Living happy
By roshigo58
@roshigo58 (4859)
Pune, India
August 21, 2012 9:09am CST
Some years back we employed a maid servant to wash cloths, utensils and overall cleaning work at house. As the time passed we came to know that she is alone. Last year she lost her mother. She is a divorcee.Her husband has divorced her for no mistake of hers. The only mistake was not having a baby. But it is really surprising to see that she never minds it at all and stays happily always. As far as possible her nature is very helping. She likes to talk much and share her all good,bad moments with others. Sometimes we do get bored by her continuous talking. But that is the only time pass of her lonely life to gather as many persons as she can. She is a perfect example of living happily in any circumstances that is what i feel.
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29 responses
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
22 Aug 12
hi roshigo,
that is also gods gift,even she does not have any body parents,husband and children, she is always happy ,but her happiness is talking with the people, i am having all the members,still i am happy with my net and system,as i do not have any out side work,so i am also happy with no worry only one worry no money,have a nice day.
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
23 Aug 12
hi roshigo,
thanks for the response, my policy is not to hurt any body with talks and in works,so if you cannot help others ,but do not harm them it is the help you are doing to others by not hurting them, so be happy and do good things every time,i am not selfish man, i can satisfy with any thing,that is my mentality,have a nice day.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
23 Aug 12
Hi,
You are right. Money is very important in our life. We should not be selfish for money but enough money is necessary. Be happy and make others happy. Thank you for the response.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
22 Aug 12
hi, very limited people have that kind of nature , of forgetting everything and living happily with what ever they have and is given by god, for hers no mistake she is suffering, she could have had got married to some other good person, if kids were the problem she can even adopt a child from any orphanage.Problems would be there however the solutions are in our hand.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
22 Aug 12
i hope she gets a good husband and lives a happy life, as she is a good hearted person she would be blessed with definetly a good life.Hope everything good happens in her life.@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Yes thanks for a better advice and good response. She is thinking of re marriage.
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@adforme (2114)
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21 Aug 12
I would come to believe that this woman has not always been in a good place. She has had her ups and downs. Actually, this is quite normal. I would imagine that you possibly consider her attitude abnormal. Well, not really. She strikes me as strong and capable of handling the ups and downs of life. As long as she lives, life will be life. She knows this, understands this, and is happy to take the good with the bad.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Hi,
you are right. She is capable of handling ups and downs in her life. There is no option for her because there is no one to support her, Thank you for the response.
@bellis716 (4799)
• United States
23 Aug 12
If she does good work as well as having a pleasant personality, you are blessed to have her.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
23 Aug 12
Hi,
Yes, she does good work and very simple. Thank you for the response.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
22 Aug 12
Have you ever asked her how it is she can be so happy in her circumstance? Maybe there is something you can learn from her. Also, are you sure she is so happy and cheerful? Maybe she just puts on a cheery face while working to make her days pass better. The continuous talking you describe could be a means of covering her discomfort.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
23 Aug 12
Hi,
You are right. May be she pretending to be happy but she may not be happy. Thank you for the response.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Aug 12
There are so many times in our lives where it looks like it wouldn't be possible for a person to be happy. However, this is never something that is the truth as long as a person is able to think about the happy things in their lives.
It is clear to me from hearing about the lady that you have helping to clean your house that this lady is one of those rare people in the world that is able to find pleasure in every aspect of her life. What a great gift she has.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
23 Aug 12
Hi,
She always find pleasure in small things in life and try to remain happy. thank you for the response.
@leateagee (3667)
• China
22 Aug 12
That's very nice of your family to welcome her in your home. Not a lot of families can keep a house help for a long time. In my opinion, that her choice to live happily. Life isn't always what we wanted them to be. We just have to decide how we are going to deal with any situations we are having at the moment.
In my opinion, she just wants to be happy and whatever life offers her every day she will make the most out of it. She certainly knows how to deal with life's challenges. You are lucky to have her in your family.
@sarameastrong (826)
• Surrey, British Columbia
22 Aug 12
wow..she is a great example that must other people may not lost their hope in living with joy in this world behind the obstacles and bad events in their lives ..i do really appreciate her behavior and must say an amazing woman.however eventhough i am just reading the story about this girl, i can still feel the loneliness inside her but she is really strong and hunble and thats why she knows how to hide and bear happy living without letting others disappoint her.
we dont have the same story but i can relate my sadness to her.huhu
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Thanks for the response. Really she is definitely a great example for others.
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
happy for her that she choose to be happy than to be depressed.
Well i guess its up to us how we want to live our life. God Bless to her!
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Yes really she did and she definitely deserves it. Thanks for the response and share.be in touch.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Welcome to Mylot and chating and sharing. Yes you are right.Thanks for the good response. be in touch.
@dehnnmark711 (54)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
We should be always positive in spite of problems. Sometimes we often seek for happiness in order to live. But why not trying to live to be happy. Discouragement is a choice.And wait God loves us, only in Him we can find joy, and joy is more than happiness. I'm so blessed to hear the story of your maid.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
First of all welcome to Mylot. Be in touch and share and chat your happy and bad moments.Thanks for the response.Positiveness is a important factor of happiness.
@djalex14 (195)
• Canada
22 Aug 12
Hi! I have this problem with my family divoced nut I wish I could be like that girl.I am verry lonely and I don't have anybody to share this.To be a open person is the best compliment...and If you can deal with bad moments and good moments you are verry strong I am not and I am trying to be like this every day but no way.I just can't
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
It is not that everybody can do it but you should try. I know it is not easy but there is no other option left but to accept the situation and face it bravely like that woman. Best of luck. Thanks for the response. be in touch and share.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
22 Aug 12
why are man still doing cruel things like that , divorcing a woman because she cannot have a baby biologically . It good to know even though he leave her he did not take away her means to happiness .
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Hi,
You are right. There are many people who are very selfish and cruel. They don't care about others feelings. They must be punished by God. Thank you for the response.
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
22 Aug 12
I personally think sharing her experiences is a way for her to
live happily as she finds you all part of her family that she
can share with. Everyone needs to share with someone, you all
are God send family to her, and she as a good angel to help you
all too. It is difficult to live a lonely life, she has discovered
the secret to live a happy life. May God bless all of you always!
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Hi,
you are right. We all want someone to share our happy and sad feelings. Thank you for the response.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
That's one good model of staying simple and happy. Despite being alone in this world already, one has to make effort to socialize and stay happy in life.
She knows that she has to move on , and concentrate on doing good and interacting with people who can possibly make her happy. Your family is what she considers her family now.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Hi,
You are right. She tries to be happy with sharing her sorrows and happiness with my wife. thank you for the response.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
22 Aug 12
This is the big example for those who always feel stress for small incident. She faced the big problem but feel happy because she know the value of life and she knows next time will not get chance to born as human being.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Yes i think you are correct and thanks for the good response.
@winter0302 (6)
• China
22 Aug 12
If we can we should live like her.Our life time is limited, we should living happy.Threw out the unhappy thing,and enjoy the happy times.
@raindiandian123 (1)
• China
22 Aug 12
Life is all about this! we should be satisfied with this moment ,and i think the really love exsits in our daily life.
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
22 Aug 12
Hi,
Welcome to mylot. We should enjoy every moment of life with whatever we have. Thank you for the response.
