Long distance relationships..would u?

I actually went away to school and my bf stayed home. After a semester I came back because I hated being so far apart from him. Lol and now look at us..soon he's going to Korea and I'll barely see him. Trust me, there have been a few times when all I thought I wanted was to end things with him because I'm in so much pain here without him. But when I really think about it I'd probably be even more miserable not being in a relationship with him. We've already been through so much together that I wouldn't want to give him up. I know he wants to stay together though and he's even thinking of proposing to me when he comes down at the end of the month. It'll be hard for us, but I think things will work out and in 3 years he'll be out of the army and we can be together. I'm glad that you and your boyfriend seem to be making it while he's at school. Talking all the time and skyping really helps a lot. When I went away to school I would talk to my boyfriend for hours a day whenever we could. Even now that he's in a different state, being able to talk to him or get a text from him really relaxes me and calms me down. Don't worry, the time will go by fast for you guys and you can see him on holidays :) Just keep talking! If you guys talk everyday about everything, it feels like neither of you are missing out on each other's lives. Trust me, I know how you feel, I've been there with the whole college thing and I'm there again now that he's in the army. If you guys really love each other and have true feelings, then you can make it for sure :)

I truly understand where you're coming from. My bf and I have been together for like a yr and 6 months and last month he left for college which will be for 4 yrs. so we'll only get to see each other on holidays and whethe year has ended. I was a bit skeptical at first if it will work because he wasn't one to communicate. It seems to have been getting better. We talk allay for hours, skype when we can and just enjoy what talkin we can do. Its nt easy when your with someone so long and the person having to leave. It's like you cant easily say to end the relationship because you've had so much time and emotions invested in that one person and breaking it off could hut you more than you know. Sometimes the best thing to do is try and work on it and make it through! I got my fingers crossed that you guys get through the distance :D

Thanks. I totally get you. Even when i try to forget him or try to cut off contact with him i only last day. I guess he may be the one? Too soon to say ? I dunno. But me trying to be without him just makes me miserable and unhappy. Im counting down the days that he comes home in december. Im sure i'll hold on to him and he'll ave to pry me off lol :D

Hey thanks. You're right. I think these kind of relationships won't survive is there isn't any trust, honesty and faithfulness(key) and of course being open and not being afraid to say what's on the others mind.

Everybody has a shot a making long distance relationships work..As long the both parties are willing to put effort into it...Also, It all depends on the situation and relationships..

The key things to having a healthy relationship are Trust, Honesty, Faith, Love,... Love conquers everything...

That's true. So with that said,you would knowing start a relationship with a guy right now, a guy you meet today, whether it is through sociL media or you bum into him at a event and he's just in tosn forthe weekend, who is thousands of miles away from you. Would you do that?

I'm glad you ended it before it was too late. The effort has to be made on both sides in order for the relationship to work. He seemed like he was not up to it or maybe he's not god and communicating. Well, whatever the problem may have been its over. Happy you found someone who you loves and Loveland shares the same feeling for you. Wish you'll the best!