What do you think of him?
By marketing07
@marketing07 (6266)
South Korea
September 3, 2012 5:40am CST
hi, mylotters i really don't know what to think about this situation, as if im a teenage girl next door
this situation started when i studied barista or coffee making class.at first im very attentive and active on every activities of the class.until this kind of situation arises, my teacher always behind me so whenever i turned around i will touch him accidentally.or he is always smiling at me.i always saw him staring at me, i just pretend nothing, then comes a time he wink at me.that makes me wonder what is happening.
and whenever i make coffee he will come and make for me..i don't know what to think because he know im a married woman and older than him..he is on his mid 30's 
what do you think ? i need your opinion..please!!!
this situation started when i studied barista or coffee making class.at first im very attentive and active on every activities of the class.until this kind of situation arises, my teacher always behind me so whenever i turned around i will touch him accidentally.or he is always smiling at me.i always saw him staring at me, i just pretend nothing, then comes a time he wink at me.that makes me wonder what is happening.and whenever i make coffee he will come and make for me..i don't know what to think because he know im a married woman and older than him..he is on his mid 30's what do you think ? i need your opinion..please!!!8 responses
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
3 Sep 12
Hi friend, may be your teacher have an idea about you, as you mentioned you are a married woman as well as elder than him, so you must advise him to stop this kind of activities, as you are elder than him, so there is nothing wrong in guiding him in a good way.
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
3 Sep 12
hi friend, i thought this teacher of mined is older than me...im having difficulty to confront him coz i cant speak his dialect well, although i can understand their language but i cant speak well.
@igatiful_badass (1222)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
hmmm it seems he is trying to show you some affections. Just be careful of things like especially you already is having a married life. Just don't give him a hint as his signal to pursue whatever in his mind. Always think your family first.
@kaeirole (668)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
i think he's interested on you..but it's still up to you what to do on that..better talk to him and ask him in a polite way why he's doing those things to you..what you'll do isn't a sign that you're conceited..you're just being mature to talk about things like that, especially if it disturbs you..
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
3 Sep 12
i always wanted to talk to him..but whenever i started to talk he will try to smile at me and because i dont like it..i just go away.hope i could find a way to tell him frankly...
@somupriti (353)
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3 Sep 12
I think there is a passion in his mind about U and he is bit anxious to develop some relationship. Be frank and make clear every thing about U.
@venessapaula (168)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
Whoa, he seems very creepy!!!I don't know what to do if I were you. You seem to be enjoying your class, but if your teacher is that way,I think you would really lost interest. Are there any other classes with a different teacher? Or you could ask your husband to pick you up after class, so your teacher will feel that he has no right to be showering you with inappropriate attention since you are a married woman.
I hope everything goes well. I love coffee myself, but I don't know how to make it!
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
3 Sep 12
oh.yes..everytime i perform or participate to the class i always lost concentration ..i bring my daughter onetime to show that im already married with kids but the more he shows interest.i even saw him at the supermarket next to my house..i can't tell my husband about this,,i want to solve this on my own way..
making coffee is very easy but the machine and etc. are very expensive...thanks vanessa
@birdie816 (1276)
• United States
3 Sep 12
Well I definately think your teacher has a crush on you lol. It is an awkward situation, but I think you should just explain to him that you are married and not interested in him and maybe he will back off (if you are lucky). I was in a similar situation to this when I was working. My manager used to flirt with me all the time but I was married, only then he didnt get the hint when I told him to back off. So I quit.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
3 Sep 12
Do not fall for his "antics". You might get tempted. If you feel any further advances from him, may be it is time for you to tell him frankly that you are annoyed with his actions and that if her refuses to stop his actions, you will report him to the school authorities.
@marketing07 (6266)
• South Korea
3 Sep 12
thats what i want to do..but i dont have courage to tell him
