so making friendship online - met this australian blonde boy
By missjahn
@missjahn (4574)
Philippines
September 10, 2012 10:05pm CST
i am a member of online certain site where i can chat and make friends online. so, yesterday, was be able to met an australian man. he was a traveller and been to many countries. take note, he is model. indeed a good - looking man with good body physique. he would like to visit philippines again to his friends in surigao del sur in october. he told me that he would like to meet me in person too. why not, meeting is not a great deal. if we our friendship over net would be a good start to establish better understanding and communication, alright then, a good chance to have each one a personal meeting or appearance.
if it will happened, it would be my first time and if not stick according to the plan, well not so desperate to make it to reality and extending friendship in real situation. the truth is i am not solved in meeting him in person 
but i am so much fine if he will give me dark chocolates than seeing him personally... another boom! [em]lol[/em
well, have you lots of friends online? or did met personally? how does would if feels like? isn't is scary? gee... i guess not nice to the feeling when you live what one had to expect from you, hate that for i love to express myself simply and be what i am... share your thoughts guys.... thanks
but i am so much fine if he will give me dark chocolates than seeing him personally... another boom! [em]lol[/em
well, have you lots of friends online? or did met personally? how does would if feels like? isn't is scary? gee... i guess not nice to the feeling when you live what one had to expect from you, hate that for i love to express myself simply and be what i am... share your thoughts guys.... thanks3 people like this
14 responses
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
For me not really bad of having friends online but extra careful would be give because there are many and various crime about such modus. Specially in online chatting, I remember my old friend (lady) since she is always online and in chatting room a lot of friends meet her some are offering meeting real, but she never trust because she affraid something.. Being safe first that is the good way online...
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Sep 12
visavis:
for us it is ok. we are men. but women have to be guarded. there are a lot of reports in newspapers where online contacts are misused by men and women. Further in the case of a woman who has not settled in life aspiring for betterment-- she has to be guarded. of course what I say is as a parent. 
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@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
visavis sir:) good morning!
ahm yeah... safety must come first. our friends sometimes would commit lapses and would harm us (hard to believe but really happening) how much more to strangers we would met online then about to meet personally. gosh, what is the strength of the a girl compared from a brute (ops! not a brute, use male for that or man - hehe). else heard plenty of women being impregnated then leave them all of the sudden. these all really happened though there are succeed marriage too. well, fate had something to do with that. if is my fate then so be it, if not well, still good then.
you know lots of things might happened along the way. above all, pray God for guidance and must know the signs before that. best shield to do to guard oneself from harm and misfortunes.
thanks sir, yes sir :D
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@alberello (4752)
• Italy
11 Sep 12
Well, Facebook, the social-network number 1 in the world allows me to get in touch with an infinite number of contacts. In addition to this, I know the customs and traditions of the various peoples of the world through the same Mylot.
I still have to say that among everone or friends online, I never happened to meet a stranger in person.
So I can not tell you the feeling you get. You then talk to him any meeting you is just fine, initially for simple friendship, and then maybe you'll see!
You may even be a little scared, because as I've always said, you never know who you can hide behind the PC. This is not to scare you of course, but just to warn you.
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@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
alberello - i have lots of friends in fb too. half of them are stranger people and do not know a single information about them. at first days in fb, i added lots of friends to enlists lots of friends in my friend's list. i did this because i need to send game request to help me send gifts too as i played in there. after months of playing, i was fed up already and stopped playing. so that time, i did not added stranger people at all. it was them who did and just accepted them in there. but none of them i meet yet. usually used fb for communicating friends i have known and not a meeting site to have.
thanks guys
@Juliyan23 (600)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
Yes, I agree with you. Facebook helps me to notice whether it was a suspicious person or not by communication between the person to his/her friends , and wheter the information that was provided was true or not.
Eventhough, still - there were some cases in here where the girls were being deceived by their acquaintances.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Sep 12
misjahn:
There are very good people on the line and not so good people on the line. But the problem in your case is you are a woman --not so good people are online. Be careful. If you discuss the same issue with your boy friend he will object. Not that he disbelieves you but it is due to your age. take care.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
12 Sep 12
happy to note you have received my response positively. good. blessings
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
ahmpt... good thing too that you feel good about it too sir... well, i tried how to be considerate of the matter for needs deeper thought and decision making on this thing. my happiness is at stake in here with prior consideration with the feelings of others. thanks for the best wishes and being so kind to all...
good day!
