What Motivates You To Continue To Come Here?
By KrauseHome
@KrauseHome (36447)
United States
August 25, 2012 3:29pm CST
We have many different people from all over coming here all the time. Many are coming here even for the first time and trying this site out wanting to see why others continue to rave about it, and what is can do for them. Maybe they come here in hopes of making some Good extra money, but stay here because of all the wonderful people and discussions on here.
I know for me in the almost 6 yrs. what might have motivated me at first is probably not what keeps me coming back. With all the wonderful people coming here and posting each day this is one of the reasons I always want to be here. Not counting all the wonderful Friendships I have made along with all the interesting people. I know I have learned a lot about myself, other countries, etc. being here and some of this stuff I would have never have known.
Personally I cannot imagine not being here, and Thankful for all of you. What keeps you coming back, and are you always glad to be here?
~~TINA~~
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51 responses
@deazil (4730)
• United States
25 Aug 12
Initially, I didn't know you got paid on this site. And I stayed read-only for a while just to kind of check it out. I come here partly as an escape, sometimes it's a more pleasant place for me to be. And I have time to come here whenever I want. I'm always glad to be here, except once when someone was baiting me. But I ignored it and moved on. Mylot also fills a void for me. And there are people in here that I like to read about what they have to say, even if I have nothing to add to their discussions. There are people that I like. There are some people I've come to respect and admire. And, as I have heard many times from others - it's habit forming!
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@GardenGerty (160908)
• United States
25 Aug 12
You are so very right. When I first came here it did fill a void in my life. There is no other site like it that I have found. I love reading about all the other places in the world and even in my own country. I am also fortunate to have met some of my friends from here in real life.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
8 Sep 12
Yes, there are many people here who I have come to really appreciate and consider a good friend here. We all learn from each other and can relate no matter where we are from. Many of life's lessons can be taught here if you let them.
@stringer321 (5644)
• Kiryat Ata, Israel
26 Aug 12
Hi there , deasil , there are some mylot users that I also admire.
Some of them are old and they give some perspective on life. You get to hear the opinion of old people from all over the world and they have useful advices.
The young generation can really use some conversation with the elders.
You also get here valuable information , it encourages you to learn more so you can contribute to the discussions. Many subjects here are available. Just use the mylot search engine or brows mylot interests.
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@chrystalia (1208)
• Tucson, Arizona
25 Aug 12
Well, I tried facebook and hated it. I work at home, and I have extreme agoraphobia, so I have no social opportunities. I like coming here to read what people are writing, comment when I wish, and Mylot has more of a sense of "community" about it than other social sites. facebook is more like high school-- groups and cliques and drama all over the place. Twitter is just plain silly. Here, we have people from all over the world, good discussions going on on dozens of topics, fun talk going on, and people seem to be nicer.
I am always glad to be here, even if I am only reading the newest topics. There is always something interesting going on at the Lot, and I like reading about people's lives, thoughts dreams and ambitions, even if I never comment on them. Since I live my life online, this is a great place to be :-)
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
12 Oct 12
Yes, it is quite interesting how on other forums and groups, sites, and especially Facebook you have to watch what you post or people will continue to condemn and Bash you, and no one really seems to care. On Facebook you can block them but that is about it. Like everyone has stated here, everyone works together, and when someone posts negative stuff it usually is removed. Long live myLot.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Aug 12
hi chrystalia I was on a diabetes forum once with no moderators at all and one weird man called himself a cardiologist and told us
that all us diabetics only had diabetes because God was angry with usk hen he went on to bait various ones of us and made a list of all he wanted condemned to the devil. when I found out that I was on the list I immediately left the site. I felt the man
was insane.Here we all mostly get along and care for each other and we are moderated so any insulting is stopped.the admins has a job to do and does it very well too.i also agree mylot is a great
place to be.
