Infedil partner what will you do?

Yes kids will fell the tension between the parents, we don't quarrel in front of kids. Go on whatever your decisions if you think if it makes you happy, we have different decisions and we are free to have our own life. good luck and have a happy worry free life. God bless.

Hi cfeist no I'm not offended I appreciate your openness that's why I said we have different decisions . I don't agree or dis agree to anybody here :) ... We are here to share our own ideas. Thanks cfeist and God bless.

I am sorry if I offended you. You asked what we would do and I answered. Rather you fight in front of kids or not they sense the tension and it can get rough. You are very free to have your own life and personally I don't really care what your decision is I just answered a question you have. Good luck with your spouse and Bless your heart.

Totally agree with you marguicha, it seems now days that even if a spouse suspects the other person is out cheating on them, the other partner is out doing it for spite. I don't think now days couples really have any trust or faithfulness in their relationship. I would seriously make sure my partner was cheating, because once a man is a cheater, he will always be a cheater. The children are not a good enough reason to stay with a partner. The longer you stay with a cheating partner because of the kids, the kids will eventually will how miserable the two of you are. You could also be taking it out on the children, because your partner is being unfaithful. Your children would be the ones suffering should a couple stay together for the children's sake when a situation has gone bad.

Hi marg/stout you are right, just like a saying an eye for an eye, what he do you can do too. that's you're points of view and I agree with that. but as for me my opinion may be because of how I grow raised by my family, strong family ties and being martyr :) as what I say if it happened to me I will fight for my love and never give up as Long as he still love me, if not then I will set him free. For me cheater will not die cheater, just like robber will not be forever robber. anyway I love him for better and for worse as long as he didn't hurt me physically I will e with him...But rest assured, if he did it second time again he will surely regret because he will lost his happiness lol... Sorry my dear husband, you are great I know and I treasure the moment when we are together :)

That's true Sunshine and I loved how you described it. A cheater is not always a cheater. Also, the impact is very different if a woman is to cheat on her husband. its just not the same as the man doing it, at least from the culture that we have. In our culture, when men cheat, they do it for fun but when women cheat, they do it because they love the other guy so its really different at least from the culture where I am coming from. I hope I did not create a controversy here.

Lol, Hi Angel please be considerate don't immediately do that.. My husband knows what's next if I cut the hair.. There will be a next if he did it again :) we love them so give a second chance lol.

Hello Angel, good thing Bill Clinton is not your husband. If Hillary Clinton had the same mentality Bill would have been the first US president who got castrated. Lol!

It's really hard to forgive and forget but what's harder is to forget cause it stuck in your memory no matter what. Every now and then there are questions still on my mind, though he did a petty mistake we argued on that and he never confess, he just explain a little then he expect me to believe on what he said. Hadn't I halt what he's doing, they probably end up flirting or worst having a relationship. I believe that prevention is better than cure.

Yup that's it, it's not easy to say I forgive and forget, he must learn a lesson for his actions and accept also the consequences of what he did. I forgive but he must show to me that he really regret so that I will fully trust him again.

Lucky for you Bhe experienced makes both of you the best person now... The painful experience makes both of you grow and obtain a happy life now...Just e proud to have an honest, faithful and loving husband. God bless more your relationship.