borrowed money or helping money?

Given the type of relationship that you have with your sibling, you are both accommodating her wishes and providing her with the means of helping her out of 'her distress' at the same time. More power to you. Of course, you know the 'strength' of your financial resources, and I hope that you will be prudent in your decisions. In addition, expressions of kindness will always be a rewarding activity. Hence, I have no doubt that your sister will seek to show her appreciation, as well as to repay you in the near future. All the best Bulastika.

let us stick to the title question above of your discussion. borrowing another amount of money to pay for the first debt. is it helpful or not? for me, it depends on the situation. if money she borrowed for the payment of the first debt have big interest, not it would not help her. but if it without too big interest, somehow she would be saved from defacement and that she can pay it in due time i suppose. at least, a good option for her to have at the moment rather being sued or jailed because unable to pay her obligation. now, for the second debt, she will can find a way to pay for sure not to experience oddness in life. thanks for allowing us to share our thoughts :)

You can only do so much to help your sister and no more. If you give everything then you will both have nothing. Is there no way that you both can sit down together and come up with some kind of financial plan or rather, an action plan of how to get out of debt? Is there no one or organisation that you can approach for a ealistic plan to help you both get out of debt? Selling soemthing with a small mark up price may be an option. If the mark up is small then you have a better chance of selling a larger quantity. Very best of luck to you both.

Oh, I wish your sister can free herself from those debts. If we have debts we don't have any peace of mind. I hope you and her can find better jobs so that you can help each other in times like this. It's hard to approach other people when it comes to money matters. If we could lend them, why not? I hope she will not borrow money from you all the time. She also needs to consider your situation. I hope both of you will be in better situation soon. Happy mylotting.

I think what the two of you can do to alleviate your situation is, both of you should increase your means. Yes, living below your means can help, but, increasing your means or increasing your income, both of you, is far greater.

Hi bulastika, give what you can give not to the extent of what you also need, if you have extra then you can give her if not then explain to her nicely that you have an obligations to settle first. But if it's emergency of course please give anyway she is your sister someday the tire will rotate and she will be one to help you if that time comes. It's nice to give than to receive anyway. It's hard to beg remember. :)

Good friend, please my dear , u do not displease yourself to please others,people can be very fun when it comes to help, i have someone to make easier, till now he is in money rich in most of goods things in life, now he told his security man not to allow me into his apartment, all what i am telling you is not a joke or kind of make up, it effected my life but life had to move on ,u know. A good advice , give but not to discomfort your self,OK.

Well, no one can help and understand your sister's situation but you, if you have lots and lots of money, I think you can give her, but if you don't have, I think she can understand your situation too, at least at this time you will be a big help for her. Tell her that she can give it back to you even little by little, as you said she is really in her worst condition right now. But also try to balance everything. Hope that all goes well.