Lacking the courage.

@yiart65 (146)
Singapore
August 30, 2012 12:08pm CST
I have many goals in life but lacked the courage to pursue my dreams. I want a change in life but I'm afraid of change. I've been having the thought of going overseas to work or study on my own but never had the courage to take the first step. I had the chance of going overseas to pursue my studies 3 years ago but I missed the chance. Now, I'm facing the situation of a job in my dream company and a chance of going overseas to pursue my studies. In a dilemma now as I do not know which direction should I go. A part of me wants to go for the job but another part of me wants to go overseas to study. Have been thinking about this for quite awhile and I'm only left with 2 weeks to make the final decision. Should I take the first step of going overseas to study and make a change in life? Or should I go for the job in my dream company?
4 responses
@roshigo58 (4859)
• Pune, India
20 Mar 13
Hi, What are you doing now? Studying overseas or doing a job in dreamed company. If I were in your place I would have been chosen to do a job in dreamed company. Because going overseas was not your dream. Doing a job in this company was your dream.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
31 Aug 12
The reason why i come here is that i'm totally, exactly the same with you. I wanna find a job and make decent money after i graduate, however, i wanna achieve my goal to pursue my further education overseas, these two makes me crazy and i'm confused about my choice, and now i think let it go. Just go when you think you are ready for it.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
If I am in your shoe, I will choose the job that I am dreaming. I think it's the right choice. It's not everyday that a company offers a job, but I can divide my time to study once I am settled with my job.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
30 Aug 12
a pleasant day yiart65, with reference to your post, if i will be placed in the same situation as yours, i would rather choose the job in the company that i am dreaming of. since i will be given a chance to work on the company that i have dreamed of, i will see to it that i can portrait properly the role and task to be given to me. and since i will be working on my dream company, i will be more inspired in doing my job. and who knows, later on, i can still do studying the course that i want and change my life to achieve the success that i am hitting on.