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I am a female and I also think she only marry for the money. I think that is most men fear , a lot of woman marry only because of money this is rooted from the older days when man would get a wife based on his success . So even though things are changing not everyone is their mentally , woman are still willing to marry a man for his money and most will say they just want to be financially stable . I think should be the first priority in a marriage but some will argue that love cannot pay the bills .

I would divorce her. Please fulfill your responsibility to your child/children. I am so sorry you are going through this.

People do this a lot. They marry a person or get with them because they have money, but if that is the case, or you feel that that is the case, then have them sign a Prenuptial or sign a contract stating what is hers and what is yours. Don't have any joint accounts, don't have any joint anything because you know she can take half. If you get married and don't lay out the ground rules before hand, then she can and probably will take half of what you own. This happens all of the time. Staying together won't help the situation because your going to be unhappy, and so will she. This could even make things worse. If you do divorce, and you haven't signed a prenuptial, then be ready for her to take half, or lawyer up, and do what you can to prevent it from happening. If she is the kind of person that was in if for the money, then it can and probably will be messy no matter what you do.

Get out of the relationship but don't forget your obligation to your child/children.

I understand that your wife decided to have a separation and you think that it's because you decided to handle your finances. May I ask if you let her know about it first before you made the changes? Did you ask for her opinion? You mentioned that she'll only talk to you when she asks for money, Money for the Bills and other expenses. Well she shouldn't asked because you're supposed to give it to her before dues. She don't bother to tell you about your kids, as a father you should have time to spend it with your children and know them better. She don't say Hi to you. Did you say Hi to her? You said that she married you because of Money but you never mentioned that she asked money for herself. I suggest that you take her for a date. Talk (not argue) and ask her the reasons for filing a divorce. Most of the time we conclude or assume things and that make us not see the truth.

Get out of that miserable women's life , she's just sucking your blood! Stand tall and leave her , but don't forget your children!

Oh if you meet a couple who married you just for the money then you are very unlucky. It's sad to say, but it's a real badluck. You should reconsider the continuation of your relationship with your partner if you are in that position now.