dishonest partner

Philippines
September 7, 2012 1:02am CST
i thought of this since last night and it really gives me headache. my partner lied to me. and i really don't get it why he has too. last august we celebrated 3 days of holiday. but the company where my partner is affiliated did not have a holiday, because they have lots of work to finish. and on sunday august 19, he told me had to go to work because his boss told him to have an overtime. and just yesterday, when i open his fb account, i just saw their pictures during their reunion dated august 19. and i really don't know how to react. so, i text him about it but he never replied. and when we got home from work. he didn't say anything or explain himself. why do some people have to lie to their partners??? are they having other business when they lie to their partners???
4 responses
berting600
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
You should be understanding to your partner and let him have some space maybe the next day he would try to explain all that was happening in their office while they were all working.What do you wanted to know would be explained and who knows their mate there was having a special day,that they post it in facebook to celebrate the day with memories in the website.Do not be so jealous because it just make the situation worst.
berting600
@berting600 (3453)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
If that is the style of your partner,then you better have a serious talk about it,so that it could not get more complicated.Try to convinced him to put himself in your side as the one who is making the story,and tell him if he do not feel the same ways as you have felt.In the story of your partner,it seems to me you are just a live in partner,so you can not hold him in the neck too tight as like as when you are already married,because you have all the guts and power to hold him back.You better solve that problem if you are still important to him,when all your request are all not supported by his following his friends instead of taking good care of your relationship.
nyang1984
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
8 Sep 12
hi berting,, we're married for almost 3years. and we had a talk last night, but i pushed him(hehe), to settle our misunderstanding.. and we're a bit ok now, but i told him not to say sorry if he doesn't know the essence of it. and i'm glad he admitted his mistakes. Thanks much berting. Have a nice day.
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nyang1984
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
am not jealous berting.. he already informed me that they will have a reunion with his batch mates, and i really thought he can't go, because he told me that they have work on that day. how i really wish he would explain himself. cause every time we had a misunderstanding he never explain himself but instead had the guts and get angry with me.
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ARIES1973
@ARIES1973 (11426)
• Legaspi, Philippines
7 Sep 12
I already experienced other people lied to me but not my husband. If I would be on that situation, perhaps I would be very hurt also. Try to talk to him about this issue. You have to settle it before it gets bigger. Have a nice day nyang!
nyang1984
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
i don't know how aries, cause every time we had an argument or misunderstandings and when he knows it's his fault, he always had the guts to get angry. and it seems he doesn't want to talk about it. cause if he does, he tried to explain himself that night. but he didn't but instead he played with the puppies. you too aries, have a nice day
subhojit10
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
7 Sep 12
Well it is a very bad feeling when your partner lies you and thereby hiding the truth. I think this has become very much common among the people to lie and hurt them and later on they also do not apologize or feel guilty of telling lies. They do not understand the essence of a relationship and hence they feel if they lie then no body would caught hold of them. What say?
nyang1984
@nyang1984 (464)
• Philippines
7 Sep 12
i don't know what to say..cause right now am still mad and i really want to give him a punch...
nupur
@nupur123 (392)
• Hyderabad, India
8 Sep 12
Well this is very little thing and one should not react to such small issue. All u need to do is just ask ur hubby why is did this????? As this will give a new turn to ur relationship. Might possible he is worried to tell u .or might be some other reasion. So don't think all these things goes on.in life try to ignore it to keep peace in relationships.