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@JohnRok1 (2051)
•
27 Aug 12
Yeah, a friend of mine's brother went missing (I'm afraid we now have to conclude that he met with an accident and is no longer with us. He was my friend too, and I miss him), and some occultic nutter started writing on his Facebook wall that she had travelled in some non-material way to keep him company in his last hours. After a few entries she was excluded, but if it had been going on on here Alice might have sorted it out sooner - or she might not have.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
28 Oct 12
Yes, the Socialization and being able to make New friends is a Great reason to want to continue being active here. This is actually one thing I look forward too, and keeps me coming back.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 Aug 12
yes. this is another factor which i have omitted to add--sopcialisation, making friends. for this type of people money is secondary.
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@celticeagle (168171)
• Boise, Idaho
25 Aug 12
I could not imagine not coming here. It has become such a part of my daily life. I have taken on a bit of a social anxiety and so being online has been a good thing for me. The freinds I have found on here have really helped me in so many ways. Given me laughter when I need it, serious replies when I needed good feedback, good freindship as we all need, and a place to go to make some extra money.
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@marshatolentino (1)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
I am new and just signed up just today. I technically don't know yet about how to earn here. I saw your post. I had some problems about social anxiety. It's crazy scary sometimes. But I had to face it and improve myself and open my heart to people. I had this problem when I focused myself on my boyfriend who is now my ex. I'm still having the same problem until now, but it has diminished at some point. I talk about this, even I'm ashamed about telling this to others, but I'm thinking, it won't do me any good if I don't take an action about my social anxiety. I can talk to people. I have this extreme discomfort of looking and talking eye to eye with people. FOrtunately, I have overcome them for years of trying and struggles to fight against this kind of social anxiety. Now I am happy. And focusing on improving myself.
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@ligwan (44)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
That's great marsha. Sometimes you have to learn how to earn, i mean, how to improve yourself. hehe. There are other things that you can't tell other people in personal and its comfortable to talk it online. Good choice that you came here in mylot. You may never know, maybe, in the future, you will thank mylot for the drastic changes about your personality particularly in social appearances. mylot will not help you learn and experience those but you can also earn at the same time. Feel free to tell us about you and how you think of things. We are just here for you. mylot is here for you. :)
@celticeagle (168171)
• Boise, Idaho
30 Aug 12
@marshatolentino--I think all you can do is keep trying one day at a time. Improving as you go. As you come on here more and learn about the people here you will do better. See what type of discussions they like, how many responses you need to do to make a certain amount, etc.
@ligwan--We all here to enjoy our time and others viewpoints and discussions. Happy Mylotting.
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
25 Aug 12
I keep on coming back because the discussions are addictive I have never found any other sites where I was able to interact with people from so many different parts of the world and that it is the thing that attracts me the most about Mylot. I am very interested in other countries and cultures and I think that Mylot is the perfect place to learn more about other countries. I love to start discussions and it is always interesting to read what other people think about my topic. If I need advice about something I also come here, and I always find people who are willing to and able to give advice.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
13 Sep 12
Yes, that is some Great reasons as being able to communicate and keep in contact with so many people from all over the world is interesting, and you can learn about so many different things. Yes, this site is quite addictive, and you can never go wrong from being a member here.
@riyauro (6421)
• India
25 Aug 12
I come here for fun and earn some money as well. where ever i go, I think about mylot and try finding some good discussion topics. I think of mylot all the time I am offline and I wish to come here. When I see my earnings also, i feel good. 1 month and 2 weeks now, I have got like $21.09 which is okay for me and i want increase it everyday. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
3 Sep 12
Well it is always a great place to come and talk about things going on in ones life and to be able to talk with others and relate. The earnings for me is nice, but not one of the main reasons why a lot of us keep coming back..
