feeling young at heart :)
By missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
September 6, 2012 6:07am CST
i do not want to be grumpy and feel old even at my actual age . even i cannot say that i am in the peak of my triumph and that i am fully aware that my life has started to bloom yet. what i can say and certain of is that, i am happy and contented. i asked this phase of my life to God for its accomplishment and success. i still feel joy as i see beautiful young people and new trends around. i feel excitement when can see happy young couples rushing and doing little gestures while walking. i love breathing fresh air and going to the beach early in the morn with my boyfriend and with somebody else. i want to discover new things that could make me happy.
of course, to look younger, i need to be physically fit. being slim is not required for me to feel sexy. i want to have a grooming skin, nice hair, good posture and good self - esteem. i am working to these to feel good about life. well, i cannot consider myself as an attractive person that is why, i tried hard to at least presentable enough as any other people could see me around. i hate to be lousy.
well, do not criticize me, i am just having a positive outlooks pertaining to life. so to say, feeling young at heart
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7 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
6 Sep 12
Wow, I really found a nice person (nice girl) after a long time. Normally girls are with an attitude to get more beautiful by applying a lot of cosmetics, hair styles, make ups and a lot more. But from your mouth I heard some different words, thoughts and really ideal concepts.
I really appreciate that your values of understanding and simplycity with a best positive approach. This is the only few requirements for a nice girl and I am sure that whoever become your life partner, he will be a lucky one and you will manage to have a ever lasting happy life with him if you continue your view towards the life as it is.
Best of luck.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
7 Sep 12
Hi,
Thanks for the complements!
Being good to ourself is the best what we can do for us.
I alwyas used to think whenever we do something/anything, if it can give a kind of satisfaction, we are successful in that attempt and that is what we are looking for also. Living a good life in all repsets make us more happy and feel good and I think you already identified and so that the goodness will always lingering around you for ever.
Have a good day.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
you are most welcome... yes positive outlooks, behaviour as we embrace changes in life is necessary to stay happy and satisfied. we are the one who can drive ourselves what to do and where to go. staying happy attracts good aura and that makes others happy too. so that is why stay positive even in the midst of problems.
thanks for joining in here :) God bless
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
i am so flattered. i can feel sincereness to what you said in there. you need not to be beautiful for other person to praise you and echoing it around. having a good self-esteem would make you feel great, inspite and despite of your looks. we are the one who can improve our looks. taking good care of our body and health would make you bloom. you can have a comparison between sickly and healthy people. what we become is what we made in life not just in the aspect of career but to anything we might have.
i am so glad you did see my points and appreciated it. hope for your good will, success, and good health.
thanks much :) you are a nice person too
God bless :)
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
7 Sep 12
Feeling young at heart makes us feel good. I think that it is very important for us to feel young at heart. I have a lot of colleagues, some old and some young. The old colleagues of mine feel young and they don't look old as they can still keep up with times and so am I, who love to chase new fashion to some degree. If I am considered old, I would not feel happy. lol. Enjoy your life, missjahn.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
yes, it can make us happy and invigorate our heart that will give us positive outlooks as we live life. if we are too a bitter person because yes, getting older sometimes scared and hard to face that fact, that is why if we have light kind of thinking and of acceptance, we bloom despite and inspite.
thanks for the best wishes and so you too.. God bless and stay a beautiful person inside and out... :)
@fantasticbabe (981)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
yes, that a great feeling. we need to enjoy our life while still young but at the same time do not forget to be responsible and put your quality time over not wasting it too much. you could combine play, fun and work at the same time. as time goes by you could meet a lot of people, learn a new skill and become productive. in your little way you could enjoy things without spending a lot of money and learn to buy things from your small effort without being extravagance.this way you learn something and save when you find a source of income. so this way you would really know to value time and enjoy the free things around you sometimes gives a lot of great feelings. this world would be a better place when you know your value and help your self out such as you care for yourself and that is true as you learn to value your self. you show gratitude to someone you loved and this s a great experience.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
agree with you. living a life in this planet should not go in a single orbit, i mean to have a productive life, you must combine what you had learned in life. you must make it balance and not just focus on one thing if you want to grow. what you learned and what you acquired from someone's skill as you interact with them must be put together to have a fruitful life. afterall, no man is an island.
also nurture your other aspect of your life: moral, spiritual, physical, affection, and else. yes, you will learn to appreciate life if you know how to handle it with yourself. avoid negative feelings that will give loneliness and insecurities.
thanks for sharing here. :)
@alberello (4752)
• Italy
6 Sep 12
Well, to be honest, but I think pretty much like you.
Although I do not mind so much the physical aspect, I would like to just try to take it away from overweight. For I am at 37 years of age, weighing over 80 kg
I must go down in order to reach at least 75 kg
For the rest, I do not have a lot of hair on the head, but I do not I do have a problem!
You have reached a major part of your thread that made me reflect a lot: The self-esteem. Yes, I want to have more confidence in myself. When I'll be able to realize that I'm worth it, only then will be able to gain respect from other people!
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
hello there....
i guess your weight, should be achieved depending on your height. and pertaining to your hair, i saw lots of persons like that but they still looks good and confident. so i bet you are too. your attitude and confidence could make you a wonderful person. i agree with you, you can garner respect and high regards when you can deal yourself at good rate. so being beautiful should start within yourself.
thanks for joining in here :)
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
6 Sep 12
I agree with the most you are writing but.. if you at the age of 32 are "complaining" you are not old what shall we say? I think it's kind of insulting to people who are older as you. If you get the age of 90 or older, which is more and more likely you are only at 1/3 of your life!
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
sorry but not pointing certain person. i am just having a lively mood that is why i feel beautiful today and then decided this one to start a good discussion to share it herewith. in my peer groups at school, i am the oldest and i am not insecure about it. because i know and accepted the fact that people will go with running time and as the time rolls its age and so as the age of the people living in this world.
sorry about this one, but as i wrote this discussion, not pointing my fingers to anybody, all of it was concerning about me. i am just happy and that what it is all about.
thanks for sharing your thought - stay happy :)
@mikyung (2232)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
I like the way you see things. Being positive is good for the body as a whole, it helps our mind think freely so as our heart and vital organs will function well.
Stay positive so as we may look younger than our actual age. Being positive,indeed is healthy.
Thanks
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
yes, thanks for the good perspective in there.
i agree with you and to elaborate the thought more, being healthy does not concern with your physical aspect only. of course, we should have a positive outlooks in mind and cast away negative thoughts. eventhough how tough life would be, we can say it is okay because it is the way it should be. no life could be easier as we want it because human would not make any drive to work harder for no one required him to do so for for what may he wanted could be found all over around, if that is the case.
hmmm. too lots of stories to tell and thanks for dropping in here
have a happy day!
@lonelyjem (74)
•
6 Sep 12
i agree we need to be presentable to bec i want other repect me im 27 this september 17 nut other say im look 18 ahahahha jikes
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
6 Sep 12
yes, not just to look attractive and alluring but to have a good feeling about oneself too. good perception in life would give us positive thinking which can be shown in our actions. because of this, you can have a good self-esteem.
thanks and stay good