it's so hard to get used to living without you

Romania
August 22, 2012 5:15am CST
I miss my grandfather...he died this spring but I still can't get over losing him. he meant the world to me. I dreamed about him one night...that we were at his house and there was something chasing me outside and I was really scared and he hugged me and tried to calm me down and to make me stop crying ..but what surprised me was that his image was so peaceful...and the most weird thing is that my mother had pretty much the same dream.... I was wondering...could it be an after life..and he was showing himself in our dream
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@riyauro (6421)
• India
22 Aug 12
Oh I think you dreamt of him because you are thinking of him quite often and that is why he is talking to you in the dreams. I used to think about my uncle and he used to come in my dreams too. Sometimes very scary.lol thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
• Romania
22 Aug 12
it was not scary...it was peaceful. but what surprised me was the fact that my mother had the same dream...that he was hugging her and so on...of course it might just be a coincidence
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Aug 12
First of all, I know that this isn't really going to be something that brings you a lot of comfort, but your grandfather is still alive as long as you are remembering him. You see, I lost my father when I was a teenager and I am now an adult with children of my own. There still is not a day that goes by where I don't think about my dad, but I feel at peace with the fact that he is gone because I do believe that there is an afterlife. The dream sounds very interesting and I believe that it could very well be that your grandfather was visiting you from the afterlife.
• Philippines
22 Aug 12
I'm sorry for your loss. Losing a loved oned one is really painful to us. I hope he is already happy wherever he is now so you have to let him go and be thankful about it. He's already in good hands. Happy mylotting.
• Indonesia
22 Aug 12
i am sorry to hear that swissheart.maybe your grandfather showing himself to your dream who knows what will happen in after life that is God's mystery.everyone wil l eventually back to the God's sides but it is just the time is different between person to person.