Girlfriend

Philippines
September 2, 2012 6:55am CST
What is the average age for students to have their first girlfriend? I want to know how far behind I am cause I never could talk to girls until I was 15, I had my first girlfriend months before turning 16. Some of my friends at the time still didn't have a girlfriend while some say that they've had numerous relationships since the age of 11 and they were always telling stories about each girl during lunch break while everyone else enviously listened. Whether they were true or not I'll probably never know but what I would like to know is how old were you when you had you're first girlfriend/boyfriend and maybe you could give me some pointers in finding a special someone. Cause I'm still not completely confident around girls.
11 responses
3 Sep 12
hi bro...i think average age to have a girl friend is after teen age. because its to early to have a girlfriend in the age of 15 or 16..i am 16 and still i dont have any girl friend..its wastage of time nothing else..and really its also wastage of money if you belong to a poor family and can not afford your girl friend expensive..your maturing age is 19 to 20..so its better to have a gf in this time period..do you think i am right..?
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
The usual age that girls would actually have boyfriends is at the age between 14-16. But there are those that have as early as 11 years old. I had my first boyfriend at 13 years old... my first love.
@Dassodils (2010)
• India
2 Sep 12
Nice and variety question.In my opinion,when they feel to get a girl friend.In my schools,I had seen that many of the children keeping such cute girl friend relations..and that will be very nice to watch them.All the Best
@Hillxuan (77)
• China
3 Sep 12
i had my first boyfriend at age of 22 in my college.that time i feel very happy.but about your question,i think it's not have the best answer.in my opinion,at age of 20 or 21 is the best time.especially,you can fall in love during college.it is a good time to fall in love.that time we have time and not to think too much.
@Otanetix (508)
• United States
2 Sep 12
Generally, I would think most people on average would get their first girlfriend between the ages of 16 and 21 years of age; however, this is just my own rough approximation. I have heard some people may say something different like starting at age 14 years of age as the earliest time for getting a girlfriend. If you happen the fall out the average norm range, it's okay. Because everyone is different, we all go through these type of things at a different pace. As a very nerdy guy, I would not fall in the stereotype of nerds secretly wanting girlfriends, at least not right away. Typically, I just enjoyed life talking to my friends about our general interests of sci-fi/fantasy, video games, and anime. I know some of my friends already wanted girlfriends before we entered secondary school. It was probably about when we were ages 12-13 that my friends started talking about wanting girlfriends. On occasion, I did go to school dances and social events, but I never really aimed for having a relationship until secondary school; I participated in those events to hang out with my friends.
• India
3 Sep 12
It is not necessary that you should have numerous girlfriends in your life . I would say even if you have only one in your life and if that a true love , you don't need anyone else in your life. I would say there are no pointers from finding someone if you are looking for true love. But what you are and you will surely find someone who loves you a lot . You also will surely find someone with whom you want to live your life . The only key is to be yourself
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
2 Sep 12
you go and talk to your girlfriend real casually,try to share some good time with her,know here interests,its not about age,but all about how well we care for each other in longer time
• Philippines
2 Sep 12
I had my first boyfriend at the age of 22. Well, it doesn't mean that nobody ever dared to court me during my teen years cause in fact, there were numbers of them who pursued on me. It was just my own decision not to be in a relationship when I wouldn't be able to finish college. I wanted to pass college with flying colors and be a worthy daughter to my parents. I also didn't want to think about lots of things other than my studies and luckily with my decision, I haven't brought such embarrasment to my parents. Here in our country, having a relationship at the age of 15 or 16, is just too early. Well you could be into one if you really would like to, but never make that relationship your first priority. Think about your parents who are working so hard just to earn a living and who are trying hard to give you a quality of education that could somehow will give you a nice future. Try to enjoy life as a kid first and don't try to push things too hard. You could always have the best relationship when you would fully be a grown up and you could be successful as well.
@freedang (320)
• China
2 Sep 12
yeah,noeaday every young people have their gf or bf even they looked so young,some of them just 13,14years old. to be honest i had my first gf when i was 16 when i was still at high school.but i dont think i meet love at that time now,i am so young and cannt realize the true meaning of love.it was a crush. but it is most precious memery in my whole life.i will tresure it forever and i want to say :thank you to that girl,even she will not hear it
• United Arab Emirates
2 Sep 12
I remember when i am just 18 i have no girlfriend because i don't make any relation like girlfriend . i don't know any thing about this . just i am working to my busy life. and i had no girl friend i realize when i am 19 any one have girl friend not mine i am very shy person till now. i don't know what i am talking to my girlfriend to impress her . but now i am realize that how important of girlfriends in your life . as life partner . what feelings to give her some gifts and chocolates . how she felt it when i do this . girl friend is so important to any boy . its nice feelings . i knew when i abusing to her, she left me .and i font want to do, i kis on her forehead but not kis her on lips till now . i had make relationship 4years we know each-other now . so keep girlfriend neat and clean
2 Sep 12
The general tendency will be during college, i.e., after 12th class. So you can consider it as 17.