i want a brand new start in life

I don't know your age but I Am 67 and to me every day is a new start a day to look forward to meet family and friends, to post here on MyLot to friends that will probably never meet but none the less they are still here! take courage my friend I know life is not suppose to be easy[ or so they say]but at the end of the day you can make it your way.

Seems everyone, at some point in our lives, wants to have a fresh start. This could be a very challenging goal. We couldn't possibly change overnight so it does require patience, determination,focus, and faith. A friend once told me that if we keep on repeating the same mistake, we always find ourselves in the same situation thus creating the cycle. Unless we point out the mistakes we always commit and try to avoid it, then we can clear the path towards achieving the brand new life that we desire.

I do this too. I say, tomorrow I will start living in a new way - I will be more organized, or get a better job, or make new friends, that kind of thing. It's good to keep trying - eventually you'll be in a place where you don't want a new life.

Hi I know how you feel I made a lot mistake to im now 50 and still do not have a wife and family I think my problem was alway trying to make to many changes and something I did know was around the corner I do not knew your past but if you have a clean past write down everything you want better what your dream and turn them in to long trem goals it could help ok have a good day

as the saying goes: today is the beginning of the rest of you life. it may be hard to change drastically. i think it would be better if you'd just set a new task per day, and stick to it. i too have been "dreaming" of making a change in my life. but as procrastination steps in, i've never been successful. probably i don't have enough determination, and my i do not see the goal that i've set for myself. well, maybe i was expecting i'd be a whole new person overnight. which is technically impossible, right? so maybe i'll just set a date for each task, and hope to fulfill them all. then one day, in retrospect i could see how far i've come to starting a new life.

I think it's not easy to have a brand new start in life. Rome is not built in a day and so many habits can not be formed in one day, either. Therefore, you'd better make a plan to make those changes happen one by one gradually. For example, you can focus on one habit in 21 days.(According to the study, it takes 21 days to form a habit.) Then one year later, you'll have a totally different life.

its all about how you want this changes to happen in your life. if you continue on and not do something about what you have started, i think it is going to be hard in doing so. but if you are determined, and you know you are ready for this change to happen, you will keep your focus on this change and make sure that you bring it upon yourself, this change... that is.

That is one great attitude you have there!. Getting up and putting back all the pieces is a sure way of having improvements in your life. it may not be a smooth ride leading to it, but the fact that you always pull up ypur self and go back to the starting line , is an achievement in a way.

At times I also do feel the same as you do, the necessity of a new life. Life is not always full of hopes and dreams as we may think. However, we need to take it as it comes to us and make sure that we work at things to make life work for us.

yes you may try for a new start for a better life but you should not forget the people in life who made you what you are today . do not forget what your loved ones had done for you in your present life. an another way is to be satisfied with what you have , satisfaction automatically brings happiness. thanks happy myloting.

I always get that kind of feeling too. I've always wanted to change, to start all over. But it seems that I don't know how to do it. I feel so lost that I don't even know where to start and where I am heading. I always say to myself, "starting today, I'll change. I'll become a better me." But sad to say, I always fail. Committing the same mistakes again and again. But there's always hope. As long as the sun continues to shine, we can still try. And God will always be there to guide us and help us.

the change in life......... it is all depend on u what u want to change in u, and how u want to go for it. firstly think about this then only u would be able to get the fresh start, try it if it is really necessary, but remember u could even face problem in future too every time having a new start could not be the right choice, sometime u need to go with the flow.