little sister, big new job..

Except for the fact that I am older than you, I would love you as a big sister.. I doubt my older sister worries about me at all and if she does, she tries to show it by making rude remarks about my life. There is a difference between worrying or being bossy.... Of course how does your little sister feel? Does she feel you are being overprotective? I can't see you being bossy, you are probably more of the worrying type and you let her know you love her..

Your sister is lucky to have someone looking out for her, but I hope you're not cramping her style! She needs to make her own mistakes remember. I'm sure her day has gone brilliantly, and it won't be long now till it's all over and she can tell all about it ;) My little sister has 4 kids now, but I still worry about her sometimes. It's natural, and if we didn't I guess we'd not be human ....

chicksdigscars I too have no siblings so do not know how it all works with older and younger sisters but always wanted an older sister lol.I missed that as I grew up more alone

Yes, even I have got 2 younger sister and I always consider them as little girls, through they are grown up. We will forget all the present day life, but we never forget the days what we shared with them when we were children. I think that is the reason why we always love them much and our past memories would be exceed always with the present day experiences.

You are a great sister that's a fact. Yes I have a younger sister and I worry about her too but we are not as close as you and your sister.I guess it depends on how you are brought up and if you were friends when much younger then it continues into adulthood, don't worry so much it sounds as if your sister is very brave to be able to handle breaking up with her boyfriend and a new job, she is on the way to recovery.

I have 2 sisters one younger and one older. As a brother i was very over protectice of my younger sister, sometimes.to a fault. But i feel being over protective as cute as it may seem is not such a good idea. Though she is younger she should be able to spread her wings. And although being over protective comes from a good place with good intention, its also right and can affect the mental growth of a person.

I do not have the sister and I think it would be nice to have someone worry about me all the time It sounds like you are a great sister. Have a nice day!

Hey, Chickdigascars! Don't worry, you are not alone with this. I also feel that towards my younger sister. There was this one incident that we were on our way to the mall. My sister is way taller than I am, she is about 5'11" and I am just 5'3" tall. So while we were waiting for our ride, suddenly a man (I am not sure if he was drunk or just a crazy scavenger) comes up to us. Instantly, I pulled my sister and had her on my back. I was yelling at the man to go away. When the jeepney (it is a public transport here in our country) pulled over for us to go in, the man followed us and was begging for money. I got really hysterical. I shouted on top of my lungs and demanded the driver to pull over so that the man would leave us.

I'm the youngest and yet i'm the most overprotective person in our family. I even kicked my sister's boyfriend's legs for being an Ahole! When I was in high school, I was ready to pour a bucket full of pee to one of my sister's suitors because I didn't trust him enough. I slammed a door to one of her boyfriend's too because I knew he was going to make her cry. My instincts were all right by the way and I never regret doing all those things to protect my family.

I think it comes with being a big sister! I am a big sister to many brothers and sisters I can't be exact but I know for a fact that I'm a big sister to 2 brothers and 4 sisters and sometimes they look upto me more as a mom than a sister hehe! I give them advise and I am still telling them what is right and what is not right it's as if sometimes their common switch it tuned out or something and I feel as if I have to be the one telling them oh no u can't do that bcuz whatif this happens and everything u do has a consequence and u mat face it bcuz if u don't it'll chase u to the end of the road and then it'll bite u on the whoha! But I don't mind being a big sibling and sometimes I find myself playing the mommy role with my older sister, whew what a disaster!! I'll tell u about that later-just remind me. I'm sure u already know what do to about stuff when it comes to ur sister be there for her and lay it out there for her!

I only have brothers. Yes I am very protective of my brothers. It's natural to feel that way since we are in the same blood.

i THINK YOU ARE ALL OVER PROTECTIVE OF ONE ANOTHER, GET OUT OF THEIR LIFE AND LIVE YOUR OWN YOU MIGHT ENJOY HAVING SOMETHING TO DO FOR YOU. IF SHE WAS SMART ENOUGH TO GET RID OF HIM AND GET ANEW JOB SHE IS OK TO GET ANEW JOB AND BREAK UP WITH THE IDIOT SHE WAS GOING WITH SHE IS BETTER OFF THAN YOU.

Lol! Seems you are ver nice sister! I'm the eldest and I have 2 young sister. And yes - I do always worry about them. Especially the youngest one - she is 19 years old and I'm still checking her everyday just to make sure she never do something careless since I know she is bit careless person :D There's nothing wrong about worrying her so much since you know her so well then anyone else, and the good thing is you are being protective not being overlaping her life. I mean she still has her own right to choose her job - man - etc , and you always be there to protect her by give her a guide and always be there to streghten her How lucky she is! =)