Forgiving

i think the best way when it's useless to forgive sb again and again is never give him or her the chance to beg your forgiving.lol get it? like one thing that he promises to do for you but you know he'll fail,then never ask him to do so,just ask other ones to do or you deal with it urself, just donnot expect highly on him but ask others who deserve to replace him.

Sometime it is hard to forgive when the person who offended you does not ask for forgiveness or if she/he asks for it,you don't feel the sincerity. However, if you continue to hold grudges and never learn to forgive, it is difficult to move on with a heavy heart and an extra baggage that you have to let go.It may take time to forgive especially if we were hurt so badly. But once we have learned to forgive and release the bitterness in our hearts, it is then that we will have peace of mind. Just don't forget to ask for God's guidance.

It is really annoying and tiring, but as a consolation, just be thankful that you're not the one who's always asking for forgiveness so that means you must be doing something right. Also, just so you wouldn't be hurt that much next time, do not expect too much out of the people who constantly ask for forgiveness only to do the same mistakes. I mean, we can't actually stop being related to those people wo hurt us, especially if they're family. Be the bigger person and since you're the one who's got better understanding, just forgive when you're ready to. In the end, you will be the one to benefit by having a clear conscience and no baggages to burden you.