he choosed to be with her
By alina
@swissheart (6482)
Romania
September 3, 2012 1:04pm CST
it's so hard to accept the idea that we can't at least be friends. there was a time when we used to talk for hours...now I barely see him online. I don't want to send him a message as I"m afraid his girlfriend might see it( this happend and I don't want to provoke a fight between them)
there was a time when we couldn't pass a day without talking for hours...and now he said he doesn't feel the need to use the internet anymore. he doesn't send me any message no nothing...so I guess he doesn't feel the need to talk to me anymore
I"m listening to all kind of sad songs aldo I know that they only make me feel worse
I just don't understand what made him change so much
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7 responses
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
that hurts
I feel for you... if he said so, then just let him go. Time will eventually heal your broken heart and soon enough you're gonna find someone who's not gonna let you go... it isn't worth waiting for someone who already have someone in their life.
I feel for you... if he said so, then just let him go. Time will eventually heal your broken heart and soon enough you're gonna find someone who's not gonna let you go... it isn't worth waiting for someone who already have someone in their life. @swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Sep 12
I decided not to do this anymore. there's nothing in this world that would deserve my tears and he obviously doesn't care. and even if he decides to act the same way he did before I'm going to reject him. I was so stupid that it hurts, to believe him. he has a girlfriend. there's nothing that would force him to stay with her...if he really wanted to be with me than he would have come to see me. he always found all kind of pretexts not to do it and in the end he blamed me because I was too cold with him. he told me something like this:" you're going to be my next girlfriend" and he would date one girl after another.so how on earth was I so stupid to thrust him
@enelym001 (8322)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
That's good for you. Sometimes, we, ladies, tends to be blind when we love someone. We don't hear or see wrong on the person we love. And everything he says, we always believed. But there comes a time when we realized we're being fooled and lied to.
@katieMaldita (14)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I feel you. It just hurts to think that he was once yours. You were once his. You were his life but now you seem a nobody. Maybe you need to move on. I know its easy to say and hard to do. But its the best thing to do. Make yourself a better person and show him what he lost. Make him regret that he left you. Its the sweetest revenge.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
4 Sep 12
I've had it enough...I've had it enough with him being just a spoiled kid who thinks he has the right to play with anyone else's feelings the way he feels like. I'm simply sick of it and I don't know how was I so stupid to wait for him for so long...he doesn't deserve it. nor this..nor anything else
@savypat (20216)
• United States
3 Sep 12
Maybe the girlfriend ended this between you. I think this happens often when the relationship with the girl is new, it may settledown and you'll soon be back to internet friends, but then again maybe not. Try to find yourself a new focus and if he returns that will just be a blessing for you..
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
3 Sep 12
his relationship it's not new..they've been together for quite a while but they would always fight and later get back together. but in a way you're right she ended this between us because as he said his feelings for her started to change...and now he realised he loves her
@lelin1123 (15595)
• Puerto Rico
3 Sep 12
You need to stop listening to sad songs, first of all. Then you need to stop thinking about him which I know is probably easier said then done. However, you are wasting your precious time on a person who is no longer interested. Just move on and do something you love to do and enjoy your life. Mr. Right will come along when you are not looking for him. Remember if it was meant to be you would be with him right now. Good luck and be happy!
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
3 Sep 12
I don't believe in destiny..I don't believe in two people that were meant to be together. but he obviously lost interest in me and this is why I promised myself I'll never even try to talk to him. I'm sick of it and him playing with any girl's feelings.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
3 Sep 12
i felt the same as you swiss. just today i saw my ex online i said hi how are you and he left. i dont know if he deleted me of his contacts or not. i mean he was the one finding someone else when was supposed to be waiting for me. and he even acts like ignoring me. i never understood how he could change so much. he was so sweet to me you dont imagine. but then when he met that girl he didnt even tell me. i found it out on his facebook account. and i even had to message him asking what was going
on a few times. till i receive a reply. after it he said sorry and still loves me but then ignored me. then said he loves me again. and then ignored me again. and deleted me of his facebook friends. after all i been through. cause we were having a long distance relationship so the entire day i was working like 12 hours helping my mum in restaurant, i came home tired writing him a letter everyday to send him and then he found someone else and even deleted me like i was a sh*t he met. till today i dont understand him. he could just say sorry and say we can still be friends or something. he didnt have to talk to me anymore but delete me of his life like i was nothing without even saying goodbye thats what hurts me the most.
i think just a boy can explain us why boys act like this :(
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
3 Sep 12
I went trough a similar situation and what makes me sad was that the only thing he did was to play with my feelings probably. he was with the girl he is now. he used to tell me their problems and so on. one day he said that he started to see something different in me something more than just a friend. we kept talking and flirting. on december it was my birthday and he said that he would come to see me then. I was extremly happy..2 days later he told me he couldn't come because he had forgot that the session of exams would start in december. now let's get serious how could you froget a thing like that?anyway I didn't say anything aldo I was really disappointed
on new year he got back together with his current girlfriend..another disappointment. later he broke up with her and started dating another girl, supposingly because he didn't want to hurt me( we had a fight back than and I told him that he took decisions that I was suposed to take..if I want to take the risk of being hurt or not)
and now he reproached me why didn't I tell him to stop dating her( and I asked him how was I supposed to do that, to tell him: hey you idiot stop dating her or I'll kick you as*,,,and he said yes), that I was too cold with him and that I should have shown him how much I care for him.
now he got back together with his girlfriend and he says that his feelings for her changed and that he started to love her.
I don't get it what gives this kind of people the right to play with someone else's feelings the way they feel like
@katieMaldita (14)
• Philippines
4 Sep 12
I feel you. It just hurts to think that he was once yours. You were once his. You were his life but now you seem a nobody. Maybe you need to move on. I know its easy to say and hard to do. But its the best thing to do. Make yourself a better person and show him what he lost. Make him regret that he left you. Its the sweetest revenge.
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
4 Sep 12
You have to accept the changes that life brings to you.Now that he got himself a girlfriend,he would obviously spend most of his time with her.You cannot expect him to be the same as before to you.Even if he is,his girlfriend would not leave him because every girl would be possessive over her guy and have the desire to make him stay with her with all the time possible.So just go on with it.Hope he still stays as a good friend with you.Don't let this matter come between you guys.
