Once you start to dislike someone, everything they do starts to annoy you
By vanessa11
@vanessa11 (296)
Philippines
August 27, 2012 10:29am CST
I have subscribed on this page on facebook (well its about everything under the sun really). Going back, so I made it as a discussion subject. Don't you think that it is so true? 'Cause I feel the same way on a particular person, she didn't do anything to annoy me but I started to feel annoyed about everything she does. I tried not to, but the feeling doesn't seem to go away. I don't want to look bad on whoever myLotter's reading this. I remember back then, I am her first friend in the community but suddenly, it isn't the way it was before. *sigh
How about you? Did you experience this feeling before?
2 responses
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
27 Aug 12
I definitely think this is true. Once you realize you don't like a person, everything will annoy you. I've also noticed that this can happen if you've been around someone for too long. This happened to me with my roommate when we were away at school. I've known her most of my life and we really get along but living with her changed things a bit and I found myself getting really annoyed with her about everything.
@vanessa11 (296)
• Philippines
27 Aug 12
Can we do something about it? Or just let it be? What did you do about it?
I tried to make friends with her and get to know her more but in the end, she just annoys me.
@courtknee525 (3742)
• United States
27 Aug 12
For my friend and I, time apart seemed to help the situation. We both moved back home from college and now when we get together things are fine and I don't find things annoying about her.
As for completely not liking someone I'm not sure how to get over that. The best thing to do would be to try to avoid being around the person and hope that things get better and you don't find them so annoying.
@melissa14344 (211)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
Hi van! the feeling of annoyance for a person is inevitable. Maybe the personality difference is the culprit. For me, the thing to do is to think happy thoughts about the person. feed on the positive thoughts, If we do this there is a chance that this negative thing will go away. It won't help if we are going to dwell on the thought of disliking that person.
@vanessa11 (296)
• Philippines
28 Aug 12
I am blessed to have a friend like you Mel =D
Thank you for sharing your deep insight, I'll keep that in mind and heart.
