i should find a love myself or i love him to get married?how to choose??
By Hillxuan
@Hillxuan (77)
China
September 4, 2012 7:39pm CST
the problem is my mother want me to fall in love,but before i said that i will not fall in love during 2012.she is worried that my age is too old.of course,i think my age still small.i still have several years to play,attention i'm a girl.but another problem made me puzzled.i should find a man love me or i love the man,which one is more better,certainly,we must have favorable impression,so do you give me a hand?thanks.
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7 responses
@knicnax (2233)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
it's easy to be inlove, since being inlove is just euphoric feelings. A heightened sense of joy. now being in LOVE is different. Love becomes a choice. The choice to stay even if you'll get hurt.
You can't choose not to fall in love in 2012. When love comes, it kicks as* hard! If it doesn't, well, you can't force it even if you start mooning!
@makesyoumoney (3)
• United States
5 Sep 12
Ok first thing to remember is love will not be a snap of a finger so don't push yourself on it it will be when it wants to b
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
Hi, Hillxuan! How old are you? I don't think that you can easily fall in love just because you were told so by your mother. No matter how old you might be and still there is nobody that you feel you have a connection with, then, it is just next to impossible to fall in love. Do not pressure yourself to be in love. Just enjoy your life and meet lots of people. Who knows, your Mr. Right is just right next to you all along.
@Judy890 (1644)
• United States
5 Sep 12
Hello Hillxuan,
I feel like your mother is rushing you to date, if you don't want to date anyone you should wait. Usually when things are rushed you get a horrible result. If you feel that you should be dating then look for someone who you like and they have the same feelings for you as well.
@diezmara22 (818)
• Indonesia
5 Sep 12
I think what your mother is afraid of fear you do not have a boyfriend and will continue menyenderi, maybe good about it. But it all comes back to yourself, while you're still enjoying your youthful love and enjoy but jik youth can walk together what harm you start looking for a girlfriend. I think love is better than love because the love you do not have to fight extra. But if the courtship is better to love and be loved.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
5 Sep 12
When the right one come along you will not be asking that question , you will just know this is the man you love and want to be with . Love is very powerful and it doesn't ask question . Love should go both way , I will not marry for marrying sake . Live your life and let the puzzle unveil itself to you , never rush into anything .
