Love Your Enemy

@kongno (431)
Philippines
September 5, 2012 5:29am CST
first of all i don't have enemy, and i don't want to have one, and if with some unavoidable circumstances im going to have an enemy, i would never waist my time loving them, i will just ignore and avoid them as mush as i can, but loving an enemy??? never...
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@blinjk (617)
• United States
5 Sep 12
I really do not also have enemy but someone treats me her worst enemy.I really do not see her as my enemy because she was my friend before. I also just ignore her just to stop the issue that she had made.I have nothing to do with her anymore for I have explained my side already and still she insist the issue.I have my own life and continuing to argue with her is just a waist of my precious time.
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@kongno (431)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
yeah precious time would only be wasted if you continue arguing with this kind of person, you already explained your side and that's it put an end to a time waisting issue...
@fatlex06 (895)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
I agree. There is no way I will love my enemy. I will be so plastic if ever that happens. Never in my life will that happen. But like you, I don't have enemy yet. lol. But I'm not wishing to have one. Oh yeah, I remember. I think I have. There was this one girl last week who sent me a message on facebook saying a lot of bad things about me and my family. But I don't consider her as an enemy. I consider her as a stranger who don't know me well. God bless us all.
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@kongno (431)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
yeah God bless us all, i wonder how other people have the nerve of saying bad things to people they don't really know, well as they say dog barks at strangers
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
I think that is a great way of keeping yourself stress-free. you know what I do to people who thinks that I am their enemy? I give them gifts so that they'll know that I am not the kind of peron that they think I am.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
hey that's a remarkable way of of keeping yourself stress-free, but ask of me, i'll just rather give gifts to my love ones, i really can;t afford do what you have in mind, but then again everyone has his or her own choice of what to do with a certain circumstances, if you believe giving gifts to the people who think you are their enemy, then the choice is yours,.
@STOUTjodee (3573)
• United States
5 Sep 12
I'm usually nice to every body I meet, so hopefully I don't have an enemies! I've heard the saying, "Keep your friends close and your enemies closer." That statement wasn't meant to love your enemy though, I don't think?
• United States
6 Sep 12
I can't grasp the idea of "loving my enemy" either. Your enemy is your enemy for some reason and to love them is something I couldn't/wouldn't do. Unless, it's to just love them like you would anybody that is a human being.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
i admire your kindness, i can;t really comprehend the idea ''love your enemy'' because the very statement is like pushing one to make an enemy first, which i think is the worst idea, then after some a lot of effort finally one had created an enemy and then loving it? it's just totally crazy, being nice is my choice too, imagine if everyone is nice to each other, what a wonderful world..
@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
I'm a kind of person who doesn't practice hypocritical. I'd rather keep my mouth shut than talking and pretending I'm okay to talk with my enemy. i won't ever pay any attention and waste my time with worthless person.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
you hit the nail on the head there, loving an enemy seem to be a poison to swallow.
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
Same here, if I have someone whom my attitude don't match with, I'm not gonna love them too. Actually I know someone whose attitude is not good, and I don't talk to him. I'd be fake to myself if I will still talk to him or be the same with him. I just ignored him and remove all communications with him. Its not that I don't love him humanly, I just think that it'd be better of if I don't have any businees with him.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
yeah minding our own business will make us out of trouble most of the time..
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
Yes, I guess this is really hard to do. It's written in the Bible. Love for Enemies Matthew 5:43-47 43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘Love your neighbor[i] and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47 And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? 48 Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. If I can't love them, I guess I'll just forgive them if ever I have one. Happy mylotting.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
in my opinion, its not only hard to but ridiculously odd to love an enemy, forgiving an enemy is more reasonable...even if its written in the bible we still have the free will to obey or not...
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
Hi kongno, I have a friend before who ask me to be her guarantor I did but she didn't pay her loan so I was obliged to pay it , I ask for reimbursement but she never pay me when in fact I'm more in need because I'm a widow with kids and she was single. I can't call her really an enemy but she hurt me, I don't curse her and even don't say bad who rds to her. But I can't say that I love her, she was before a friend of mine and I let God decide and be my judge. I don't want to save hatred in my heart but I can't love her if we call her my enemy.
@kongno (431)
• Philippines
5 Sep 12
hello there sunshinefame, yeah cursing and saying bad words to anyone who hurt you will only add to the bad feelings she made to you,..peace of mind is one of the most important thing in this world,.. God bless us all