unfair!?

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i have a lot of friends, specifically this one friend, we've been friends for years its just recently that we became more closer. Whenever she had a problem she would tell me everything, her thoughts, opinions, and hurts. And i was there, i am one of her friends who'll comfort her and listens to her. Yes, we were that close. I have no problem with that, at times she would randomly say "thank you" for being there for her, well that's what friends are for. But..... if i had a problem, of course she was there, but the problem is, there are times, this one time, i told her about my story, my problem, and i can really feel she's not that interested, she's not that "willing" to listen to me.. i know i must not judge her but can she blame me if i felt this way? she said: "oh wait, can we listen to (another friend having story).." in my mind i'm just like, HOW about me?, isn't it unfair? that is why i can agree to this "its better to tell someone who isn't really close to you about something about you for they are that willing to listen that those who are close to you" not all of course but SOME of them are. :(