Do you give importance to your online friends?
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
India
September 9, 2012 5:53am CST
Using mylot we can make a lot of friends, some persons give more importance to their mylot friends and share their contact numbers and email ids with them, where as some persons will interact a lot with their online friends and not interested in sharing their personal things with them. What about you? do you give importance to your online friends and share your details with them? What is your opinion about sharing personal details and contact information with online friends? Do you thing it is safe?
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@tech40 (23121)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
ofcourse I give importance to those people who treat me same., but I ignore those people who doesnt treat me nice, anyway in any social network example here on mylot, I treat everyone nice, I treat them all same, because for me, if you treat that person nice, he/she will treat you same, :D, in sharing personal information if you really know that person then you should share, then if you dont know him/her personally then dont treat him as you're bestfriend, cos in social network, there's no security specially on your personal information and contact informations
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@kenshin2143 (1880)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
In facebook, I only accept friends that I personally know so yes, I do treasure them a lot.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, so you have 3 fb accounts. Great how you manage 3 of your accounts? it is really hard to delete the notifications from a single fb account
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
9 Sep 12
I have hundred's of people that I associate with online because of various sites that I am on. I also have writers who send in stories for my newsletter. It is impossible to be good friends with everyone, so there is a select group that I am really close to that I share my life with and they do with me as well.
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, good to know that you have a good set of online friends and shared your info with them, really it is a great thing that they too shared their info with you, it shows that you are a trust able persons and your friends have faith with you
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
10 Sep 12
It usually goes like this. I meet a new person here and we respond to each other posts . In time we become good friends and then I fear we may not connect if My Lot is down so I send them my personal email. Then we connect both ways. But even with that said, there aeew many friends who I use connect with here. And sadly others that were friends but are gone now.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, you have mail contacts with some of mylot friends, that's good. I too miss some of my good friends in this site, hope they will come back soon
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@natliegleb (5175)
• India
9 Sep 12
i certainly do,there are some friends who value my remarks highly and interact with care and passion,but still there are some who are just here for the namesake to timepass.i hate them,so its in your hands to decide to love or detest them anytime
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, you are right, it is up to our choice. Always keeping privacy is good for our safety
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Sep 12
Yes. occasionally we make online friends as real friends. there a few people from among mylot also. But a few mylot friends do not share more info like email id, phone number though they live in the same country. it differs from person to person. if any mylot member asks i will give my details because they are right ones only and no problem for me.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Sep 12
vidhyaprakash:
good. but some business men develop contacts through online and improve their business also. We must be able to tell openly that I will not take your calls when I am busy with official work.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
12 Sep 12
you are right dear, once i gave my number to an online friend and faced a lot of issues due to it. As he posted my number in a social site and i got lot of unwanted calls due to it. In fact i changed my cell number due to the torture, after that i am not interested in giving my number to my online friends, that person is really a good online friend of mine and we had friendship for around 2 years, i don't know why he did that silly thing for me.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
11 Sep 12
Ravi, good to hear about this, i will share my email id with some of my good online friends, but i am not interested in sharing my contact number, as i am doing business and i am getting lot of calls from my clients every day, i don't have more time to talk with online friends, so i just keep message contacts with them
@napoleonhunt22 (12)
• India
9 Sep 12
Hey Vidhyaprakash,
First let me answer your question to the point, " I do interact a lot with strangers through social networking or semi social networking sites, but the fact is that i haven't given a single stranger i met through these sites my personal details except my name , country , age etc. " But i do have seen people who do this lots of time.
I have read somwhere recently that " A woman who gave her phone number to a stranger who was very close to her in social networking sites, this man published her number in an online p site and she started to get many calls. People were talking in a dirty manner.
I don't feel well about this. At most, i will give my phone number ( if i am that close to the user ) and no matter what i won't dare to share my address or anything with them.
Anyway, its your wish. Happy lotting.
