facebook love status
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
August 21, 2012 10:05am CST
today facebook is a big part of our lives. it's a way to connect with other people, keep the information up to date. so..what if you were in a relationship with someone but that person would keep his love status on facebook as single,,,what would you do in this situatioN
7 responses
@majuuyaitai22 (93)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Actually, I have a boyfriend and we've been together for already 3 years and one month, but in facebook, me and his status is single. At first, it is not okay with me because I want us to put our relationship so that others can see how strong and how long we've been together. But as days passed, we always fight like child and when we do fights, he always changed it to single, right after I changed it before when we first had the big fight. That;s why I got tired putting it on again and same as him. People will always notice it and just ask, oh you two had fights again. Right now, we're still good and together and I think in relationship it does not really matter because if you really love each other, even if some people would try to add you because the like you and thought you are single, it will never matter too. We also decided before not to be friend in facebook because he'll just delete me after fights but because his number were lost before, it is our communication then so we decided to be friends again. Yeah ,weird couple XD
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
21 Aug 12
yes people are curious and they would ask you why you faught what happened and it could get exausting to change your love status all the time. at the same time a relationship is based on thurst. it's true that there are people adding you because they like you and if they see you're single than they would try to talk to you. but if you're a correct person than you would tell that person that you're involved in a relationship.
plus there is no need to keep others informed on what happens in your relationship
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Hi swissheart,my husband and i has a Facebook account, to be honest in my facebook account my status is still single because I never update for almost 8 years. My husband also understand why my i am single in my facebook status and we do not have any problem about it, after all most of our classmates, co-workers and friends in facebook already knew that were married for almost 7 years.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
21 Aug 12
I haven't changed my love status for over 4 years I think. it still says that I"m in a relationship and it's complicated. this might be true right now...it's kinda complicated my love life but the status was the same when I was single too
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
21 Aug 12
Maybe you should remind him so that he can tell you why. Maybe he has a reason. But i don`t care at all if he switched it or not. As long as there`s no any flirting comments to him or made by him. Maybe he just really want to keep it private. FB is not private at all for me and we may have the same perception about it
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
22 Aug 12
I would not feel comfortable about the, saying they single on their status , I would like to see at least in a relationship .
@DragonflyKingdom (288)
• United States
21 Aug 12
I would not be happy if that happened. To me thats sending a signal to other people that he or she is still available. Not good :(
@rappeter13 (8608)
• Romania
21 Aug 12
Personally, I couldn't care less for the facebook statuses. I use facebook mainly to discuss with others and I wouldn't mind to see that my partner has kept her facebook status as single. The only thing that matters is the real world, not the virtual world.