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
sir ravi, yes! he will not like any of the idea. as if i do not know that you know about i am a taken girl with my boyfriend 
... i am amused - haha! even we would say that thing would be a friendly meeting. he would kill me for this 
..
seriously, i am not sure of meeting him to whatever purpose it may served us both, considering of risky things that might happened and the feelings of my boyfriend... whoo... this is an online airing of my relationship with my bf - hehe...
lots of thoughts before putting it into action.
thanks sir
he will not like any of the idea. as if i do not know that you know about i am a taken girl with my boyfriend ... i am amused - haha! even we would say that thing would be a friendly meeting. he would kill me for this ..
seriously, i am not sure of meeting him to whatever purpose it may served us both, considering of risky things that might happened and the feelings of my boyfriend... whoo... this is an online airing of my relationship with my bf - hehe...
lots of thoughts before putting it into action.
thanks sir1 person likes this
@riyauro (6421)
• India
11 Sep 12
Yeah I used to have lot of friends online and I have met a couple of them and it was not scary at all. I have not had any feelings for them and it was casual and nothing more. This was when I was in University and now I don't have much friends online because I don't go to chat sites anymore. I have a feeling that it is just a waste of time for me and nothing else. I am happy for you though for having this Australian friend. You must meet him in person and make sure to meet at a public place. Just take care of yourself okay. Thanks for sharing and have a wonderful day ahead. 
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
11 Sep 12
riyauro:
Elderly women meeting others in public places is fine.
fine. you have given an important point that our friend should meet him in a public place. But the problem is during meeting a young a woman has to guard not for falling in love with him and trying to be more good to him.
This is a conservative view, with which probably our friend may not agree. let us see.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
did you riyau? uhmpt! though my hobby before was chatting hoping to have a friend online then which leads to something meaningful and fall in love, but i did not find my luck to that. me and my peers would rent over internet cafes just to chat. and when a boy would told me that he will meet me, i do not like the idea anymore, seems scary - my gosh! so what i did was that, did not talk with the foreigner so much till he will just faded off and have no touch no more. i remember one man or two that wanted to marry me, nope! i guess not my luck and i do not know about this one either. :) so i thought why not make a try... who knows? what turns me off is when praises me oftentimes and say about beauty, i do not like that one really. hate to live in pretensions. better for that man to say it once or not often, because i can give him a chance. i do not like to elevate myself for them. gee
thanks for this:)
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
guarding once feeling and protecting oneself too sir ravi. you know even met in online, the man is a stranger still. so stranger feeling needs good dealings and stranger man that needs to be dealt with one self too. i guess, guarding oneself to any what might happened is just normal and when have the chances in the world to collide each others feelings and behaviour, there would be no wrong at all when falling in love with him. study each personality yet before anything else. it is hard to decide when you are not certain at all.
thanks sir rAvi :)
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@Juliyan23 (600)
• Indonesia
11 Sep 12
Good for you, Missjahn !
Well, actually I always meet my acquaintance by kik or facebook and after that we exchanged the skype id so I could make a video call (just in case the person put fake pic 
) . Some of them are foreigners , but I never be able to meet them. Even they went to Indonesia, they only went to Bali or Jakarta meanwhile I'm in Yogyakarta 
.
But I ever met some online friends who live at the same city as me - yes, it was very thrilled , hahaha... I just thought about how I should do if they came in front of me , what if they thought that I was so different than my pic or so, and what if the first meeting would be boring and nothing I could do ...Ggggrrrr... Instead of being relax, I was so nervous . But when they came, the feeling was gone easily . I'm not always in the mood on meeting online acquaintaces in real world - I must shy I'm bit introvert and bit shy, so when I feel like I couldn't meet them I just didn't do it or I will make it terrible :)
Have a wonderful day, Missjahn!
And have a wonderful meeting (or dating?? tee hee) with him! ;)
Well, actually I always meet my acquaintance by kik or facebook and after that we exchanged the skype id so I could make a video call (just in case the person put fake pic ) . Some of them are foreigners , but I never be able to meet them. Even they went to Indonesia, they only went to Bali or Jakarta meanwhile I'm in Yogyakarta .
But I ever met some online friends who live at the same city as me - yes, it was very thrilled , hahaha... I just thought about how I should do if they came in front of me , what if they thought that I was so different than my pic or so, and what if the first meeting would be boring and nothing I could do ...Ggggrrrr... Instead of being relax, I was so nervous . But when they came, the feeling was gone easily . I'm not always in the mood on meeting online acquaintaces in real world - I must shy I'm bit introvert and bit shy, so when I feel like I couldn't meet them I just didn't do it or I will make it terrible :)
Have a wonderful day, Missjahn!
And have a wonderful meeting (or dating?? tee hee) with him! ;)@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
good for you that handled it nicely. what i hate about these guys online is that with their high regards and expectations about you. i do not like to be praised telling you that your this and that kind of person. for i want to be me and act naturally. if they like me, they would accept me and my being me.
hope so and would pray for it. thanks
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@Juliyan23 (600)
• Indonesia
16 Sep 12
Yeah you are absolutely rite - even when we have act naturally they've got their own hig expectations about us. :)
Thanks for the comment on my response
@crimsonose80 (283)
• Canada
11 Sep 12
Hi...Thanks to currently technology, with all the latest gadgets, software, people can communicate people online and be closer to one another..Have fun talking to him online like on Facebook, Skype, however you want to talk to him..
It sounds like you just met this guy recently, so far he is friend to talk online..Whether you want to take it further it is up to you two..
Just be careful..Since you still don't know a lot about him other than he is a model..Try to get to know him as much as possible..There are still deceiving people out there..But there are few people I know and other people i read who met their soulmate online...