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@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, welcome to mylot. sad to hear about the incident shared by you, women's must be very careful while dealing with online sites, otherwise they will face this kind of issues. Good to know about your views in my topic
@garson (884)
• United States
1 Oct 12
In my opinion, online interaction should never replace interpersonal (face to face) interaction. Thanks to internet today, many can connect and interact with so many through social forum, social network, instant messengers, etc. Some of us can have varying level of positive emotion that they can get so involved with any online interaction. Somehow, one still need to be cautious that scammer, spammer, phisher(probably not the right word) are lurking around.
I prefer to have online friends for a certain purpose or certain interest. If I have a personal problem, I talk to a friend that I am comfortable with. Somehow, some people at mylot post their issue and such. It is not wrong, but again not everybody has the interest or comfort to just post their emotions to potentially thousands of people.
Going into privacy details, I would provide limited personal data if I have dealings with certain online connection. For example, if you happen to ask someone from mylot or any other online places to provide services or vice versa, you would need to get the feel whether the services are real, not fabricated. Payment may have to delivered before the work is completed.
Another kind of giving out privacy details have to do with dating. I prefer not to dwell with this so much. Still, each person needs to be careful to a certain degree.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
1 Oct 12
Hi friend, good to hear about your opinion about your online friends, so you will give certain importance to them, keep it up
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
We know that the internet can be unsafe sometimes. But sometimes you can feel that a certain person you met online can be a real great friend. I think you should limit providing information about yourself unless you have the gut feeling that the person is a good one.
I have not really connected to anyone here at myLot except for one which I have just sent a message to yesterday. We have not shared personal infos as of yet but I am looking forward to know more about her.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
9 Sep 12
Hi friend, i agree with you, we must be very careful in this virtual world, good to hear that you find a good friend in online and send a message to her, hope she will reply you and you both will continue your friendship for a long
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
She did reply and I am hoping it wouldn't be the first and last.
@akp100 (13640)
• India
9 Sep 12
Hi VP
Online world is surely not safe, but its not same for everyone. If we know some friend since long than surely we can share some details like email address and fb account. I don't think there is any unsafe in that. Like this way we can interact and stay connected more easily. I have already few good friends here and on few other sites which are very very helpful to me, and yes I have shared few details with them.
So I think there is nothing wrong in sharing such detail, but yes those shared personal information should be limited.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
9 Sep 12
Anand, i know you have a good friends set, there is nothing wrong in sharing our info with genuine persons, but we must be careful some persons seems to be very real and genuine person, but soon or later they will show their real face, for me there is nothing wrong in sharing our email id with trusted friends, but i am not interested in sharing my contact number with online friends
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
17 Sep 12
Yes I give importance to my online friends some facebook friends and some mylot friends. Share your Id if possible. Not necessary to share personal think but we can touch in contact with mail if not active in mylot.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
1 Oct 12
sureka, good to hear you give importance to your friends, are you active in fb? i am an active user in fb and promoting my articles there. You can find my fb banner in my profile, add me in fb and i will give my id to you, surely we will be in touch
@chixknot (25)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
For me, i give importance to online friends especially this I met a friend, we became besties.She gave me her contact number.It's been 4 months now we still keep in touch online and texts even we are busy with the things we do. We share happy moments even our crappy days we talked about it. Sometimes there are some real, true and good people online but only give your trust to those people who worth trusting for.
@chixknot (25)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Yes we pinky promise to each other that we would be bestie for lifetime even we have our own lives we still keep in our heart our friendship we built. When she was on a vacation in Israel, unexpectedly she texted me that she bought a sim card there just to keep in touch with me. That's the nicest and sweetest thing i ever experienced.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, that's great. So you find a real person in online and have a good friendship with her, wish you to keep your friendship for a long time
@Angelpink (4034)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
Maybe if you have interacted for that long and frequently , guess you can tell the character of that person , if can be trusted or not. When you constantly interacts to each other , you would feel the bond and from there you can tell if you wil share your important accounts or not. How about you ? you did not tell your stand ?
