My mother, my friend

It is very good when your mom and you are friends like that, you can share every problem, hanging out with her, etc... I am not too closed to my mom like you do. I live alone for long time and sometime i make phone calls to her, hearing her talk..rarely i share her my things such as my love, study, or any problem...i think it is my character...even when i have problems, i just ask her and hear her story only, never speak out my problems. But for sure mom is always a great person...

It is wonderful that you have a loving and supportive mother and I envy you. As a child I was scared of my mother and although this passed when I got older there were so many issues in our relationship. I never quarelled with her or disrespected her. In fact, I never raised my voice or made her cry but she was such a vain, beautiful women who put her vanity before her children. She was deaf until I was about 12 or 13 years old when she had surgery. She could have had a hearing ais but preferred not to wear one as they were large and cumbersome when I was a child. So her vanity counted for more than hearing her children speak or child as I was the youngest and by the time I was born, she was very deaf. This always hurt me. I have a good relationship with my children and I hope that they love me as much as you love your mother.

Hello there. It's good to know that you really have a great relationship with your family especially with your mother. Since your best friend couldn't be there for you yet, it's good that you have your mother with you to uplift your spirit or to make you feel better when you are not feeling so good. Really, our mothers know how we are feeling even though we won't tell them that much. It's really good that you could spend some good times with your mother and she's always there for you everyday. In my case, I think I also have a very good relationship with my mother. I love her so much because she is also always there to support me especially when I needed her the most. When I felt so bad and lonely before, she also didn't leave me alone and she tried her best to do some things for me to be happy again. Now, I'm missing my mother because we couldn't be together everyday. I only see her maybe four times a month and sometimes only thrice because my workplace is a bit far from our hometown. I also consider her as my friend because she is always supportive to me and she's always there to inspire me to strive harder in life. When I have some problems, she could really give me some pieces of advice that are really beneficial to me. I just love my mother, my friend. I hope I could see her again soon because I know, this time, she also needs me for her to be happy. I will also make some things that could make her glad because I know that she's already getting a bit older. I want to bring her sweet memories. Her birthday is also fast approaching so I hope I could make her feel special that day. Stay happy being with your mother. Happy myLotting. :)

Some of us don't have the opportunity to feel how it is to have a mother who is more than willing to take out all our pain and would endure practically anything for us. i am not that close to my mom but in times that i feel like giving up, there is no better person to go to than her.

Wow. Your mom must be very lucky to have you and you to have her. Like you, my mom is always the person that I can talk too. I work in my house and everytime it's my vacant I always got the chance to talk to her. I know all the thing about her, her emotions, problems and happiness. Lucky me I knew them all. My mom also knew me very well. We don't argue anymore because we know each other very well. We know how to calm ourselves if ever someone is starting a fight. My mom is really great. So as your mom. :) Keep that kind of relationship always. And sorry to hear about your bestfriend's situation. Hope she'll come out soon. :)

i have my mother like your mother, and i can feel that you feel. i am man but i closed with my mother than my father, but i love both of them. unfortunately i far from her now , cause i work outside my city, i only speak by phone with her, so i miss her so much. sometimes i back home just only to meet and see her lovely face. speaking and see her lovely face in telephone not same with direct meeting, hiks..hiks..i m crying now (i miss you mom)

i have had a pretty good relationship with my mom over the years too but we have gotten closer in the few years since my dad passed away as she is alone and i am an only child. my daughters are teens. the first one just went away to college this week and the other is 15 and i have good relationships with them and hope they will continue and that we will be close as they age.

That is so wonderful that you have your mother to talk to about anything. I get along with my mother but she is very judgemental so there are lots of things I will not talk to her about. Its important to have someone that we can trust to talk to about anything and that is the man I've been seeing for a few years. He is the only one I would tell anything and know he wont repeat it and wont look down at me for how I think.

so right. many people dont have a good relationship with mom. i didnt. so i clung to my aunt that just passed away as mom. its why ive been so upset about loosing her. now there is almost no one i can talk with about anything. sometimes a couple of my kids, but i cant talk or ask advice about them any more

I'm so happy that you have such a good relationship with your mom. I have a good one too with my mom but unfortunately we live far apart from each other. I do talk to her every single day and sometimes two or three times in a day. However, the person who is my best friend and always there for me no matter what is my hubby. He will pull me out of a rut in a minute and he will do anything to make me happy and visa versa.

before having my own children my mother was my best ally where i could confide everything even my secrets. she too is a very wonderful mom that would defend me always from my father's reproach when i made some foolishness while still a kid. I miss those days now for we now live in a different place which is quite far and expensive for travel. It was more than a year now since we last saw each other and i truly miss her.

Some people have been blessed with a wonderful mother in all areas of their life no matter what they do. I have a fair relationship wit mine. It's only cause she has a tendancy to be boses, controlling, and other things so I know it's not on my part. It's her problem, sadly. There are times we can talk like friends and then she will just go back to her old ways of having to critique everything and try to tell me how or when to do something. No at ,y age of 49 who needs that, it was hard to take at 16 and sometimes I tend to think she still thinks of me as 12. I know some of this must be her health cause no person in their right mind would be like this at my age. I don't care what kind of situation it is. Some mothers bring it on themselves with their own personality traits on how they treat family members wether they chose to live a peaceful life with everyone getting along 24/7 and some do not. My mother seems to be bored with a peaceful life and thrives on conflict. Why else would someone dig out, say, or furthermore just be a jerk with things they should keep quiet about, etc. She is the type who will say whats on her mind or critique only cause she thinks she is superior to you in all ways. Seriously. This is how it is in my family. Cherish your mom, she is a gem and always in your heart. I will always have a love/hate relationship with mine. Partially or more her own fault, as she treats her husband the same crappy way so it's not just me, it's her problem.

yes, i am glad too that i have a good relationship with my mother. we are not so close with my father and that if we have problems, when we want something to buy or anything, we approached our mother first and then my mother would abridge us to our father for approval. and even now, we all love our mother for having a good spirit and a kind person. she is our all and we want her to be happy all the time. a young woman with strong personality, so God bless all the mothers in the whole world. thanks for the opportunity to allow us to reply in your sensible post :)

I may have many lovers, friends but my relationship of my mother to myself is beyond compare. Always ready to be by my side in all my needs, in sickness or in health. She is my refuge in times of troubles , worries and problems with a helping hand. My mother is my best friend and my mentor in all sorts to make me a strong person. Mama I love very much... Thank you for everything that is in me...Next to God you are my strength and a shoulder to lean on. Be strong always and in good health. God bless.

My mother was also my best friend. She has been gone almost 20 years and what I wouldn't give to have her back for one day...one more time eating a taco salad together....one more lesson in crocheting! We are both lucky. I miss her everyday..