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
2 Nov 12
That is for sure, and even as busy as my life might be at this time with all the Health issues I have going on, it is worth being here, and miss it when I am not.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Aug 12
hi tina I found mylot whem I was trying to cope with being newly
retired. I was floundering with all this time and no real'
money except my social security check.I felt like an old used
up shoe 80 and not of any use.,b ut I found out that I was of
use in mylot as I could help others and make friends and the money part became just the frosting on the mylot cake.I have made friends from all over the world and learned so m ch I would never have known otherwise. I cannot travel long distances due to lack of money and some health issues.I am always glad to be here too as I really
treasure all my friends here.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
9 Oct 12
Yes, I feel we learn from others things we may never learn from anyone else, and the even better thing is that no matter your age everyone from anywhere can share in here and learn from each other, and make some lasting friendships and memories as well.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
25 Aug 12
I have made some good friends on here & like to hear what is going on in their lives.We all know the money is nice but u sure aren't going to get rich quick like so many people think.I think u can learn alot from this site & the people on it.I'm nearly always glad to be on w/a few exceptions.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
26 Oct 12
Yes, there are many people on here we can consider as friends, and do enjoy coming in here and reading about them, and what is going on in their life. It is a Fun place to be and in reality a Great reason to keep on coming back.
@MandaLee (3764)
• United States
26 Aug 12
I love learning from and participating in the discussions. I am thankful for the encouragement and friendships. For me, it was never about the money. Mylot is such a blessing. I cannot imagine not being a part of such a special and wonderful community.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
2 Nov 12
Same here... Maybe when I first came here, it might have been the thought of extra money, but the thing that keeps me coming back is the friendships I have made, and being able to come here and talk and share about anything that might interest me some as well.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
26 Aug 12
krauseHome:
You know it much more than myself. We have a variety of people coming here.
1) people who are willing to share all that is happening in their life with or without details and seek our responses and they do learn from our responses.
2) people who have spare time apart from their regular full time work and consider it a motivation to share and earn a little
3) retired people like me -- we spend a portion of our day -- contribute, learn and earn.
4) people who are willing to utilise the opportunity to advise/instruct others because this is a place where we do not see face to face.
5) people who have no other person to talk to in their house -- consider this a safe place to share and earn.
6) Unemployed people eager to earn online come with the hope of earning more, stay here for a few days and then take rest.
7) Some for whom it is an addiction --they just cannot remain without visiting mylot frequently every day.
may be some other category of people are also there.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
2 Nov 12
Yes, looking over these responses there are many here I can relate too, and Glad I know a lot of different types of people who continue to be active here as well. I know I am one who enjoys being here even if it is limited at times due to everything going on in my life. Personally I cannot imagine not being here as I know I miss this place when I cannot be here.
@PointlessQuestions (15397)
• United States
25 Aug 12
Hi Tina. I've been here forever to when you count my 2 other entities. I keep coming back because of the sense of friends and family I get here. Believe me, it's about me why I stay. I would be one lonely person without you, Winterose, Hatley and others. You all light up my life in a big way.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
20 Oct 12
Yes, I know you have been around quite a while my friend. I feel the same way about a lot of people here including you who I would be lost without, and actually one of the things that keeps on bringing me back all the time.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
26 Aug 12
The initial motivation is to make money. I know it's the reason why all of us are here
But after months and years, we begin to enjoy the interaction and friends we made. Not only that, we learn a lot and receives advice to friends and even those who are concerned about what we're going through in life. I vent out my emotions here sometimes, share my own experiences too with others who are in need of advice. And I am certain, this is the reason why I keep coming back to myLot.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
1 Feb 13
Well, yes, it is true. Many of us when we first came here, it might be in the anticipation to earn a little extra money online, and then we either leave because we are not making it fast enough, or learn to enjoy and have Fun here meeting many wonderful people and learning about others that we stick it out, and the money is only a small reason to be here.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
21 Feb 13
Yes, even if it takes me a while to reach payout, which many months it does, I am always glad to be a memberhere, and have a chance to keep connected with everyone.
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
4 Feb 13
Yup and I guess that's exactly what makes us come back here. I only make a few cents everyday now that I am not that active here. And even though I can't reach the monthly payout, that's just fine with me.
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@ladyeaglefeather (228)
• United States
4 Feb 13
When I first joined, it was a way to earn extra money. But, I find myself reading more discussion than, I post on. If, I don't have something to add, I don't comment. I like being here because, it is world wide and I have learned a lot. For me now, it had become a way to relax. If, I can help someone out with my comments all the better. Good luck to all
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
22 Mar 13
Well, being here responding back to discussions whether someone else has started them, or responding back to ones you have started are important and a great way to meet others and make new friends for sure.
