how to protect your reputations from going down

@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
September 10, 2012 8:09am CST
i cannot really imagine how my reputation goes down so easily like this that i exert extra carefulness not state some views negatively and if i have my own opinion aside from the context given by the person who started the discussion, i see to it that i dealt with it nicely without hurting or nailing him that it is wrong like that. i knew someone is furious at me, so to say directly. but i do not want to get even too. i will give the space to that kind and nice person out there. hope for that human to be happy forever and may prosper in life. i should end this account and should say bye to all of the good people out here. have a wonderful time in mylot. but this one is not working at all. after the fifteenth of this month should delete this account. but the question is how to delete it? could anyone should show me around how to do it? nahhh - do not like sentiments but it is really happening... i will be still here till the mid-week of the month. is it wise to delete this account? could i hear some words of enlightenment out there? thanks for this shameful discussion... gee
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Sep 12
hi missjahn I s ee you have gone down a lot,.as a person whose has been here for five years, I suggest you contact mylot admins by hitting contact at the bottom of the gage, scroll down to other, then tell the admins that your rep has gone down way too fast and ask that they look into this,.we still have trolls who are mean hearted and minus people just for kicks I guess. it happened to me that I went from a blue star to a green form 1 00 percent re p to a 50 overnight.they caught the two men who did this and they were banned and my star was returned to red and through time I got b ck to blue.do not leave as that is what whoever did this wants.,stay, participate and obey the rules but have fun and make a lot of friends as that will help you to get pluses too., I see nothing bad or wrong in your posts. stick it out awhile and fight back by having fun and participating and getting those pluses as you make friends here.No do nt d elete stay and fight back by having fun here, parcipating and making some new friends too, hugs from hatley
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MysD
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
10 Sep 12
If someone is doing this purposely then they are mean and evil and I hope and trust that admin will see what is happening and get rid of them. Those who still play with toys should be in kindergarten and not here on myLot!
Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Sep 12
you are most welcome missjahn es in a nicer way by staying as if somones doing this deliberately it must be to drive people away so qwell their meanness by staying,. lol.,
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missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
hi hatley... did contact the admin but no answers from them. i am now upset and depress about the matter. i thought i am the only one who being played with others in here. how to do it my friend? i guess you are right at that i need to fight back in a nicer way. thanks for inspiring me. it made me feels like i am not alone in the battle. thanks for hugs and such... :) you are such a nice person
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MysD
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
10 Sep 12
If yo uthink that someone is purposely fiving you negative ratings and you have not been involved in controersial topics, then contact admin. You can send a PM without him being on your friend list. Just go to messages - compose and add his username GoAskAlice and write your message and send it to him. He will investigate.
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missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
hello there... i guess was all for a purpose and i knew that by heart. uhmm... contacted the admin about the matter thrice but won't able to received any answers from them. i will bid and do this other option but what i want to know can i pm alice secretively. i do not want to publicize my complain and problem... thanks ever for this recommendation :)
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MysD
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
10 Sep 12
Yes, your PM to GoAskAlice will remain between you and him. If he finds anything I doubt whether he would inform you but would do his best to rectifiy it. At least try this before cancelling your account. I have seen others before you who have been bashed and have cancelled and returned and it is so unfair!
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
10 Sep 12
hi Diana yes I really noticed that missjahn has dropped too fast so perhaps Alex can help her.I too hate to see this'happen to newcomers here as what earthly reasons does anyone have deliberately go around minusing one person? Several others in the past few months have left because of this. hate it.
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visavis
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
Oh don't do that cancelling or deleting your account here not really good idea like you.. No Filipino here as failure most of them are fighter and happy. whatever situation you can encounter here make it as challenge not a negative side of life. Your talent is very good and welcome here - normally sometimes encounter those person.
visavis
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
I know that we are few Filipinos still here active but I wish all of the remaining Filipinos here would be firm and fight what ever things or holding here. Just make is happy and joy participation and sharing to others...
missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
oh yes, if the perception is like what you mentioned, there would be no more trouble and no one one would be hurt. but the case is, someone would like to drag you down and drop you at the downiest point that will cause you to stop participating in here. what would be their reasons, only them do know. but since like you and others did say to hold on and to wait maybe i can get some help, i will do it for there believing what can i do in here. well, can say sir that if being answered, got it and stand bit by bit. thanks much for this wonderful words you had given in here... thanks much
missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
thank you visavis... yes, i hope i can make it till end not to fail everyone's expectation to bring out the best in us filipinos and to all of the good people in here. i can see positivity there on what you telling above for not deleting it. nevermind thus or those people who would like to see me falling. good karma is waiting for them. uhmpt nevermind, zip my mouth for further explanation for not worth it. i am glad this had to happened because i met nice people who gave their views about this matter and try to console and lift my spirit. whoops! no frowning, wrinkles, wrinkles will be happy - haha... thanks visavis... nice meeting you always...
Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine
@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
11 Sep 12
You should stay. I think your ratings only have to do with ... I shouldn't say, you should look at the FAQs about Ratings. But they're usually not about 'whether people like you or not.' Sometimes they're about 'whether they agree with you or not,' but "Disagreement is the Spice of Life on myLot!" So--when you DO disagree--do it in a 'loving, trying to help the discussion-starter turn right'-way. However, it might also be because of your grammar (your English). The only two things I can tell you there are a) keep practicing & b) keep reading A LOT of scholarly stuff (encyclopedias, text books, newspapers, etc.)
thanks1961
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
11 Sep 12
Hi Forever, You said, you are here for 6 years with 6 accounts. So is it permissible with myLot guidance? Also, are you using the same a/c transfer mechanism for your fund transfer? Is any of your account got deleted by myLot for repeated accounts? For all your 6 accounts, had you given the same address details or each account you given different registration detisls? This is because even I want to delete my present account and thinking of a new account. Is it possible by providing the current (existing) account details?
missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
i guess, i would stay. i should thank everybody for the encouragement to erase discouragement in my system. i flanked down because i so believed someone is furious at me. well, good at that, they won. but i guess i worthy to stay little of time if the admin can lend a hand about this one. God bless with us all... thanks myth :)
missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
hello out there.. pertaining to thanks questions, well myself is curious about the matter too. i will wait for sir lamb to answer the questions by sir thanks.... thanks everyone
dharan
@dharanil (319)
• India
11 Sep 12
Hi Missjahn, If something happens bad to me, what I do is 'Will Continue, until I get a position which i need'. Don't think bad of it, Stay in account and to avoid frustration, stop looking your reputation. I ask you, don't close your account.
missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
thanks to you... yes, i gave in to the thought of remaining here for a while. maybe i'll get some help from the admin. i hope it would be a shame to make complains and that in the end, i can find out that all were my fault. but i must admit, encountered misunderstanding but after that, trying to be careful not to do a thing like that. it teaches me lots of lessons. thanks for the good and sensible advices out there... :)
sishy7
@sishy7 (27167)
• Australia
11 Sep 12
I'm sure you know I'm one in your friend list who follows your discussions... I enjoy them and I do not see anything you've done to deserve so many negative ratings. You're probably correct that there may be some who are abusing the DRS, so I think it is worth to give some time for admin to investigate before you delete this account.
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missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
hello there :) thanks for believing my capacity. and i do not know what to say about what you said there mate. happy for that, really and would like to extend my deepest gratitude about that. i hope the admin can help me about this problem. if getting my feet to resume my reputation from four to five again, well, i would be happy so. but i hope further investigation should be done because to say, i was not convince about it. well, just make it okay at least i tried and stay and give a chance to remain this account. maybe something awaits for me in here. thanks sishy, flattered here. thanks for being nice. :) God bless
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cnetboss
@cnetboss (2473)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
If you think that this account is hard to manage, it would be fine to delete and create a new account unless you have a large earning.
missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
hi there... i will still wait for few days maybe i can get over it and hoping to post some sensible topics in here to like me and that they could rate me for that to earn some points to raise the reputation i needed. hope so... i think its worthy to wait a bit to see what gonna happened next. if not really working, i guess that would be the better thing to do, deleting this account and become a ninja to hide from very good people out there... good luck to me... thanks for the advice. i should take it when things gonna be hopeless with this account. :) thanks
Nezavisima Deskata
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
10 Sep 12
I think you just have to be more active here no way to copy foreign posts say and write only what you think. was still appreciate all the positive to you and your reputation. do not rush to delete my account. success.
missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
10 Sep 12
hi there... yes, i should give a try maybe i can get my way out from this problem with the help of others. sent pm to the admin about this one already. thanks so much for the given advice. take care and have a nice day full of blessings