should I stop talking to him if I'm starting to have certain feelings for him

I think you guys should talk your feelings to each other. If you are both serious about it, then you should be able to figure out something to make it work. You know the old saying, 'if there's a will, there's a way'. I believe long distance relationship could work especially given the technology we have right now with all the emails, chat, video calls, etc. My husband and I, we were in a long distance relationship. He is a seaman so he travels a lot for like almost a year but we were able to cope with it and now, we just recently got married and we're so happy even though we know that in time, we'll be separated again 'cause we know that we trust and love each other. so if you guys really like each other and are willing to give it a little understanding, distance would mean so little.

Stop talking to him is not a solution. Holding your own feelings is the best way. You're just carried away by the constant talking/communication. Make it lesser- or do not prolong it like the old ways. just greet him and then go offline- and slowly make the conversation rare.

If you really loved each other distance and time is no problem. If you have feeling for him and he has also feelings for you, then that is good. You dont have to start talking to him. You actually have to talk to him more so that you could be developed more to him.

How close are your feelings? I mean; do you feel more like 'if you lived closer, you wouldn't mind getting to know him a little better in a more-romantic way' or -more like 'he is the only way you can find happiness in your life'? If it's the latter (the way I'm needing a girl to feel about me ... like I'm the missing-piece to fill a weird shape in her life's jigsaw-puzzle), then go to be with him. If you are a faithful help-mate for him (devoted to rising together with him to meet the Ultimate Goal), then you and he will naturally follow the best path to completion (him completing yourself, you completing his world!) If it's the former, my best guess (though it hasn't worked for me yet, but that's mostly because I 'switch jobs' too much) is to find out 'what he's doing in the world' (the kind of job he has/is trying to get, his Major in university-studies, etc.) and -to set off on a similar path. Me, I thought I might like one of those 'Gentlemen's Magazine-models' (e.g. girls in PLAYBOY, PENTHOUSE etc.... what are those girls, if not 'ladies-waiting-for-husbands? Eh? ); so I got into a few affiliate-programs selling those kinds of pictures ... but of course I'm not selling any of those HERE ON MYLOT, so I look 'unfaithful' to that other industry. That, and I DO see 'possibilities' in lots of girls in other industries (hairstyling, entertainment business, medical therapy, writing, myLot-ing, bar-tending/Karaoke-ing, et al.), so I'm NOT faithful to anything but truth/fun And I obviously can't 'go to be with' someone who lives so far away because ... well, I'm just not really 'able' enough to support myself while migrating far away on the thin chance that some "person" online is really, actually compatible with me and isn't just 'pulling my leg.'

if he already has a girlfriend, even if they break up and love back. then i think, you should stay away from them. yea, i think its better you stop talking to him, if you can't control your feelings for him. as for him, if he has a girlfriend and also have feelings for you. may be he is just playing with your feelings. how can a man love two girls at one time?

I think he playing with your feelings. if he already has a girl friend you should stay away from him.

Yes if I were you I would stay away from him. He is just playing around online with you. If he keep breaking up with his girl friend he is not very stable. So why don't you look for the right guy that doesn't live hundreds of mile from you or that he can travel to come to see you.

Long distance should be the least of your worries here, but rather his ability to commit and hold and fix his own relationship with his girlfriend. It matters not whether they argue a lot or not, but the mere fact that he is still in a relationship with someone while trying to have something going on with another online isn't a good indication of his loyalty. It takes two to make a relationship work and I don't think he's got nothing to do with how their relationship is going. Instead of him encouraging someone else's feelings for him, he should be patching things up with his girlfriend or if it's really nothing he would want to continue, finally sort it out so he can freely and rightly start something with you. It's not fair for you, him and his girlfriend.

Hello friends,i think long relationship, that to online relationship are like lottery as it can make or break our life.The problem with online or long distance relationship is that it is very difficult to know about the person like his character,behaviur,attitude,personality etc as most of the people behave and conduct themselves very well online.So we just able to see one side of the coin and get attracted by the person but most of the time in reality it might not be the case as we think.Now if we know that the person has a girl friend and they are frequently making & breaking up their relationship,then there is no point in believing that person.I think we should stop talking and put an end to the existing relation with such type of persons.I think distance relationship are a bit risky and uncertain.Thanks & regards.......