goals

Sometimes, what we think now, will change as circumstances and time. It is very difficult, to make sure our goals for future. Perhaps, your boyfriend will have different goals gets input from you.

There are just people who are contented with what they have now rather than having ambitions they can't achieve in the future. I guess your boyfriend is enjoying what he is doing right now. Now if you can accept him the way he thinks he is then it's much better but if not then probably he is not what you are looking for. Being a driver is not bad at all, just as long as he provides enough for his family. He can work overtime if he wants to have more income anyway. But then if it discourage you to have a boyfriend who don't have ambition in life then try to ask yourself: is he worth fighting for?

How old is he? That could be a reasonable answer from a teenager, but not from a grown man. Although each person seeks different things from her partner, I would not want to have had a man with no ambition in my life.

Maybe your boyfriend is frustrated and it is hard for him to attain the things that he like to do. Maybe he said that because he have done that before but due to some failures in life then he wasn't able to make it to the point that it was not accomplish.

That is a little sad to think that he doesn't have any sort of goals in life. But I thought it was interesting that you said you didn't see yourself having a family with him. Do you just not see yourselves having kids or do you not see yourself being with him the rest of your life? Most people have some sort of goal in their life and it's sad that he believes he can't achieve a goal. He should set goals that he knows he could eventually one day make. I've asked my boyfriend the same question before as well and I expected to hear him say he wanted to be in the army and then in a few years get out and become a police officer. Instead, he said he wanted to get married to me and live a happy, healthy life. He didn't mention his careers at all and I thought it was so sweet. I hope your boyfriend can feel a little better about himself and maybe set some goals :)

Hi swissheart, how old is your boyfriend? I think he really enjoy his present life and can not able think about his future right now. Sometimes when were still single and enjoying our life we preferred to focus for what we have not for what we want to achieve in the future but when your married, had a family and children those are time figure out what we really want to do in life not only for our future but for the future of our family. I think you boyfriend has an ambition he just do not want to tell it to you or he is afraid that you might get disappointed if he will not achieved his ambition in life.

Many young people do not have goals and dreams, and it's really sad because a person if there are no plans for the future then why live only to see that lead a normal life. I always have some goals and dreams ambitsiy. It is just nice to have hope and not put up might just have to give him a little encouragement to start thinking that it is important for you to set optimism that maybe life will be just driver. nice day!

oh my god, how can somebody just live like that, I mean without goals, without aim, without motivation and inspiration. Its too hard just to live when you dont know what to do.I guess in order to stay happy u need to be motivated because when you achieve something you feel happy and that is not compareable to anything.

That's really sad if he's not making any effort in planning your future or even his own future. I think you can encourage him and tell him that it's not bad having dreams and ambition because it will guide him in doing better in life. You can tell him that setting goals will be a great guide for him so that he will have a better future. And you being the girlfriend can influence him. You can show him that he can do so much more. Help each other. Little by little he will soon realize that he can do something to make his future a bright one.