I want to break up with my boyfriend

Find another boyfriend. Or find something that takes up the time & attention you usually give to a boyfriend.

Get help from close friends are family member . That man sound crazy and we cannot predict what a crazy person will do . Leave him as soon as you can and if he continue to pursue you report him but be careful . I am not saying you should run but if you sense any danger its best to leave that area and go far away from him without letting him have any idea where you heading. good luck

Sometimes people won't accept the things that they do not want to hear. You did mention that he's strict and gets mad easily, if you are scared of leaving him I would have a friend or family member around when you finally decide to leave for good with your things just to be on the safe side.

END this now, because a man like that will never change. And he's already showing bad attitude even though he's only your boyfriend? Imagine what he'll be like if he'll be your husband, expect the worst out of him. Just make your stand, LEAVE him now, or make your sufferings go on.

Living with that kind of man won't make you happy, because the love that he's given to you can't be seen anymore. If you really wanted to break up with him then tell him what you've feel and tell him that your decision is final and you don't love him anymore. I guess he'll understand and beside man has a pride as well. So if you will tell him you don't love him and he's not the right man for and tell him that you don't want to be with him and whether he likes it or not you don't want to be connected with him then I guess he would understand your decision.

You need to get yourself out of this situation, no woman should have to deal with a relationship where she feels threatened. If you are worried about blackmail you can always contact the police or a trusted friend of family member, you just need to leave! Once you do you need make sure that you are with people you can trust and rely on because chances are he will not leave you alone at first. You sound like a very strong woman to make these kind of observations and seek for help in leaving.

You should be totally clear with him and say that you don't love him anymore. It would be helpful if you say you are 100 percent certain that you wish to split up with him for good. You could say that you hate his anger and in the future you wish to have a boyfriend that is easy tempered, respectful of you and doesn't blackmail you. If you have a mobile phone change your number and the same with your home number if he keeps calling. You could say that you have nothing more to say to him and that from now on you will totally ignore him. Tell him to move on with his life and be nicer to his next girlfriend. Good luck.

its ally our decision,if you think he does not care for you or trying to snub you,its time to call it quits

He won't accept it because you have doubts and you are not strict and straight telling him to get out of your life. End this because this relationship is no good and he will never change. Stay out of his neigbourhood, don't response on his phonecalls, sms, email or what so ever. And if needed call the police if he keeps bothering you. It's the only way. Over is over, ex = exit. Not funny but it is the way it is and he has to accept that.

Sooner or later he will accept it. Be firm with your decision even if he begs you. As to your description about his character, I don't think giving him a second chance out of fear or pity would do you good. So if you are going to break up with him, don't make him feel that he can easily get you back.

Just stand your ground and keep it. From the way you describe him, he isn't much of a loss if you ask me. You'll find someone better. He needs to grow up and learn a lot about relationships.

You always must do what is right for you. You just have to stand your ground be firm tell him it is over. And you do not want to be with him anymore do not take no for answer. Once you do break up with him don't take phone calls from him don't agree to see him and if he send messages by friends tell them just to tell him you don't want to get back together you are trying to move on just please leave you alone. The main thing is be firm about it.

Being so selfish,it's normal that he won't accept it.But he has no other choice.Meet with him at a public place(so that you won't feel scared or threatened) and tell him clearly,without any possible interpretation,what are your intentions.Listen what he has to say,and then request that he must listen what you too have to say.State you don't want to be with him anymore. It's your liberty here,he can't just have you for him,if you're not good with this.Tell him that.

i am sorry to hear about that,but if he really is the man you describe him then he dont deserve the love you give him.i think you should leave him and never contact with him.if he keep on disturbing you, you should make that clear to him that you dont love him any more,anyway,good luck

Stop all your connections and explain everything why. Don't give him second chance. Prove to him that you can live without him and you can handle everything. Tell it to your parents if he still insist or if there are life threats, then inform the police.

well..it is hard if involving about love and feeling..sometimes in our mouth it is easy said, i want to break up with you.. but when we saw him or her, our heart can change and different with our mouth.. so maybe you should be united between your heart and your mouth.. if you feel you are unhappy and uncomfortable with him, why you should stay with him?? you must be brave said and inform your message to him, that you want to break up with him immediately, whatever he want, but you have another opinion with his opinion..You understand him but you ask him too for understanding your opinion and decision.. Relations is not only one side..it involve two sides..

Hi, Since you realize that you shall not be happy with him, it is best to move on. This is my opinion after reading your post. If I were in your place, I would have said that I do not love him and cannot be in a relationship in which there is no feelings from my end. If he does not accept, you have to be strict about it my friend. You cannot let yourself remain in an abusive relationship, even if it is mental abuse. I wish you happiness in life and hope everything is sorted out for you soon.

It is clear to me that he doesn't have any kind of respect for you and because of the fact that he is that way toward you, I believe that you would be doing a huge disservice to yourself if you were to stay with him. You need to get out of this relationship now before things between yourself and your boyfriend get a lot worse than they are right now. In fact, if you don't get out of this relationship you might end up putting yourself in some kind of danger.

He must accept it. It's not difficult to leave a man who became angry easily. If you got a close friend (who you and your (ex-) boyfriend knows could help.

He is a possessive type of guy. So you must be firm with your decision. I suggest if he threatens to harm you then report him to the police station. It is also a crime you know.Completely avoid him. It doesn't matter if he won't accept your decision anyway.