Despicable Behavior

Oh my, if ever that i know of someone who did that, i would really call the attention of the diary owner. It will be her who will deal with them. At least, i have tried to stop the gossip from spreading further.

Unfortunately there are many people for whom gossiping about their neighbors or other people is a hobby;they forget that they should first analyze themselves and realize that they're far from being perfect and the flaws they discuss in others while gossiping can first be found in themselves.They are indeed despicable,and for me the best way to deal with them is to ignore them as much as possible.

That is indeed despicable I admit i am guilty of gossipping here and there but, yes, i would be totally disgusted and horrified if I knew someone who purposely intruded in someone's privacy. Hope somebody would teach them a lesson. Take care

It's a shame people who live dull lives think they have to get their excitement from sharing the secrets of others. But it's hard to prevent. Sounds like someone needs to hide her diary much better or take it with her when she leaves the house. I no longer keep a paper diary. But I don't have any real secrets, either. Anyone who follows me around the Internet knows about all there is to know about me. MyLot is my most secret place.

People who lack anything worthwhile to do turn to gossiping for past time. And that is so horrible especially if they will spread it to hurt the person. I have to admit I love to hear stories about other people just for the sake of hearin it, but never ever to spread it maliciously degrade someone. I would never go on our hurting people's feelings just for entertainment. That's why I just hang out here at mylot instead. :)

This is pretty disgusting. Number one, her job is to clean these peoples house and they obviously trust her around their belongings so she should respect that, and then to be sharing information about a teenager is quite awful and that made obviously cant be trusted. However, i don't think any one can say all gossip is bad and no one can claim they have never taken part in gossip at some stage of their lives. In this day and age sharing information with others is more prevalent than ever, from speaking with friends about others lives/events to social networking sites including posting pictures to posting comments on sites and even celeb magazines, in fact seriousnuts post could even be considered gossip, as he/she has shared information about others with us and we are talking about it. The world is full of it. I think it needs to be taken in context. Gossip becomes a bad thing when it is shared in a malicious way, or shared without thought for the person whos lives they are commenting on.

Hello serious and welcome to myLot. This is despicable behavior for this maid. She is a trusted employee and she has broken that trust. She is not the only one at fault though. Those that she is gossiping to should also be ashamed of them selves. They are just as bad for listening. This is one reason I would never leave any house keeping help alone in my home. My daughter has a friend that works for a very small house cleaning company. The owner of the company works with her employees. They all try on the clothes of the people they are cleaning house for. They also try on their make-up. If there is liquor in the house they help them selves to that too. The worse thing is the boss is doing it too.

his seriousnuts anyone who reads someone else's diary , anyone is despicable not just maids. to gossip like that is to hurt innocent people and those who do that should be stopped.that maid 'deserves to be fired at once., I do not gossip about other people as its hurtful, malicious and stupid too. here in the US we do not have many maids and only the wealthy have them but here they are tried like members of the f amily and not looked down on like'you seem to.I would hate to work as a maid there.as I say not all maids here are like that nor are they looked down on like lesser people.i think if people t eat their hired help with respect most of them will not do like that maid did.there are two sides to'every story .

It is really annoying,isn't it? People like these do not know the word respect[b][/b]. It is as if they are perfect that they have to tell the whole world what they know about somebody.

This is despicable behavior. Not only is it absolutely wrong, it could be potentially damaging to the teenager whose diary she read. If the gossip were to get to the wrong people, depending on what was in the diary, it could hurt the teenager badly. Her reputation could be ruined, she could lose friends and her parents could possibly be upset about something she may have written. Also, this maid is putting her own interpretation on what she read. The way she understands what she read may not be the spirit in which it was written. That diary most likely contains the very personal thoughts, feelings and dreams of the teenager. We all have had unpleasant thoughts about someone at one time or another. They are harmless thoughts. What if they came to light and the persons being thought about became aware of them? Much trouble would ensue, I think. But we are adults and we understand that to think something and to act on it are vastly different actions. That maid, by doing what she did, can cause so much emotional pain to more people than just the teenager. Her employer should be told and she should be dismissed immediately.

Yeah this is a very bad behavior that some of the maids have. They will want to know about what is happening in peoples' lives around then and they have a good laugh when they spread the rumor. I think they should be taught some lesson. This is sick attitude. Good you told your mother not to say anything. I sure she is a good human and wouldn't be like those maids. they got nothing better to do that's is why all this. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead.

You can't avoid being live with those people,gossip almost like a coca cola to bring them happy and exciting feelings,even intimated relationship.They maybe cannot be trusted but can bring your some important information,so don't be isolated from them,integrated into them,at the same time keeping a cool head~