wanted to respond to mylot discussions...
By itsmamanen
@itsmamanen (423)
Philippines
August 29, 2012 4:22am CST
today, i opened mylot because i wanted to respond to some of the discussions. but when i was actually on the page, i suddenly realized that i was not in the mood to respond to any of it. i wanted my earnings to grow fast, but i think for now, it gonna have to wait.
are you also having this kind of situation? tell me about it. thanks.
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17 responses
@Sapphiremoon (82)
• Malaysia
29 Aug 12
I also had the same feeling as you when i opened mylot. I guess the only reason i'm responding now is because I totally understand how you feel.
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
hi... thanks for responding. atleaast now we have something to talk about.
@Sapphiremoon (82)
• Malaysia
30 Aug 12
I know, it's just that sometimes you tend to loose your mood. That's all.
@tanmay0428 (60)
• India
29 Aug 12
You are absolutely correct. I have joined myLot 5-6 days back only but I wrote and answered some discussions for 2-3 days only. other days I was not in mood to reply. When I was not in mood then I was not finding any discussion good enough to be answered. Even though some were very good discussions then also I didn't responded to them. And when I was in mood of replying and writing then even I was replying back to average discussions.
It happens with everyone at different stages.
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
thanks for responding. i really thought i was the only one experiencing it. i thought it's because i don't have fluent english that's why i couldn't express myself. thanks again.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
There are times that I don't feel the urge to response or comment when there's no topic that catch my interest.
It happens so, what I did is scan my old discussion and try to check comments that I haven't responded, or missed to respond.
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
same here... i review my previous discussions and found out that there are comments that needed responses. it wouldn't really matter to me if the comments are short or long. i just have to thank them for responding.
@redvakaurvaki (4216)
• Indonesia
29 Aug 12
don't force your self to response when you were not in mood. I have same situation sometimes and if lost my mood, then I would not response discussion because I don't have focus on it. Don't be hurry to chase your earning, you have a lot of time
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
thanks for responding. i will definitely follow your advices.
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
thanks kaeirole... i think i will set aside the idea of earning. but rather to enjoy mylot. thanks.
@amritha3009 (70)
• India
29 Aug 12
when we go on responding for number of days together and go on responding for many queries we obviously feel a discomfort in solving even though we opened but still we do it becoz we know many are here to earn in mylot
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
so true. it's the earning that inspires us to respond to discussions. thanks for responding.
@adforme (2114)
•
30 Aug 12
Mylotting is something that I am not always in the mood for. It requires a lot of time and effort. If you just give yourself a way to mylot better that is the key. Don't mylot if it is not the time or the place for you to. It helps to be available for your responses. If you were to mylot on a vacation, all that time you spend doing anything and everything you want isn't for too much mylotting. After your vacation, if you want, you can have more to mylot about if it gave you the inspiration to. Sometimes we need some things to mylot about in order to start discussions, and we need to be able to relate to discussions. Participation requires these things, and when you can think and relate, you can mylot better.
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Honestly speaking that same feeling happened to me several times.Its natural to feel that way we have different moods and it subsides every time you see something more interesting.The best way to overcome it is not to force to yourself in commenting to discussions in mylot.There are many ways you can entertain yourself like trying the fun stuff tab on mylot or trying accepting tasks.I hope this one helps..
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
you're right. i didn't really forced myself to respond, that's why i was not in mylot for a week. i couldn't find the right time to respond. but i kept on opening mylot everyday hoping to find something interesting and eventually get inspired responding. hopefully this discussion could be a good start. i haven't tried the fun stuff yet. but i will try it now.
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
29 Aug 12
I also wanted to respond because I know I will reach my payout till 31st but after 4 months I got this chance. I was not active here since last 3 months. Create your mood next month you will get good money.
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
hello fantabulus... one of the reason im here is because of the earnings. i wanted to reach my minimum that's why i wanted to respond to discussions. but how can i do that if im not in the mood. thanks for the advice.
@else22 (4317)
• India
30 Aug 12
Such things generally happen to all of us including myself.Even today a few minutes back I was not in a mood to open Mylot and respond to even a single discussion here.But I decided that I would not oblige my mood.I switched on my pc and got started.Now I am feeling well.I would like to suggest you to get yourself involved in work and your mood would take care of itself.That's the only way out of your problem.
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Sometimes I have same situation like you I just open the mylot page and instead of responding I kept on reading and searching in every discussion especially during mid afternoon. But of course I also want to increase my earning here so I just save some good discussion and when i am in the mood i just return to that discussion.
@itsmamanen (423)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
hello, bhebelen... sometimes i also feel lazy reading reading long discussions. i prefer to read the shorter ones. in which i could immediately respond, instead of spending minutes reading it. thanks for responding.
@zhihao12 (363)
• Singapore
30 Aug 12
Yes that happen to me several times too. My mind is telling me to participate more on mylot on a daily basis but it is just too hard to keep it up. On some days when i am in the mood to join in the discussions here, i can post a lot but there are other days when i just could not force myself to participate. The reason for this is partially due to the quality of the discussions started here and the interest i have in it too but the more important factor is still my own personal mood.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
nor really sort of a kind. when i hang in here, what i did is to post my own and that it would be rare that i will answer to any of the posts. but as of today, i do not have any idea to write on here. so someone is advising me to answer to posts for i can earned from posting too. i discovered that it is so much fun also. and in this way you can get and meet different members in here.
so thank you for the given opportunity for us to discuss on your post. :)
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
30 Aug 12
I am feeling the same also , today I am not really in the mood for responding . I want to do others things but I also want my earning to grow lol times like these make me wish I have even one active referral .
I dont know something about today , I am just not really in the mood.
@lampar (7584)
• United States
29 Aug 12
After you relaized it you are not in the mood, then you can post your response later when you come back, or even not coming back. That is alright if you are not going to do response this time on the discussion you just visited, wait until you are ready, then only you can start 'shooting'! It happen to everyone, don't have to feel pressure to post anything just because you read the title and discussion topic, it is strictly up to you when to post your responses, no rule is violated in your case. Your earning remain unchange and will not get deducted from your balance on reason of not responding to reading the discussion you read. No need to worry about that!
If in case my lot decide to have a rule in the future stating that whenever a member read a discussion, he has to respond no matter what sort mood he has, then your earning will be reduced for not responding.
@tedifa (1232)
• Indonesia
30 Aug 12
Don't worry my friend,you're not the only one.It was happen with me sometimes.When in first month join with mylot i fell the same like you.But after a years i realize that we can't push our condition.When i was in bad mood and open mylot,i just upload some photo without give any response,but when in good mood,i always give my best response without upload any photo.