What will you do if you are in my condition?

@Jeebee (12)
China
August 27, 2012 2:41am CST
Hi all, I am glad to here and tell my condition to you. And I hope you can give me a suggestion. Last week, I told a girl who is one of my classmate in college I like her. And she also told me that she like me. But she do not have confidence to be together with me. Because we are not at the same city. She does not have the confidence about our future. So, my friends, could you tell me what should I do. Thanks in advanced!
5 responses
@Oktavist (396)
• Romania
27 Aug 12
You need to think very hard on this.Is it worth it?Is she worth it?Are you worth it?A distance relationship can be something really good,but also something really bad.The good is that when you see each other,it will be the best feeling ever.The bad part is all the time between those events. In my opinion,I wouldn't consider a long distance relationship unless I know the girl,she knows me,and we have at least some good amount of time,in which we knew each other. So,be cautious with this.It could end up really well,or it could fall apart really quick.
@Jeebee (12)
• China
27 Aug 12
Thanks pretty much! I think we have know each other very well. In my opinion, she is afraid of the distance between us. Maybe she wants to stay at that city all the time. I do not know, I do not have any idea about this. I am very helplessly.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
27 Aug 12
By the way, there is no problem if you both love each other so much. Fighting.
@Jeebee (12)
• China
27 Aug 12
Thank you very much! I can go and meet her in less of 1.5 hours. But she does not have confidence with the future. So, I am feeling helpless for this. She just keeps silent and I do not know what I should do.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
27 Aug 12
I think you need more time to know each other well. What has attracted you to like her? What makes her special? I am sure you would want to know more about her. Let the right time come. Do not rush things. It is so early to be thinking of your future. Just take one day at a time.
@Jeebee (12)
• China
27 Aug 12
Thank you for your advice. Actually, I have told her my feeling a year ago. But, she told me that she does not have any feeling with me that time. However, after a year, last week, she give me the answer that she also like me. But she just do not confident with ourself.
@512771751 (1096)
• China
27 Aug 12
It is really sweat that you both love each other. But actually it is so hard to keep a long-distance relationship. How long is your distance?Now I am still in the condition, there is 65 kilometers between our two cities.
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
27 Aug 12
I think it is still too early for you to fret about it. I mean it's only been a week since you two learned about each others' feelings. Why not try to get to know each other better first, see how it goes. Have fun, enjoy life and then take it from there.You shouldn't hurry. Just take it slow, one step at a time, enjoy your time together and if by then you two are still sure of your feelings, then cross the bridge when you get there, whether you will go serious and pursue it or not. I'm sure there's nothing that you can't resolve with a serious and good talk. Good luck!
@Jeebee (12)
• China
27 Aug 12
Thank you for your suggestion. Yeah, maybe you are right, we need to know each other better. Though we are classmate in college. But, what makes me being afraid is that she just keep silent now. She just says "I do not know" when I ask her. And I just waiting. And, I am sure I am gonna insist on that. I do not want to miss the love and her.