If you need to talk..I'm here...
Vanessa
@crimsonose80 (283)
• Canada
13 Sep 12
no problem..You are a smart woman you will know when the time is right that he is something you want to invest in emotionally...
Have fun chatting with your man and Im very happy for you...:o)
Have a great day!
Vanessa
@crimsonose80 (283)
• Canada
11 Sep 12
By the way my alias name is crimsonrose.80..not crimsonose..
I forgot to type the "r" when i signed up...
he he..
take care..
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
hi there missjahn,
it sounds like an exciting one. that you will be able to meet in person the guy whom you have met online. and with that opportunity, your friendship will surely grows. wishing you the best.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
hi there... thanks for the best wishes...
so we have the same hope. but lots of things to be happened along the way. i do not know yet. if we could be good friends while online, there would be possibility that i will stand with his offer but if can sense something not good, our friendship will just last in online chatting only
thanks for joining in here :)
thanks for joining in here :)
@eagletrek2 (5499)
• Kingston, New York
11 Sep 12
Hi I met a nice lady on line we never met
in person but she call me up here the hard
part perth city austia is 12 hour head of florida
when she call me for me it was 11pm satarday night
for her it was 11 am sunday moring she paid for
the phone call and then put her cat on the phone no joke
hope fully some day i will meet her in person she
sound like oliva newton john the singer but has a littlemore voice
ok good day
@pahak627 (4558)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
Just be what you are when you meet him. I guess it is not a big deal to meet a person for the first time. There are lots of female who met their online friends and they are comfortable over it. They can do it comfortably, then you also do it comfortably. Good luck.
@joneilromana (226)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
wow. What site is that? It's cool to make new friends. Yeah, I have met some before but I stopped. well, due to certain reasons. Good luck seeing each other!
@Raine38 (12250)
• United States
11 Sep 12
Hmmm, do I smell romance in the air missjahn? 
I have lots of friends online way back in college because one of our subjects had something to do with a certain project on interaction and the modern society. We needed lots of inputs from people from all walks of life, even other countries. Thank God for internet, at least we can do our interviews and talks online. After the project, some of us still bonded and eventually became good friends online. I have met a couple of them when they visited our country and when I was given a chance to travel in their country. Like I said in my previous comment somewhere here, having a friend or someone you know when visiting a place for the first time is a big help. There will be somebody to show you where the good shopping districts are, where the good foods are and of course how to avoid getting robbed and charged too much by cab drivers, lol!
I have lots of friends online way back in college because one of our subjects had something to do with a certain project on interaction and the modern society. We needed lots of inputs from people from all walks of life, even other countries. Thank God for internet, at least we can do our interviews and talks online. After the project, some of us still bonded and eventually became good friends online. I have met a couple of them when they visited our country and when I was given a chance to travel in their country. Like I said in my previous comment somewhere here, having a friend or someone you know when visiting a place for the first time is a big help. There will be somebody to show you where the good shopping districts are, where the good foods are and of course how to avoid getting robbed and charged too much by cab drivers, lol!@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
12 Sep 12
i do not know yet ms. raine. afraid to take the risks or scared of something i really do not know on what should precisely to be scared of.
well, your experience was a great experience. it allowed you to socialize different cultures and fortunately able you to visit another country. wow, a great chance to go to another place. it would be nice to be with kind people who helped and welcomed you in their place. imagine, my brother went in tacloban with his classmates to have a training in there. because they did not know where is the mall, its location to be exact, so they ride a tricycle and as they stopped they noticed that the starting line where the motor picked them was just an overview in the mall. so means to say, it is just a walking distance . the motor just routed at the other street so to bluffed and let them believed that the place to go is a really a far place - hahah.. see, how the driver played them...
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@vanessa11 (296)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
Hi missjahn, good evening. Just be very careful, we really can't tell. I'm sure you've heard about the news about meeting people (from online), they get raped and worst they get killed. Just bring a close friend with you when meeting someone and like what the others say, meet at places where there are people. Goodluck :3
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
13 Sep 12
hello there... that indeed in my plan if meeting would be happening in the future. yes, agree with you for that. but before meeting there are lots of things to be considered first. probably if would like the man really and else i have a boyfriend to consider. i doubt he would like the idea.
thanks for joining in here...
@Marygoround (155)
• Philippines
11 Sep 12
It actually depends. If you've been comfortable with that guy over the internet, there's a big chance that you'll actually enjoy his company. Good luck!
@Ashokraghute (158)
•
24 Dec 12
Congratulate to get Australian blonde boy online. Though I have more than 500 friends on face book but, till date i have not got any girl friend with whom I can share everything and she also can everything with me.
@missjahn (4574)
• Philippines
26 Dec 12
nah... we should not give our trust like that easily. it do not succeed because i did not allow it to happen to meet with him. i put gap because i do not want a rush relationship. and first and foremost i have a bf and as much as i respect him, i also value our relationship. maybe i can meet the man only if i am single whehhe... thanks for joining here :)
