close to them. Actually, my tendency would be to greet them and then excuse myself and stay inside my room until they're all gone. I don't know, maybe I'm not cut out for those things. :)

Some years ago when my FIL was live lots of guest was came in my home some time feel happy but when they decide to live more days I feel tired and anger also.

I dont like having so many guests at my home at a time...and that too till 12 midnight? Are they relatives or friends? If friends its ok but if they are relatives I dont even come out of my room after a round of smile and a few talks...but what are they doing till 12 midnight?

I don't like having a lot of people in our home. I love privacy and consider our home the only place where I move freely and enjoy doing things without anybody looking over my shoulders. I'm annoyed at too much noise to hence, i really can't appreciate the idea of having other people in our home.

I am an introvert so having too many people at home drains my energy. I usually go in my room if there are visitor especially if I do not know them personally. If I will be called to be introduced, I make sure I don't stay long unless they have some good topic that we can discuss. I usually make excuses so that I can leave but I am civil, I still smile and greet. I just don't talk that much. But if those visitors are acting as if they own the house like they are screaming, yelling and making unnecessary noise, I would definitely ignore them. I would just pass but won't look at all.

I am quite talkative and sociable so I dont have a hard tome dealing with visitors. Usually friends or visitors of my siblings are people who i knew too so no adjustment or hard time dealing and talking with them. So going or moving aroud the house with visitors is quite okay with me.

I am not into social gatherings and socializing. If we're having a party, I would prefer it to be with those close friends and family only. If there are other visitors in the house, I will still take the time and effort to greet them and welcome them in our home but that's just about it. I am not really a people person and I still prefer small circles.

I enjoy my privacy when I am home, I always meet some people outside the house. But if the guests stay until late at night, I will tell my sister in the morning to warn the guests that staying late at night isn't a good manner at all. My sister's friend ever came to my house from 3 pm until 11 am and it was all of sudden ( my sister never been told about the visitting) . I only greet her at the first time - but when we had dinner ( she joined at the dinner and make the dinner so uncomfortable because she talked a lot, urrghhh..) I didn't look at her. At least - they have told us about the visitting and they know what is the right time of visitting - then I will talk to them nicely . Just asking about their activies (school, etc.) or even offer some snacks . But then I will give them their privacy .

All that you need to do is say hello when they came in and respond to them if they start a conversation with you but the bottom line is that they came to visit your sister and it is her responsibility to play host to them. Just make sure that you are clean and dressed appropriately so that you may not be embarrassed but go ahead with your day and don't let it bother you. This may just be a beginning of her hosting her friends over so it is good to learn how not to be bothered by it.

i do not really like a lot of people in my house because i like my own privacy especially if i do not know them i will not comfortable with it.i think i will just say hi to them and talk as needed because we will have to appreciate the other people even if we do not know them

No, I am not really into having many visitors. My house is only big enough for my own family and I enjoy privacy... Having visitors every now and then is nice, and I'd just approach them cordially.