The special one

In a way, I sort of feel like this now, but it's not my loved one's fault. My boyfriend is away in the army, pretty soon he'll be in Korea. He's been gone since May and I wasn't able to talk to him until after he had graduated from basic training. Even now I still don't get to talk to him a lot because he's always busy or he has people telling him what to do. Sometimes he just doesn't get the time to always pay attention to me. He says I come first but really, in the army it's hard because they control your every move. It's not his fault but it's still a little sad sometimes when he's not able to give me time.

My husband frequently complains that our son, who lives less than 100 miles from us, does not visit us very often. He is good about calling, usually once a week. We also sometimes communicate via e-mail. However, my husband thinks he should come visit more than every few months. I remind my husband that the road goes both ways. Our son has a very demanding job,a son in college and one in middle school. The younger son lives with his ex, so he has to go to the ex's ho use to see him. I think he does good to call us once a week and visit every few months. We could go see our son just about anytime, but hubby won't go.

When I started feeling that way, it became a huge fight between me and my husband. Some things lead to another that I decided I had to leave the house and have time for myself to think things through. After several months, I came back, we talked it over and now 5 years later, there has been a great change.

Well i have faced this situation many a times in my life when my loved ones get too busy that they find no time to even bother about us and this disappoints me to the core. i feel like alienating myself from them completely for a while and then after some time i start realizing that this is life and one has to work hard in order to earn money and earn an identity for himself in this highly competitive world. We should be patient in that case and wait for the right time to come. What say?

Yup many times we feel like this,we should keep patience and wait till our loved ones get time to interact with us.

Giving without expecting anything in return will save you a lot of grief when it comes to your loved ones. I learned this when I was adjusting to my daughter being all grown up and not needing me anymore.

ya i have had plenty of it and later i feel such is life so we have to move on

Yup many times we feel like this,we should keep patience and wait till our loved ones get time to interact with us.