Silly mistake some woman made
By silverfox09
@silverfox09 (4708)
United States
September 10, 2012 9:42pm CST
I am watching this lifetime movie and I am really thinking are people really this stupid . This working married woman that hardly have time for her husband decide to help out a 25 year old girl by letting her live with them (nice but stupid) . The husband just quite his job to be a full time writer at home, the husband did not like the idea of stranger living with him but his wife convince him . The worse part is she gave the girl a work from home job while she go to the office during the day . The wife wear man looking suit every day while the 25 year old dress like a 25 year old.
Let me point out all the mistake she made
[b]
Check with your partner before making those kinda decision
Dont bring a young damage adult to live with you
Make time for your partner
Trust your partner but dont be stupid[/b]
What do you think ? its ok to be kind but not that kind
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11 responses
@trisha27 (3494)
• United States
11 Sep 12
I totally agree with you on this. I would never let just some stranger who seems to be distraught and going through a hard time into my house and let alone let her stay in the home with my husband alone while I go to work every day. Big mistake hun, She could possibly try to put the moves on him especially if she is dressing the way that I am thinking she is dressing. Nope, I don't get why these women never tell their husbands what they are doing and so on. Like really, it should be a discussion between the both of them and they make the decision together. I know my husband would not allow it no matter how much I tried to convince him. I'm all for helping strangers, but there is a point where I would draw the line. Like I wouldn't let her live in my home oh heck no. I'd maybe try to help her find a place of her own and also help her find a job and that is it. Where she would go until all that happen not my problem.
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@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
12 Sep 12
I think so people might be far from reality ... My fiance would not agree also I could not convince him . I would try to help her find her own place and job wise she was employed by the woman in that case. The woman was her boss so she let her work from home since she was doing designing .
Thnx for your respond
@Rohitt03011979 (249)
• India
11 Sep 12
You are right my friend,being kind is nice but on the cost of your family is not sensible.trusting your partner is a very respectable thing i see,but its not necessary to create loopholes.
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@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
11 Sep 12
My thoughts exactly why create loopholes . I feel so sorry for the wife but I just thought all that could have been avoided .
@rsa101 (38148)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
Wow looks like the wifey never realized that he married a man that can easily be tempted. I guess she was the one who literally placed their family at risk when she started helping others.
I really could not blame the man from being tempted since the two are together almost 24/7. I think the wife was relying on trust that her husband would not betray her. But putting your husband in that kind of situation would be very hard to resist temptation if given the chance since you've said the girl was young and very vulnerable as well.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
11 Sep 12
I cant blame the man also , because the other woman was spending all the time with him and cooking for him, giving him attention. Yes the wife was relying to much on trust and not enough on common sense . Most people neglect their partner needs and that is wrong .
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Sep 12
hi silverfox
men do these things too and its very hurtful to a wife and the
husband did not even r ealize it as he thought he was just
helping a poor unfortunate young woman ,. when I finally told
him that he made me feel like a has been he sent the woman'packing
and he and I repaired our marriage and made it much much better too.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
11 Sep 12
At least he send her packing , I know men do this but I know woman should always look out for certain sign because we have it harder in society . Whenever a man cheat it look like that is the norm but us as woman sometime create the situation . If I see my husband carry a girl or a guy home saying he is helping them , I would say no way . I rather lose a friend than my family and partner .
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
11 Sep 12
Also I am happy you repair your marriage, let it continue to get stronger each days .
@B0rn2bshort (95)
• United States
18 Sep 12
Hey I think the same movie is on right now on lifetime. Seems like everything u described so im guessing it's the movie.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
19 Sep 12
It must be the same movie then, even though lifetime bring a lot of those kinda shows . Those show might look silly but I do take stuff from them , thanks for your respond have a good day .
@Csyluckdays (169)
• Egypt
22 Sep 12
I see what you are saying and agree with you.that could be a disaster.results will be very bad
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
23 Sep 12
Yeah sometimes we set up our own disaster . Thanks for your input
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
I think the wife has big role in any marriages, in handling the home and the husband as well.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
11 Sep 12
Yes she had her role but she was never even home for dinner and she show no interest in what her husband do . She didnt even want to be intimate with him . Its sad if we could only see our action through another person eyes sometimes.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
11 Sep 12
Everyone's circumstances are different and if such a situation arises, I think we need to act appropriately where both the parties feel comfortable. If we got a proper understanding and better helathy living with people around, I think we many not tempted for anything, whoever is around, what you think?
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
11 Sep 12
I think so , I dont think the man would have cheated because he beg and try to show is wife that he need her affection. The wife was more interested in helping stranger and forgetting her role as a wife and mother which should have been first.
I agree with you that every circumstances are different but some people create the problem in their relationship . Its would be nice to believe that no one would hurt us even the people we help but that's hardly reality .
@loveandpeace (470)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
Hi, I think that would only happen in the movie. A wife should have a radar about what are the things that could damage her marriage, I know I do. I really love and trust my husband but I always keep my eyes on. I hope I won't do anything stupid .
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
12 Sep 12
Happen to my mother best friend true story , Its not exactly like that though . I too believe trust is important but its always also important to take notice of things . We just have to learn from others and our own mistake that we might make differently . Thanks for your respond
@sunshinefame (287)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
She really was silly putting temptation to her husband, I can't blame the man if that is the case, imagine young beautiful woman who attend the household, serve and was full time staying with her husband 24/7 what you expect next? Helping poor souls but putting your marriage at stake is bit silly. save the marriage , really have time to your family especially to your husband. Don't let anybody entrust your obligation to your husband, do it yourself.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
12 Sep 12
I totally agree with everything you say , its nice to help others but not if it will cost you your family .
@prakashsahni (185)
• India
11 Sep 12
I think she is a really kind and empathetic women. I think we should appreciate her and try to learn something from this example. I think that this should be taken as a very bold and positive step. And even being just a movie it has made the point and set a really good example.
@silverfox09 (4708)
• United States
12 Sep 12
I would say I have learn something lol be kind but to a certain extend . I get what your saying though and that is a bold step and a good think she trying to reach out to a person in need.