How would you react to better financial options against your family life?

It is like you were speaking of my life! hahahah! But seriously, it is truly hard to choose between a career/job opportunity and family. But I guess, if you have bigger kids now, you can now choose to have a career. But then again, I think, with our situation nowadays, it is really better to have your own business which will not take so much of your time away from your family. The problem now is where to seek help for a capital for the business. I guess the best choice for that is to ask a relative if he/she could help you in lending money.

If you actually love your family, you would risk in every opportunity to earn money just to sustain their needs. You have no choice but to do it even though it would be far from them and hard to your heart.

I admit that I am not involve in many family reunion due to my work time, but I am sure some of elder family member has been in my position too. I am in my mood to earn as much as I can in my young age, and if possible I can come to visit some family who lives far from me, or give some financial help if someone need it. Pursuing better financial doesn't always mean that it only for myslef, it also for my family.

I have been there. Thirty five years ago. I was divorced and had my son to support. He was 9. I chose to work. The hours were many and I made plenty of money working all the ot I could. My reputation at work was good, I could be relied on to work whenever they needed me. But my son needed me. I didn't realize. Looking back, I think I made a mistake. If I could do it again I would put my son above all else. Children find it difficult to understand the adult perspective. They might try, they might understand somewhat, but their emotions, their feelings, are being hurt. They can't always explain it to you. Children run pretty much on their feelings rather than thinking things through on another level. We teach them how to be objective. As they grow they can look at things less emotionally and from a more practical point of view. But when they are young it's difficult. I hope someone somewhere learns from this. Of course if you have family that your child is with it may be different. I didn't. I was wrong and I'm sorry for it. Too late.

Hi friend, you are right, Some persons are very much interested in earning a lot and fulfill the needs and necessities of the family members and concentrating a lot with their profession to earn more, so this kind of people are spending a lot of time in their professional life and forget about their family and personal life. In fact this kind of people forget that they are earning money for their family needs and family is important than earning money. We must allocate time for our personal life and take care about our family members. There is nothing wrong in being professional and concentrating with our work, at the same time, we must give importance to our family members and spend some time with them to make them happy and show them that we are taking care of them as well as having a lot of love and affection with our family members. Organizing and balancing our time for both family and professional need is very important and we must allocate certain time for our work as well as family needs. Don't spend most of your time with your profession and work for round the clock as a machine, spend some time for your family needs and make them to have fun and enjoyment. We will feel the real happiness in our life while spending our time with our family members. Never miss this kind of real fun and happiness in your life and always allocate time for your family. Great people, VIP and celebrity persons always allocate certain time for their family members, they have a balancing schedule for their family as well as professional life, as a common person we too follow this kind of way and allocate some time for our family and spend our time with them in a happy way. Don't think about your office and professional things while you are spending your time with your family. Have a balanced life and allocate time to both family and profession to enjoy the life in a lively manner.

I think I will save more money and then, if I have good money, I will spend it to make my own business.