if you have a bf online will you act like you are single?

I never think online relationships are bad or not trustworthy. But before going ahead for a serious relationships, it is important to get into the minimum pre-qualifications. See, when we are applying for a passport, the address, photograph, and such many important documents are required while applying for the same. Why? It proves the genuineness of the person who is applying for the passport. Similarly, when we are getting closer with an online person, we need to fulfill the required formalities to make the relation stronger. Also, if it is just a friendship or normal relationship, I don't think we need to trust what is said about through the online, because it is not necessary that online talks have proper head or tail.

Hello sweetlove, nice to see you again! Well, I can say online relationships may not get strong enough. cause all relationships needs physical attachments. We can't tell it's true love unless we have seen the real person face to face. Sometimes things we talk about online may not all be real. It really depends on the situation. To answer your question, if i would have a bf online? i would say it's more of a fling and not that serious relationship. unless i knew the person before and have seen him in person. But to tell you frankly, I don't entertain much love in online world. I can't say it's impossible but if i met someone special online, and learn to like or love him, i may be open to it as long as we can meet in person.

hello kat, I know what you mean and online relationship is not easy to deal. It takes a lot of love, understanding and a big big heart to have this kind of relationship. It's hard to explain unless you have it experienced yourself. Not every online relationship story ends well, some are happy and some are not. It takes a pure heart to handle such kind of relationship. Trust and honesty are the main part of it- because we can never tell who is telling the truth behind every monitor.

I think maximum of the online relations are fake. every person pretends to be the one who is actually not. So there are maximum chances of get cheated by some online girlfriend or boyfriend.I also had a online girlfriend and she had many more boyfriends online or offline. this is my story i don't know about others. i have a very bad experience of online girlfriend.

I actually married a person that was a thousand miles away from me. We started talking online for 3 years and now we're together and we've been married for four years and counting.. When I met my husband online, I considered him as my boyfriend as he considered me as his girllfriend. When you met "the one" it doesn't matter whether it's online or not, you will feel it in your heart that the person you are talking to is the one you want to be with for the rest of your life.

many people on online relationship are not true or real, some them just want to have fun. and some of online relationship sometimes is not working. try to find in real and not online.

I probably would respect them but I would like to meet them soon to really know if I want to take our relationship that serious.

Hello there Sweetlove. If ever I would have a bf online, I think I also want to see him in person as soon as we could. I wanted to see or feel if I have the same feelings with him when I'm talking to him using the computer and when we are already together in person. I think I observe a lot of people having relationships online. Others, when they see each other, they are still in love and they do their best to love each other more than before when they didn't meet each other yet. Others, maybe, they couldn't really feel the magic when they already met each other. Like maybe they were expecting something special when they meet but when it already happened, like there was no spark. Those people might still continue searching for other guys or ladies to be their partners. I think it is okay for me to have a bf online and I could consider him as my real boyfriend if I feel that I still like and love him when we already met each other in person. If he would say the magic words, "I love you" in person and I would be able to answer back, I think he would really be my boyfriend also in real life. As long as we still communicate with each other after meeting, it's okay. If we might be far from each other, I would really try my best to love him and hold on. Maybe, someday, we would meet each other again and even be together in the same place if we really want to. I think there are really a lot of relationships in this world that each partners are just using the different social networking sites for chatting and seeing each other using the webcam. Whether they met each other in person before they talked to each other online or they only met each other first online, I think, it doesn't matter. If I really love my bf online, I would still consider him as my real bf as long as we said "I love you" to each other in person and if I know that he is really true to me. Even though we might be very far from each other today, I would still be hoping to be with him, in due time. If, we are really meant for each other, nothing could stop us from loving each other more and more. If we really have a good relationship online an offline, I think I would stick to him no matter how other people might judge us that we couldn't make it. Even if other people might tell us that our relationship won't really work, if we want it to work, we could really make it through. I think having a bf online is okay with me. Our relationship might start online but we could also continue it offline. Happy myLotting. :)

Hi sweet love forever: I would not advice someone to start a relationship online unless both are mature enough and they will try their best to make this relationship an offline one. It could be hard but I think I won't call someone my girlfriend until I seriously feel this way which means I would be loyal to this person. If I won't take things serious better not start a relationship in the first place. ALVARO

I found my wife from internet,that's my obsession,cause before that i've just looking for my favorite band news.Now after have children my goal is working online with internet.When first i meet my wife,i said her that i want to looking serious girl who wanna my wife.She's laughing but after that she send me her original picture and we meet in book store.My opinion is you have to find out what kind of people your bf or gf online.Better meet each other.

I'm the kind of person who take my relationship seriously be it online or offline. Though I have never experienced that, I do believe that such relationship could succeed and if i were in that situation, I would never act single. I believe love knows no boundaries and if i fell in love with my bf online, then i should respect that love and not search for another one. I could only love and date one man at a time. So even if he's far away and not with me, I would stay away from other guys.

I think if we have a lover online, we should think of it as serious relationship. We should treat him or her just like the lover you make in real physical environment. In fact, some of the people I knew in online games actually met each other and get married in the end. The most important factor is perhaps your motive when you engage people online. Are you looking for someone to temporarily take away your loneliness? Or you are really looking for a serious relationship.

First of all I appreciate your question. You got a nice question. In my opinion, Online love works only if you take time to meet each other at least once. Otherwise don't make promises and let them break. If you love seriously, you cannot act like Single.. :)

Hi friend, if i have a gf in online i don't search for another girl, it is a great sin to do betraying activities to the person whoever trust us. I agree it is really hard to have a good relationship through online, but if you are committed with a person through online, don't try to search another person and be loyal to the person whoever committed with you

I had online relationships, and I personally took them as very real. One girl, lived thousands of kilometers away from me, but I had fallen in love with her very quickly just from knowing her online. I knew her for 7 months, before I flew out to see her, and it really was one of the greatest experiences of my life. While I was with her, I didn't have anyone else, we kept together. Of course, over times, problems happen, people drift away, and the two of us ended the relationship after a couple of years. It was a sad time, and we kept away from eachother entirely, for around a year or so. After that, she had moved up, far closer to me, only about 200km south, although still in another country (problems with immigration hold us both back from living in the same country.) Nowadays, the two of us are best friends. We get together a few times per year, and we talk online regularly. It can work... but it's an odd one. In the end, I think that all relationships have similarities, along with their vast differences. It all depends on how much you two love eachother, and how well the situation works, to know if you will really stay together.

Well I see it this way. I have friends online. Not a girl friend. If I were single I would not mind meeting someone. But I always use caution. With meeting people from online you never know what could happen. But I do feel good about most of my friends I have here in MyLot as was a another site I use. I don't think its a good idea to have a boy friend or girl friend in real life and have one online as well. Thats bad news. And its not fair to your partner.

Well an online relationship is pointless IMO, you can date once to meet each other but nothing serious, unless you plan to move where your bf lives or he plans to move near you. If there's not such plans, then the relationship is kinda pointless. Couples have to be together.

I think the network is just a platform of meeting new people.I don't think a real guy will be more reliable than the online one,it depends on having a good eye.I have a bf online too,and we enter into the reality.We fell in love after met each other for several times.I think,in principle,one people should only have one love,no matter online or real.

Well, I don't do the whole online dating thing, but i have friends that do, & I don't think you should look for a relationship with someone online. Especially if you already have a boyfriend or girlfriend because, regardless of if you actually "date" the online person, you're still kind of cheating (in my opinion).

i will also advise not to be taking online boy or girl friend serious because many people used to have serious relationship or even married, yet trying to have a relationship on the the net.And some people even do that to scam people, so we have to take our time about online relationship.