Well, it is up to YOU!!!

I think it is just a petty quarrel. Give it some time, then have a good talk. everything will be alright. Cheer up!

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The conversation is okay for me. I mean, it is normal to leave a chat if one side is not interested to continue it. Just the way the friend and you said perhaps make it a bit harsh???I am not sure about that..Hope your friend don't really mean it to break the relationship.Not every time when we need people they will be there for us. He should know that..(^^)

Hi again, I think it is all your own decision, so there is no need to feel anything about it. If you feel to not to talk to someone no matter what the reason then you have the total rights to say no, everyone has. I do the same thing so you are not alone.

Well, he asked fir it, didn't he? I will say that maybe your friend thought you were rude and felt like you didn't care at all. It might have been better to say something like 'can I talk to you later, I'm awfully busy now. ' Hope your friend grows some thicker skin and gets over it.

Uhm. First of all, I don't know if I clearly understand you, as it is obvious that you're not a native American speaker, but they you wrote this makes me think that you're too straightforward and could be a bit rude, even if it's unintentional... but I don't know if this choice of wording comes from your heart or from your English knowledge. I don't mean any offence. But let's suppose that you really said these things. You could have said this in a more diplomatic manner. I understand you, sometimes I don't have the mood, either, to talk to other people when I'm busy or weary or tired, but then I'm gonna tell them something like I don't feel like talking because I'm busy or tired, but I'm gonna call you back tomorrow or have a coffeee/tea with you. And telling straightforward to people that you don't MISS them, especially for a longer time, is rude, even if you don't wanna talk to anyone. You could have said that in a different way. Also, I do think every person has the time for what they really want. If he ignored your friend for that long time, in your friend's place I would have been pretty angry, too. A true friend is always their for the other one when they need them. If not, they are just buddies at most, not friends.

I think that the issue is how you came across. If there was any other way you could have handled the conversation, can you think of it right now? Would you have said, "Yes, I do miss you, but right now is not a good time to talk"? I think that when you have a friend you should put yourself in a mindset of how he or she feels, and they should do the same for you. Remember, you established that you could relate to each other in a certain way (as friends). Maybe you were stressed and in a position that did not leave you with a "friendly disposition". Just give your friend the "real deal" on your feelings at the time, and I believe you really were missing the ability to take the time to chat with your friend. Am I right when I say your true feelings should have come across this way? Just be the one to call your friend and clear the air of any animosity.

Though I may be busy I always think of my friends and miss them. Maybe he took it the wrong way and thought you just never think of him anymore. Sometimes thinking of friends or family is what keeps me sane when busy-ness has got me down.

You know, there are some times that it is difficult in my life to actually spend time with my friends because of the fact that I am very busy with things that I have to deal with each and every day. However, I do tell my friends when I have the opportunity to catch up with them that I have missed them during the time when we haven't had the opportunity to spend time together and talk to each other. I'm not lying because even when I am busy, I do miss spending time with my friends and just chilling.

Well, I think people expect us to say "Yes, I missed you" when they ask that, even if you have been very busy. It's just etiquette I guess. At least he was a friend, I remember when the POSTMAN made me that same question, he's been on holidays and came back, I really didn't know what to answer and didn't say nothing for 5 seconds or so, it was quite an awkward moment...

I have been very busy as well sometimes and when my boyfriend was calling, he said that I was a bit rude! I understand the mood that you're in right now, and every second counts and you don't have time to talk to anyone. Other people don't understand this though, unless they have been at the same position. I think that you should be a bit more relaxed with your friend and try to understand things from his point of view as well. When I thought about this incident with my boyfriend, I imagined myself calling him and listening to someone that only cares about hanging up to continue the work. I would feel irritated as well. I still do the same though, if I am busy I am too straightforward with everyone and I don't care about anything but my work! I just try really hard to explain to the other person that this happens because I am busy and stressed and it would be better if we could talk another time.

I can't understand how you can remember anybody let alone miss them when you are busy doing something else.You are preoccupied with your work,fully concentrated on it.It is impossible to think of anything else except the work before you.There is no reason why one should get irritated just because you did not miss them then.Had I been in your friend's place,I would have written,'Ok,have you completed your work,ryan?When are we going to meet again?'

Maybe he was in the middle of a problem - he just wanted someone caring him so he would feel comfortable to talk . Or maybe he was just misunderstanding on what did you mean. But it is bit weird since he is a man, not a girl. I tot he was a girl , because being bit sensitive like that is a common thing on a girl :) Just give him some times - let's see if see will talk to you again :)

Hi. Even I came across the same situation. In that situation there will be no mistake of either. This will happen due to the over expectation on a person whom we think a lot. I would say that will be a sweet quarrel and a matter of jealousy as well. These small quarrels become reasons for building a great relationships if they were taken in positive way.:)

If someone asks if you miss them, you either say yes or laugh it off. Because no one asks that and will appreciate any other answer. I know it seems silly to you. And if I asked that and someone said no, I'd take it fine. But your friend sounds like someone super sensitive, so you are probably better off placating them in some way.

hi ryanong well now if you were my friend and I asked if you missed me and you said no in that rude way, I would be truly angry and pissed off. here in the US friends do not talk to one other like that."you were telling him he is not enough of a friend for you to stop what you are doing and in a way you just told him to get lost.If you did not mind then you have done your friend a good deed so he no longer needs to have any thing to ' do with you.He now knows you never really we re his friend,you need to learn some good manners if you do not want to lose all the f riends you have.

He is either mentally immature and want to behave childishly or he mistaken on your statement thinking that you told him to get off your back and get a life. He could have make a mistake in interpreting your words as you don't remember having such a friend like him. Cut him a slack and call him up once a while when you are free, there is no need to forgone your friendship with him just because of verbal misunderstanding, i would not have take it too seriously. Only adolescent or teenage boy and girl will behave in such a manner.

If they are busy and need sometime alone then I will leave him/her that way but that doesn't mean we will not be friends anymore. I will leave with his/her time so he/she could finish what he/she is doing. Well, if your friend is really your friend then he will understand you. Just have a good talk after if aren't busy anymore.

Due to you are under the weather and your hands are full at the moment,you feel sort of ill when your friends talk to you.If you have a good mood today. I think you will answer "yes,exactly."when your friends ask whether you miss him/her. Hence,It's not a big deal.Just calm down and make a apology to him/her later

This is really rediculous if someone leaves u for not missing them. Ihave many friends in my list and due to work shifts or houseproblems there r many times that we r not ablr to talk or miss each other but we never ever faced any such issues because we have faith and trust with each other.