Would you risk having a relationship with someone who has 2 sons already?
By aryzairam
@aryzairam (57)
Philippines
September 10, 2012 2:14am CST
My friend likes a guy. She's 18. And the guy is 24. This guy loves her so much but they're not together yet. She's still confused because the guy already has two sons. What do you think she has to do?
2 responses
@subhojit10 (7375)
• India
10 Sep 12
Well the decision had to be mutual. This is because the girl has to be courageous enough to accept the two children such that she can give them a good life as a mother after her marriage. Besides the children also have to feel comfortable to accept your friend as their new mother which might take many years also. So the decision is mutual and the co operation has to come from both the ends.
What say?
@aryzairam (57)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
I agree with you. But she's still young to decide for this kind of things. The two kids are just like her siblings. They're 6 and 7 years old. I know she'll be a good mother if they end up together. I'll understand whatever her decision might be. Besides, she's my friend. I just worry about her because I know her parents and I'm pretty sure they won't approve.
@ciolomiguel (23)
•
10 Sep 12
i think the best way for them to have a good relationship is that they have to deal with the consequences knowing that the girl is only 18, she should take a one to two steps forward of maturity because she has to deal with the guy's to kiddos.
