do u feel jealous when u see the guy/girl u love talking with other girl/guy?^^

boy and girl holding each other - boy is holding girl close to him
Portugal
August 21, 2012 7:32am CST
hi guys i was just wondering. if you see the guy/girl you love talking with other girl/guy do you feel jealous? about me if i saw the guy i like talking with other girl very happy i would feel a bit jealous^^ maybe im very insecure but i guess its normal to feel that way^^ who loves is always a bit insecure^^ sure i wouldnt over react or something but inside i would feel a bit jealous what about you guys? please share
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
21 Aug 12
it depends...if I knew the girl than maybe I wouldn't feel jelous. a relationship is mainly bulit on thrust. but when you love is normal to feel a little bit jealous
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• Portugal
21 Aug 12
yes you are right. if you knew the girl maybe you wouldnt be jealous. but i mean we never know. cause sadly many people seem to be one thing and then they are other. but anyway i guess you are right trust is very important. but its not that we dont trust. its just that when you see the boy you like talking too happy with other girl i dont know. i guess its normal we girls to feel insecure^^ unless your bf is very sweet and always show you his love^^ but is hard to find a guy super romantic.
@shibham (16977)
• India
21 Aug 12
No never coz there are many relations between a guy and girt. May be bro-sis, friend, cousin and so on. Its is stupidity to have doubt on meeting/talking each other. Have a nice time.
• Portugal
21 Aug 12
i said if you saw your bf or gf talking with other girl or boy like in a intimate way. laughing a lot together and things like that. you didnt understand what i asked here. of course there are many relations between boys and girls. but i said in the case you see your gf talking very intimate with a man like laughing much and talking too much. for sure many people would feel jealous and insecure seeing this. this isnt stupid. it is only human behavior.
• Mexico
26 Aug 12
Hi sweet love forever: It really depends on the situation. If it's just a friendly talk I think there's no reason to feel jealous. But if I feel that it's too closer I might feel jealous and in that case I would ask for an explanation. Sometimes jealousy is just natural when you are loving someone and it means you care about your relationship. ALVARO
@chum24 (569)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
hi!! it depends on the situation. if my boyfriend talking to her some relatives(girls) or to my friends and classmates i would not get jealous. but if he is talking to other whom i don't know i'm pretty sure i'm jealous. i really can't avoid even though i love him and i trust him. sometimes i do over react but my boyfriend hug me.
@NailTech (6874)
• United States
23 Aug 12
Well, it would depend. At my age jealousy doesn't really get to me as much anymore. And it would depend on his amount of happiness. I know a friend of mine whose dating a girl much younger than me who sometimes still calls me and we're just good friends. His GF is really jealous so I'm sure if he told her (I don't know if he does as we never discuss it or her) she might be jealous. Its just that we've been friends for so long now and it wouldn't be right to just cut off all relations just cause you're involved with a girlfriend, what if the relationship doesn't work out and then you have no friends, right? I don't see him as anything other than a close friend either as we met due to our health issues and he has always said we will always be friends no matter what. He is like an older (good) brother to me in most ways.
• United States
22 Aug 12
The first guy I ever fell commpletely head over heels in love with, I still have to see all the time even though he isnt mine anymore. I loved him like crazy, and still do. Unfortunately he two-timed me with a girl from my basketball and volleyball team, so I see them together ALL the time. It hurts pretty bad, and of course jealous. But, I had to let him free. It's very weird and awkward for both of us sometimes cause we both know how it used to be. I've gotten mre tolerable. When it comes to the games, You just kick a*s and show him what he's missing, that's the best part
@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
22 Aug 12
I admit to being a very jealous type of person so seeing the one I love talking to another girl tends to bring on a feeling of jealous rage in my heart. I don't know what has caused this completely, a lot of it is insecurity but it's also from being the youngest child as I'm so used to getting all the attention.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Hello sweetloveforeve, No i do not get jealous when I see my husband talking to other girl because he is a very friendly person and most of the people loves and likes him. Most of the time when I am visiting him to his office most of his co-worker talking to him , laughing together and enjoying each other company because they are very comfortable with my husband. But I admit there are times that I get jealous especially if some girls really trying to get his attention and shows some interest to him.
21 Aug 12
It is not unnatural to feel a bit jealous if I see my girl friend or wife talking to other guys. However, it might be just harmless talk. Human mind can be very suspicious and misinterpret things that is just quite different than our suspicious minds think of.
@mikej143 (309)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
well that would depend on the intention of the guy or the girl, the enemy is just like a thief it would not say to us I will get Him/her to destroy your relationship but the intention matter and self-control on it.
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
For me, it really depends on who he is talking. If I don't know who's that girl, or someone whom I never met, and they like they were really close, or even not, I usually get jealous. But I would not show it to him, I will ask him who she is. Then with his reason I try to understand it, I am still jealous but I do not want my jealousy to be a start of our misunderstand or arguments.
@Oktavist (396)
• Romania
21 Aug 12
I don't feel jealous when I see the girl I like talking to another man.I had a time when I felt quite jealous,reaching the point of hating the girl talk to him.I was young,and it passed. I think you shouldn't stress yourself this much.Although it's a natural feeling,it doesn't do anything good for you,so you can just as easily teach yourself not to care,doing a good for yourself.
21 Aug 12
I love my partner and trust him so much so I don't feel very jealous because I know how much he loves me and only me but yes, I couldn't help but feel a tiny bit jealous especially if he was having fun. I suppose it is normal but I just remind myself how much he loves me and that it doesn't matter and that I'm not the only person in the world and that he has to talk to other people. Trust is so important.
• Jamaica
21 Aug 12
it depends on how they are behaving. i don't who the person is and as far as i am concern that could be anybody. i watch the body language and facial expressions and if i don't like what i see then i allow myself to be jealous.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
jealous of course but not in a way of insecurity. Jealous in a way of hoping that i am that person who she is talking too instead of others. I stalk a lot when i was young to the person i like. Not stalk to the extent of following her or something. STalk in a way of asking a lot about her. Even if she does not talk to me, as long as i know what she likes or something like that
• India
21 Aug 12
Hi friend, this kind of jealousy is called possessiveness in love, most of the persons who are loving sincerely their beloved persons will get jealous and possessiveness when they saw their beloved person is talking with some other person, you are right, it is the form of insecurity, as we don't know when we get crush with some one