falling OUT of love

I you like a person and sense that he also like you.Do not give your full trust so that you could not be fallen out of love,when the two of you has some serious misunderstandings.You are truly correct that falling in love is very sweet yet when you are falling out,that would felt like the end of your life.Study first the guy who offers his love if it is real or not.You could really felt,sense and even eat it when he treats you like no one else was found in earth.That you felt his love is everlasting,never fades,but just sees only you was his only soul.If that is the guy, then grab him because you are really love and cared for his feelings toward you.

Brings me down to memory lane Teary-eyed from remembering the past. But as what this guy has been telling me... past is past, leave it there. I can say that I have felt the same way before. I fall out of love for the same reasons you said. And definitely Respect must be there in every relationship. Otherwise, someone who has been taken for granted will eventually give up and just walk away.

You have used an important word here... "invest". A relationship is an investment. No, not of money, but of time and emotion. If the other person isn't willing to make or honor your investment, then they aren't worth your time. I met a guy that I really liked, but I soon realized that he had issues. Issues I wasn't going to be able to over come, and if he wasn't willing to go half way in the investment, I wasn't going to waste the resources on him. I'm still friends with him, but I know that the relationship isn't going to go any further than that. And I'm willing to go further, if he were, but, I'm okay with it as it is. Now, you could say - well, she's not looking down the road, but I did. I was willing to be friends if that's all he wanted. And that's where it has stayed for 25 years.

For me, it's trust. The basic foundation of every relationship is trust. The moment it's gone, the rest of what you built to make that relationship work will crumble.

Very true, if mutual love is not nourished it will fade. No matter how much time, love and effort you invested in a relationship, if your love started to take it for granted, forgot to appreciate you or left you alone even if it was just for a while...It's so easy to lose trust in the one you loved. And it's so hard to explain that your love has faded, it cannot be changed any more even though it hurts a lot to admit it, but it won't stop hurting if you keep the relationship going either.

I can not agree with you any more especially"the most important ingredient in every relationship is respect."Because the feeling of love is short but the respect is forever,lover respect each other and cherish each other can lead the love walks longer,so lover can not just considering of themselves and should considering of each other at the same time.

Yes, I agree with you. Falling out of love is the result if you are not valued as a partner. If you can't get along with each other already, one of you will fall out of love eventually. I guess it's quite difficult to the other party to set you free. There many questions to ask why did you fall out of love. They can't just accept your reasons, etc. I hope, first and foremost, when you have the relationship, both of you will nurture your relationship. It's not only a one-sided love (or relationship.) You have to trust, understand, respect, value and love each other.For that reason, some people want to free themselves and regain self-worth again. I hope all of us won't fall out of love. Happy mylotting.

I believe that love, trust and respect goes hand in hand, especially in any relationship, more so if it is a marriage or a relationship between a man and a woman. If one of these is no longer present in the relationship, chances are it will weaken whatever remaining love they still have left for each other.

I really agree with you. I think love has two aspects, to love and to be loved. When we love someone, we also want to be loved. Love won't exist longer if it is unilaterally pay without returning.