we had a fight
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
August 31, 2012 1:44pm CST
last night I was talking to my boyfriend and we had a fight over the fact that I didn't want him to come and sleep at my place. I told him that my father was in town and if he was brave enough to face him in the morning than he should come. he didn't understand and he kept insisting that I should ask my father if he intends to come to visit me in the morning and so on...so I got angry and told him something like this" I don't want you to come.stop insisting". he obviously felt ofenssed and I felt bad about how I said it but he simply piss** me off because he kept insisting.
anyway we kept talking and still he didn't get it and he insisted telling me that he just wants to hold me in his arms...but he misspelled the words and I told him ...and this really got him angry...but he should be able to stand constructive criticism
now I see that for the whole day he didn't give me a call at least.which is weird coming from him
2 responses
@anneshirley (1516)
• Philippines
1 Sep 12
If at this early you are having hard time putting reason to his head, then what will happen if you ended up marrying him? I can't imagine. If he's not man enough to face your dad then you can say goodbye to him. A man with good intention to a girl would first court her parents before courting the girl.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
1 Sep 12
we're from different cities so he doesn't know my parents. I don't want to present him to them this is the problem. at least not for now. my father is a more difficult person and he thinks that no one is good enough for me.I"m not convinced that I want a long term relationship with this guy and this is why I don't want him and my father to meet. and it would have been weird for my father to catch us in bed or things like that don't you think?
@nerein (283)
• United States
1 Sep 12
Well it sounds like your boyfriend just did not get the point. It sounds like he was maybe jealous that your father was going to be there with you and not him. Now even though it is nice to have someone in your arms sometimes some people do use that to get there way. I know I myself have done that a couple of times.
As well it sounds like you told him that if he could handle your father in the morning then he could come over. Although it does sound like he did not want your father over there at all which is not right. That is your father, he has more right there than the boyfriend does. I think that you had every right to be pissed at him.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
1 Sep 12
you can imagine how my father would have reacted if he saw him in the morning in bed with me...especially when they don't even know each other. it seemed stupid to me the fact that he kept pushing me when I told him that he can't come. even if my father didn't come...that night I wanted to be alone. why was it so hard for him to understand this?
