do you believe love at first sight?
By freedang
@freedang (320)
China
August 25, 2012 9:24am CST
a firend of mine had once told me that he is fall in love with a girl who he just meet several times. i told him that he should think it over but he just say that he was will.but after sometime he told me that they are broken up.they find that they dont fit each other.
someone say that they believe in love at first sight.i have the experience that just find a girl is so pretty when we first meet.but i think relationship need time to culture.
what's you opinion,my friends?
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12 responses
@mrswhitfield (2044)
• Indonesia
27 Aug 12
For me there is no love at first sight, there only good impression at first sight . What we see or hear on first sight is not their inner. What our eyes and ears catch made us think that they are the most beautiful thing happen in ourlives, but we have not know enough about their personality right? Would you prefer to be with someone who just beautiful in your eyes and good to hear in your ears or someone else that attach into your soul? Love grows not instant.
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@catherine086 (139)
• China
26 Aug 12
Yeah! I also agree with you, my dear friend. I believe in live at first sight. It would be amazing when you see someone who is so attractive to you. and this is just the beautiful beginning of this love affair. But then i believe the maintenmant of this relationship is up to forgiveness and kindness between two sides. Now in this world we can begin to develop relationship easily, but also end it. So let's keep our belief in beauty of love and meanwhile run it in a careful and considerate manner.
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@deserve40 (1656)
• India
26 Aug 12
I am of the opinion that 'love at first sight' is only a phrase found in the books. It is not true in the real life. If a person falls in love at first sight, then it is not the love but only physical or psycological attraction. It cannot given the name 'love'.
It is possible that the person falls in love with someone at first sight but still that relationship will not be matured. So the true love would be missing. And in long term it is going to have a brake. It requires time for the feelings and understanding to get matured. Only looks will be only illusion, however liking somebody's looks and ideas of someone can be one of the indication of love for someone.
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@celticeagle (168126)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Aug 12
I think that attraction comes from first sight but love grows over time. If two people meet and do not communicate and get to know one another they may end up in divorce or fighting. People are in too much of a hurry to get into a relationship and I think they fantasize over how it should be and want it to be and they don't spend enough time expressing needs and discussing what each has to give to the relationship. They reality sets in and people aren't very happy.
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@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
25 Aug 12
I believe we can feel instant connection with a person but love takes time to grow in my opinion . Love is build on commitment and trust you cannot have that just by seeing some one , normally we wear a mask so to know the person behind that will take time to let that person be comfortable enough to share that with you .
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@chexzy09 (30)
• Philippines
25 Aug 12
No..ou can not love a person just based upon first sight. To me,you meet and get to know a person completely, spiritually,physically,emotionally and chemistry of coarse there are steps and a little to involved to really on.. You can be sparked quickly by physical attraction and fooled!!!!!
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@cagampan1991 (364)
• Philippines
25 Aug 12
I dont believe with love at first sight. It's not love it's infatuation. Love comes after when you are both tested through time. Maybe after you have known her very deep and you develop mutual feelings with each other. But love at first sight it's maybe just only an admiration.
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@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
25 Aug 12
I agree with you that true love need time to nurture and grow.
However, there are cases of successful 'love at first sight'.
A friend of mine married to her childhood boyfriend . They both
have the same feeling that they are meant for each other, they
fell in love with each other at the first sight
Two of my nephews also married to their first love, the 'love
at first sight' and have baby too, living happily. It seems
they only fell in love once, the first and only one
Lucky people I guess.
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 12
no and never believe in love at first sight. I'm easy to admire a person from the first sight, but to fall in love, I need to know that person deeply and know if I would comfort being with him or not. time will decide. and I agree with what you said, relationship need time to culture..
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@mrsroxas (78)
• Philippines
25 Aug 12
I don't believe in love at first sight because I believe love is not merely feelings. What you felt was just simply and attraction or admiration towards that person. Love is something more than feelings and is permanent. Feelings are always changing. If we always base love on our feelings, then nobody ever truly loved. :)