backstabbers

Tweet

i've been talking to one of j's friends. they confided in me rgar j was trying to put stuff together to prove that i am an unfit parent. of course my first reaction was of anger. after a while, we were able to discuss things out. no matter what he wants to try to prove, the first thing j will have to admit to is that he's living with me and my family. his father will not allow him to move back into his house because of the way he abuses his medication and wants to sleep all day. he can't move in with his sister as she doesn't want anyone living with her at all. he basically has no where to go unless he wins the lottory. then he has to admit that yes, he sleeps all day and ignores everybody. he gets up when the kids are trying to go to bed. on top of all that, our daughter is already an adult. she's going to college, in which he's not helping pay for. he can't use her as a pawn in his game. our son is in his last year of high school. he'll be 18 before he gets his diploma. the way j keeps wanting to play video games everytime he goes to bed, it annoys my son. but what j doesn't know, he can try to prove me unfit, but until i fill out the paperwork from the attorney general, they'll hound him for the back child support payments. we'll save that one for another discussion. all this has annoyed me to no end. i try to be nice and this is the thanks i get!