Jealous of the bestfriend?

@donsky14 (5947)
Philippines
September 8, 2012 2:38pm CST
Some of our partners, boyfriends, girlfriends, wives, husbands have a bestfriend of a different gender. Do some of you get jealous of your partner's bestfriends? I sometimes do..but not really to the point that it causes a problem to our relationship. How about you guys?
7 responses
@Bhebelen14 (5194)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
Hi donsky14, I never get jealous to my husband friends because my husband doing everything to makes me happy and giving everything that i need and i do not need. I am grateful to have a good husband like him and most of my friends hoping that they will find a husband like mine which is responsible, good provider, kind, charming, loving and understanding person.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Sep 12
You seems to be very practical and mature.
• India
18 Sep 12
yes i jealous partner best friend because that guy is always doing flirt with my partner and he always making her cry.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
9 Sep 12
Hi don! Jealosuy emantes from the feeling of insecurity and may be to some extent lack of trust between partners. I have observed many women who does not like their husbands talking to another woman. They just can not digest it ...... Lol! Man is a social animal so in his day to day life (be it private or professional) he is likely to come across oppsite gender friends and respective partners should take it with broad mindedness.
@toniganzon (72281)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
I have seen what jealousy could do in a relationship and i have vowed I'll never ever be jealous for petty things. I don't know if it's a good thing not to be jealous, but I'm just not. My husband has a couple of female friends but that doesn't bother me at all. There was even a time when we were strolling and he admired beautiful women. He was not drooling of course but he sort of glanced at them. His aunt was with us and he got scolded. I told his aunt it's fine because he was just admiring pretty faces like what i was doing too.
@jricky1 (6800)
• China
9 Sep 12
I'm not such person that loves to be jealous of some people. I feel so happy for people that i do care and we really getting along well with each other. For people that i really hate, to be honest and i do feel jealous sometime, and this maybe normal to see in real life.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
8 Sep 12
No I never did, wouldn't know either why. Can you explain why you sometimes feel jealous of your partner's best friend? There is a big difference between being the partner or the best friend. Unless your relationship is not good enough and your partner is sharing more/first with his/her best friend instead of you. If so I would ask myself first why my partner would not trust me.
@cattibre (160)
• United States
8 Sep 12
My husband and I are really lucky I guess. We have the same friends. We dont go out with a friend of the opposite gender alone to make each more comfortable. It is just a position that neither of us wants to put the other in. My husband is a real kidder and sometimes his jokes go a little too far so I just let him know if I do not like the way he is kidding around with another girl