what did you learn from your past love?
By surajp
@surajp (29)
Indonesia
September 7, 2012 11:38pm CST
I am a person who believes that every person we meet has something to teach us. They are a very integral part of our growth and they definitely play a big role when it comes to gaining experience. Many of us had a love life or marriage that didnt last long. With that being said, what did you gain from your experience with your ex?
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8 responses
@cattibre (160)
• United States
8 Sep 12
When it comes to my past love life I learned a lot. I always had boyfriends that gave me everything I wanted, would argue with me, and pretty much just worshiped the ground I walked on. To some this may sound like a wonderful guy that any girl would want, but let me tell you it gets old really fast. I think that is why I am married to the man I am now. He doesnt just say sorry when I get mad at him he argues back if he thinks he is right. He doesnt just run out an get me everything in the world. Dont get me wrong, he is a wonderful man and does still give into my wants often, but there is a limit as there should be.
@ukodi2012 (21)
• Sri Lanka
8 Sep 12
It is very hard to say. Actually I missed my love so badly two years before. He suffered from a blood cancer at that moment. We fall in love for 4 years. It is my faith as i believe. I hope he is in the heaven now. I am prying for him. When I remember about our past its really interesting.
@varunkrishna007 (1909)
• India
17 Sep 12
Even if someone makes you sad, you have something to learn from everyone. When my love left me and gone, initially i felt disappointment. Later I realised there were greater pans in life. I learned that you should give your heart in love, but dont lose your senses. be sensible in life and move forward. What is not yours would be lost and you cant sit the whole life and cry. You have to move on.
@autumndreamer (3185)
• Philippines
17 Sep 12
I learned not to expect too much. Just because he or she is your lover now doesn't mean he or she will be the one in the end. I should not think too much about the future and unexpected things might happen so I will not expect.
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Sep 12
No past love story of me because in college life no chance of love I joined girls college. But yes I have the current danger love story with my shy husband. I love both to each other some time grievance some time love and that is life.
@babyeve (1048)
• Seychelles
17 Sep 12
I've learned that you should never trust a man fully and always expect the unexpected. Much more, always check his phone when you feel that they are hiding something from you. Men are all like a paradox box full of surprises. Love them but do not become their slave nor make them your world.