@echoforever (5180)
• United States
21 Feb 13
Well that's h ow a lot of us start is by thinking we will earn extra money. We see the great site that myLot is and start having fun, the money then rolls in and becomes a bonus for us.
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@GardenGerty (160908)
• United States
25 Aug 12
I do enjoy the exchange of ideas and meeting all kinds of new people. I came at first looking for money, but the talking and sharing had me hooked right away.
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@thewonderboy (7501)
• India
27 Aug 12
I had also see mylot as a good source of making money but later as the time passes mylot as turned attached with me and it really helps me to get out from troubles. It also helped me to learn how to handle the situations in your life and along with it, it had helped me to learn how hard or tough the life is
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
20 Oct 12
Yes, this site is Great for exchanging of ideas, and talking about life and meeting and sharing with people from all over. It truly continues to be a Great place to be.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
10 Jan 13
The thing that originally motivated me when I became a member of mylot was the fact that I learned that I would be able to make a little bit of extra money working on the site. However, I stay here because of the fact that I've been able to make friends that I wouldn't have had otherwise and I am also able to have contact with adults that I wouldn't really be able to have all the time if I was not a mylot member.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
20 Mar 13
It is so true. We all came here knowing we could make some extra money, and we stay here because of the friendships and learning about things we may have never considered before.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Oct 12
Hmmm this is difficult question for me but yes I will reply lots of good friends like you and others, their discussions, responses are motivates to staying here and I not tell lie but the main motivation is mylot is paying money so I am a member of this site. I know the all mylotters are good but if no earning means no time for spending here.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
20 Mar 13
Well, for me and a lot of the others on here, the money is really just an added bonus. I enjoy coming here when I can and taking time to respond back to everyone and let them know I do care about what they are coming in here to talk about.
@HomeBase (1153)
• United States
26 Aug 12
What motivates me to come here is that I like to type...and I have been told I like to talk, so...
I find it very relaxing to sit down in front of a computer and type. I have always liked typing, I guess the way some people like playing cards or boardgames and can sit there and do it for hours. Of course right when I first got into myLot several months ago, I had to cut my Internet off because I could not afford the high bill, so I have been away from myLot for quite some time. Just got back a couple of days ago.
One of the fun things that I like about myLot is when people get on here and start asking about the pay and within a matter of minutes someone who I like to call "Mama D" (she does not know this) is all over them, scolding and schooling! I love that! Get 'um mama!!
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
28 Jan 13
Yes, having internet access almost anywhere you go anymore is a definate plus. I know I would be lost without internet if I were to completely loose it, and this wonderful site. But I do have a tablet and I would just have to be gone more to places that offer WiFi if I were to loose it at home.
@eagletrek2 (5499)
• Kingston, New York
26 Aug 12
Hi if you can not afford internet
here a sloutin mcdonald,book store, coffe shops
have free internet, barnes and noble by
me has a strong single I can get in my
car when im in front of the store
even when the store close,even sams club
has free internet to go to the cafe
just make sure you have a good charge
on you what ever type of computer you
use and all smart phones are on internet to
ok havve a good day
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@echoforever (5180)
• United States
21 Feb 13
I'm pretty much the same as you. I can't imagine not being here. I love it here and all the people I meet whom help me through everything I mention here. I don't know what motivates me to keep coming back. I guess it doesn't matter the reason. I am here.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
22 Mar 13
Yes, it is quite interesting being able to communicate with so many different people and learn about so many different things. The cool thing is no matter what your mood is their is always something worth coming in here and responding back too.
@educatorstudent (43)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
I come here because it's my first time to join a website like this. It's a free registration and I love it. I like trying new things and think many things that I can share it to anyone. I like to discuss that interest me which makes my brain works well. LOL hehehe Anway so far, so good. I also want to earn money too to save money.
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@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
22 Feb 13
Well, this continues to be a great site to be active in. And this is a Great goal to have and could eventually happen. You just need to remember to keep active here and online to allow this to happen.
@educatorstudent (43)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
One more thing I wanna earn money to buy a plane ticket and have a pocket money! That's my goal!
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