he can no longer manage my nature , he might be leave me.

@Angelpink (4034)
Philippines
August 29, 2012 10:10am CST
My man can no longer manage my nature , he is so fed up with me being so possesive and childish. I triggered his sickness because of my nature. He promised to be there for me for life but i guess now he can no longer bear it. What shall i do then Loters , He is my life but i guess he is like leaving me now , he promised that he will not leave me while he lives but i guess today this is no longer the thing , Lotters tell me what shall i do ? Am so sad and shattered! Waiting for all your minds. P.S. I already said sorry to him.
2 responses
@vijayroy (212)
• India
29 Aug 12
Hi Angel, I think you shouldn't leave him, if you love him why you don't change your behaviour for him as he promised you to be there with you for life, possesiveness is nothing but showing so much love, All the best.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
No it is not me who wants to leave but him , i kept on saying sorry and promised to change but that is always a failure for i always breaks the promised and do it again. You know how hard to break a nature.
@vijayroy (212)
• India
29 Aug 12
Ohh, yeah it is very hard to break a nature, so you tried your best then you need to wait for him if he doesn't come back ask him again (if you still love him), True love never fails..
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
True love never sees flaws , to them flaws makes a woman more beautiful and pretty.
@deazil (4730)
• United States
29 Aug 12
If you are overly possessive and behave in a childish manner you need to make an honest effort to change. And make sure you do change. Write a list of the things he doesn't like about you (within reason) and then work to change them. It might help if he is able to see these changes. Or to become aware, somehow, that you have changed. I think you know what to do but need affirmation from others. Getting rid of your bad habits will be hard. If you're looking for an easy way out -- there isn't one. Or you could just let him walk out of your life. Sooner or later you'll get over it and maybe even find someone who will put up with whatever you're doing that your bf doesn't like. It's not easy to change one's bad habits. Good luck.
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
29 Aug 12
Yes it is with me and that what makes me the me ! So true hard to change if i will then that would be my hypocrisy side. I believe if one is true to you no matter what flaws you got , for life he will bear it considering her weakness .