Someone you love or Someone that loves You ?

Thailand
August 30, 2012 7:36am CST
if you have two choices the first one is someone you love but doesn't love you back or someone that loves you but you don't love him or her back... who would you choose ?
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@blinjk (617)
• United States
30 Aug 12
Choosing between the two is so hard because love should be mutual and not one sided. But if I will choose between the two, maybe it is someone who loves me because love can be learned and maybe I could also love the person back as long as he can wait for it but I have to be honest to him that there is no assurance that I will love him back because love cannot be forced.
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• Thailand
30 Aug 12
you are right, lady ! It's really hard question because both sides are not mutual.
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@vipline (134)
• Greece
30 Aug 12
I would choose the one that I love but doesnt love me back just because if I choose the one that loves me but I dont love her back I would have in mind that I hurt her feelings ang I couldn't live with this feeling!Some may have different opinion than me and I wanna hear them all!Happy mylotting!
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• Thailand
30 Aug 12
your point is interesting.. we can't live with guilt forever
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@vipline (134)
• Greece
30 Aug 12
Exactly there is now way that you will feel happy for what you are causing to the one that really loves you and that makes you feel guilty about your self!
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@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
2 Sep 12
I will choose someone who loves me. It is better to love someone who loves me and will teach me how to love him back rather than someone who I love but doesn't love me. It's hard to fight for love that you don't know if you will succeed in the end. So for me, i will choose the one who loves me.
@yiart65 (146)
• Singapore
4 Sep 12
I would want someone whom I love and loves me back the same way because love is a mutual thing to me. But if I have to make a choice, I would choose neither one. Choosing someone I love is better because I get to make the choice or giving up when I get tired of chasing after the person. But if I were to choose someone that loves me and I don't love him back, it wouldn't be fair and I will be living with guilt. Compared to the tired of feeling of chasing after someone and living with guilt, I would choose the first one. But if I really have the freedom to choose between these two, I would choose neither because both will make one suffer under different emotions.
@Teep11 (7673)
• United States
13 Oct 15
I chose the one that loves me and I love him back. Too many years not to. Choose the one who will be with you no matter what.
@sbrn11 (415)
• India
30 Aug 12
i would prefer, someone who loves me. if i love a person, but he doesn't love me back, he will always find ways to go away from me. always hurt my feelings all the time, make all different kinds of excuses to stay away from me. whereas, the person who loves me will always try to cheer me up, always keep me happy no matter what. will understand me, love me, have faith in me. will always support me.
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• Thailand
30 Aug 12
Great choice ! I totally think it's the best way
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@ajithlal (14716)
• India
30 Aug 12
I like love and lover. But I didn't love someone before marriage . In my opinion is that, anyone love someone that person must marry their lover . Otherwise they didn't love anyone .