Loving is hurting
By rikell
@rikell (25)
Philippines
August 30, 2012 2:24am CST
I have a friend who fall inlove with her high school classmate. But after their high school years, they separated for the guy studied college to another city. After 15 years, they met again. And they fall inlove again even though the guy was already married and has 2 kids. The guy said, his marriage is falling apart. But my friend was so inlove, they continue their relationship. But after 2 years, the guy left her and go with another woman. In 4 years, they never have any communication, thogu the guys mother always send financial support to their child. And lately, the guy came back, and my friend still accepted the guy, even though the guy is with his new girlfriend and they also has a kid.
My friend still loves the guy, though the guy is just enjoying her...
Lately, i realize why are there people like this guy?
And why my friend still loves this guy though he is hurting her?...
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 12
that guy is very selfish 
i mean he finds new gfs and always come back to your friend. he takes your friend for granted 
cause everytime no matter what he does, she always wants him back. your friend should not accept him this time. to see if he really comes back always to her bcs like her and cant be happy with others girls. or because he knows that she is always there for him. she
should find out what he really feels for her. cause is very unfair that he is always with other girls and then comes back to her again after leaving. she deserves a normal happy relationship. and this is not one. tell your friend not to accept him back this time. so then she will see what he does. if he continues with other girls then she should move on and forget him. if he leaves that gf to be with your friend she can give him a chance. but if he leaves her again then she should forget him.
i mean he finds new gfs and always come back to your friend. he takes your friend for granted cause everytime no matter what he does, she always wants him back. your friend should not accept him this time. to see if he really comes back always to her bcs like her and cant be happy with others girls. or because he knows that she is always there for him. she
should find out what he really feels for her. cause is very unfair that he is always with other girls and then comes back to her again after leaving. she deserves a normal happy relationship. and this is not one. tell your friend not to accept him back this time. so then she will see what he does. if he continues with other girls then she should move on and forget him. if he leaves that gf to be with your friend she can give him a chance. but if he leaves her again then she should forget him. @rikell (25)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
yes, i will share this to my friend to help her open her eyes to reality.
the guy cant leave his gf, and cant leave my friend. the guy even got the number of my friend and told my friend that her number will be saved as his cousin. I really can't understand why there are guys like that, more than a two timer. I am sure that aside from his present gf and my friend, he still had other gf's that my friend doesn't know. I tell my friend that I had a feeling that her guy has several gf's than his present gf and my friend. My friend will just smile. My friend is really inlove or she's just fooled by the guy. I never met the guy yet because my friend wont let me.
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@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
1 Sep 12
you should meet the guy personally. im sure that maybe he would even flirt with you. that would be a good thing for your friend to see. if she saw him flirting with you that would mean that any girl is good for him. he even dared to put your friend's number as his cousin and she still be with him? your friend is humiliating herself. another thing you could do to help her was showing her what people here in mylot say about it. that way she would see that everyone thinks she is being used. if he loved her he would never act like this.
@rikell (25)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
yeah, that is why I am posting this to solicit ideas from myLot members..
I already introduced her to my friends...
And she's doing good, but when this guys calls her, she would give in. She can't say no to him. That is why until now my friend is still single.
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