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
12 Sep 12
Hi friend, i will share my email id with some good online friends whoever i believe, but i am not interested in sharing contact number, once i faced a great problem due to an online friend, after that i am not interested in sharing my number with online persons
@nautical26 (12)
• Sri Lanka
12 Sep 12
Every thing are like the two sides of a coin. Having online friends also such thing, and I would like to mention that in some instances it is a great opportunity to have single online friend for relaxation, build a relationship between each other and so on. But as the other side of the coin it would be harmful in an instances where it is acting as a way to invade our privacy.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
12 Sep 12
Hi friend, welcome to mylot, you are right, we must be careful with online friends, really they have the ability to give more fun and enjoyment to us, if they are good
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
13 Sep 12
Hi friend, yes, lot of persons using fake information and creating a fake personality in internet, as you mentioned it is easy to create fake reality in online
@primeaque86 (8108)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Am I paying attention to online friends and give them importance? Well yes, I do care for my online friends though we never meet in person. There are friends that are really caring, and though you don't have relationship in the real world, you feel that they value you just like any other close to them.
I shared my number, my address, my work address, and everything that he or she is interested about me. Knowing a person will just make your relationship or friendship grow. Sometimes, my way of knowing that this one can be trusted is through my impression at the screen. Yes I have such kind of feeling. I have a friends, though she is not a myLotter, I even share my beloved blog's password, she can do anything there, from the html codes to post, I do that because I know she wont do anything against my will!
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, good to know that you will share your personal info with your online friends as well as you shared your blog password with your online friend, it shows you real trust with her. Hope she will keep up your trust for a long time
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
9 Sep 12
hi vidhyprakash 2 I have little to hide and my closest friends on
mylot I have learned to trust very well.those on my list that are not so close to me I share only if asked and it does not make me feel uncomfortable to share with them .my life holds few secrets so am not afraid to share with my closest mylot friends. I do trust them and I am sure that they do trust me too.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi Hatley, you are a senior member here, surely every one have respect with you and don't try to betray your trust, good to know you believe your online friends and share your things with them. I follow some of your topics and found you are creating your topics based on your real life events
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
hello vidh,
I don't easily give or share my email id with online friends, not my contact number either.
It's better to be safe than regret later.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Jai, i agree with you, i like your words, It's better to be safe than regret later. It's true enough. If we keep our privacy we are not in need to regret in the future.
@nidakhan001 (305)
•
9 Sep 12
hey vidhya, i love getting along with online friends and sharing my personal information, you wont't believe my best friend with whome i am friends with more than 10 years is an online friend to whome my brother goes to tution, but though i do GIVE alot of importANCE TO MY ONLINE FRIENDS BUT ALL CAN'T BE TRUSTED AT MYLOT BECAUSE MANY OF THEM JUST TRYING NICE WORDS TO EARN THAT IS WHY YOU CAN'T SHARE YOUR PERSONAL INFORMATION WITH THEM. I don't think its safe. You should give time before you trust them.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, good to hear you have good online friends and your brother is going tuition with one of your online friend, really it is an interesting info. I think you understand my point well, thanks for your reply
@ciolomiguel (23)
•
10 Sep 12
i think it's ok to share your contacts to your online friends as long as you have the guarantee that they mean you no harm, but it's best to bee alert and sensitive in your surrounding. remember that everything is made possible by the technologies these days. it is with your strong will if you'll give your info or not.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, i agree with you, we must be careful while sharing our information with unknown persons, some online friends may use fake identity, we don't know about it until visiting them by person
@aryzairam (57)
• Philippines
9 Sep 12
I'm an active user of facebook. And yes, I do share my information. My email addresses and even my phone number. That is because I only add people I know. In my 5 years on using facebook, no one has ever tripped on me. But of course, you should still be careful. It still depends on the site and the people.
@vidhyaprakash_2 (7116)
• India
10 Sep 12
Hi friend, there is nothing wrong in sharing our details with known persons, mostly we add our school, college friends, colleagues and relatives in fb, so we don't get any issues with it, but we must never share our info with fb strangers